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Archived questions from: December, 2010 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

5 year relationship, I don't think she's who I thought she was

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - i have been in a 5 year LDR relationship with my girlfriend and am starting to have doubts about whether or not we should stay together. We met only get to see each other every few months, so it took me a while to get to know her. She is a great ...

I don't know how this works...do couples tend to buy more expensive gifts for their partner through the years and discuss the price range??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I just received the Christmas gift box my bf who I'm in an open relationship with sent from the US, I'm in the UK and he moved from the UK to Asia for a job. I'm from a culture in which we don't celebrate Christmas so this is the first Christmas ...

Should I even be considering getting into a LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5065 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - Aunties! It has been over a year since my last post on here. It has been a great year of finding myself. Been single for well over a year have dated a couple of guys but nothing serious. As the old year comes to its closure and the new year is ...

I know he has a past, I just wish he would leave it there

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5065 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Im in a long distance relationship with a man i love very much he is working toward moving closer to me so we can see each other more. my problem in he still maintains in contact with a few women who he was in a relationship with, right before ...

A world away from my love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - At the beginning of this year I happened upon the woman of my dreams. Actually it was her parents that I met initially, we were both killing time during a particularly long airport layover and became good friends. We talked about our homes and fa...

Am I getting close to the psycho girlfriend stage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Hi there, this is gonna be quite long so I hereby thank you in advance for putting up with me. I'm now in a long distance relationship with a British guy living in the UK while I myself live in Thailand. We met when I went there to do the research. ...

I love my girlfriend and we're in an amazing relationship even though we're so far away....then why did I cheat?????

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - Ok so here's my situation I'm with the love of my life and she's the bestest person ever and we share and talk about everything Everything is great and i truly care for her and miss her and always think about her and she has the same feelings fo...

Am I asking too much? I'm not asking to change, just more emphasis on an emotional connection.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - So I’m not exactly sure where to turn, my friend uses this site a lot and he says it’s always a good help for him, so I’m hoping someone has some insight on my relationship problem. Sorry for it being so long. I’ve been in a long distance rela...

Did he just want to hook up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Ok i’m going to get right into it. I meet this amazing guy. We meet three weeks ago so of course i’m not in love but i can’t stop thinking about him. He’s two years older and he lives a state over about a 3hr car ride. The first day we meet he was ...

I said I missed him and he blocked me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I have or had a friend who I use to get in touch very often. We had this for 4 years and far most this year that is now ending when he was sent to Afghanistan so I guess he took the chance to talk with me and not feel lonely. I really liked tal...

He's not Christian but I am. Does it matter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Hello. I don't have feelings for this boy who is anti-christan we only get to we to see each other for a great while and he gets lonley when i am not around plus he lives far away like 2 hours. So i was wondering if anyone can fall for with an...

How do I get over this crazy in love feeling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5067 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I met this guy when i was 16. From the first time i met him, i was really excited. I thought he was beautiful and i really admired him. So we kept in touch through the years, granted its only been 5 years. Fast forward to the present, and i think ...

Can you really alter a polygraph?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Ok, my question is I want to give my husband a polygraph test and I want to know that he cant alter the test. The reason I want him to take one is because well lets just say his work takes him to different places over seas for a year to a yea...

How do I avoid temptation for him?

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30 December 2010 (F) - im in college at the moment and my boyfriend goes to uni a few hundred miles away so he's never home. when he is here its great because we are a perfect couple, theres no flaw to us, but when he's not here....its not the same. he's a popular boy, ...

I'm paranoid about what could possibly be going on with my girlfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - Hello , i just want to know if its just my mind or if its actually happening !! im in a long distance relationship and believe me when i say my gf and i were soooooo much inlove , i still love her though like crazy but we had our ups and downs an...

My girlfriend's mother still won't accept our lesbian relationship after five years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Hello, I'm a 21 year old woman and have been with my girlfriend for nearly five years now (on and off). She is from a very close family and her mother wont accept us. This means at christmas time for example (when we are both home from uni), that ...

Torn between the love of my life and being my mother's full time carer, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I am in love with a *British male beauty pageant winner*. I am in Australia and I have known him for years but I am finding it very difficult because I know he is the one for me and he feels the same. The problem is that I am my Mum's full time ...

Out Of Town Lover!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for about 6-7 months. He lives outside the city that I live, however we met here in my city. Anyway he is a business man, and I am a career woman myself who has went back to school, so we dont get that much time to ...

Cheating with my brother's friend on my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5067 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend with whom I've been dating for a year and half (long distance relationship). We see each other every 5-6 months. Everything was perfect. I know he loves me and he is the nicest guy I've ever met. But we r different. He is 24 ...

Did I lose a good guy by vacillating? And can I trust the other guy?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Been dating again - Guy one: European guy Was perfect until we fell out with each other over a derogatory word. Guy two: US guy 2 wants to fly me into Florida and has bought me a flight - now am battling what to do. Been getting to know guy two ...

He likes me but he doesn't know if he can handle a long distance relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Ive been talking to this guy for 2 months now. He's a marine curretly stationed in North Carolina while im here in Cali. over the 2 months Our relationship had progressed well and sometimes i would even hint that i wanted to become official and his ...

Should I pretend it doesn't matter that she's not consistent in her feelings for me?.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - I have been kind of attached to this girl for a while and we text and talk all day. We have known each other about 5 years. she is very caring and does think a lot about me. But her actions have terribly confused me. She makes me feel that i am the...

Should we go back to a committed relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I'm now in an open long-distance relationship with this guy. We used to be in a close distance committed relationship for 7 months but after he moved to Asia for a new job, he admitted that he felt too hard to stay committed as he felt like a kid in ...

Do I love him or simply miss having him around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - We live in different countries in Europe. He has flown down to meet me three time from September. We met last week. I love him, he's lovely. Sometimes I think I could end up with him. He's five years older than me (Im 19 and he's 24) Sometimes...

I've become attached, but he's married!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - Hello all, I need your help and I have to admit being so much confused. Since a year or more, I am talking to a guy on net. He is decent and kind, educated and has a good job in another country, where he lives with his wife and 2 babies. We star...

Are we even still dating? He said he doesn't want obligations.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - Sorry if this gets a bit lobg, but I am beyond confused and need some second opinions. So today marks nine months in my LDR. According to him, it's eight but that's besides the point. I guess I should just be happy he even remembered with the way ...

We love each other, but should we start something long distance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - Okay, so irecently moved from NewYork to Florida. While iwas in NewYork, imet this guy. We instantly clicked, and he is now one of the two people who ireally trust. He is the first guy iever fell in love with, and he has fallen for me too. We had a ...

Convenient FWB? Or a relationship in progress? I'm confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - About 7 months ago i met this guy online (lives out of town) he came out we had a nice time and ended up sleeping together. He then returned two weeks later but I didn't feel it, and told him i didn't see things progressing. We decided to be FWB as ...

Does he truly love me or just like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - i'm 17 yr old girl and i'm in love with a guy truly and deeply from 2 yrs ago. We were friends for 1 yr ago. Altogether i've know him from 3 yrs ago. i want this relationship to develop into marriage. The only problem betwen us is that he doesn't ...

I lied to my Mom, but I love this boy so much

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - About 5 months ago i met my uncle's wife's brother at my little cousin's birthday party. They all live in mexico so i rarely see them. This boy and I didn't talk, we just looked at each other and smiled, through out the whole party. After that...

My LDR man has demonstrating his affection for me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 24. We're in a long distance relationship. California and Asia that is. We dated while he studied abroad at my school last spring semester, and talked every day throughout summer. When fall semester started, we could only ...

Where to now? I do not know what to do with my feelings for him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - Dear cupid, Happy st.stephens day to yee all!! I have posted the problem related to this guy before- and I hope you all could help me again!! i met him in late Sept this year 2010, we were getting along so great for a month. After a month of ...

How to move on when your heart has been tossed in the trash can?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - I have been in love with a man for 4 years, we have been LDR. Well, today Christmas day he erased me from his Skype contacts without saying a word. I text him and he didn't replied. I feel like he threw all we shared and all he promised during this ...

Guys: How do you deal with the break-up of a long distance relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

25 December 2010 (?) - A question for guys.. How do you deal with a break up? In particular a break up of a LDR? Girls tend to cry more, talk more about it but as guys genrally don't do this how do they handle it? Is there ever regret? What about contact? How long do you ...

Would this be a weird way to have our reunion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5072 days ago

24 December 2010 (M) - A rather odd situation but here goes. When studying abroad for a few weeks a while ago I met a girl on one of the courses. Nothing much happened then but since I came back some months ago we have stayed in touch, talked a lot etc. long story sh...

Please don't judge, need advice. I'm crazy for him. He has 5 kids by 3 women and his wife is pregnant. At wit's end

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - I need help. I've been in a relationship with this man for over a year now. He's married. In the begnning I idnt know he was married. His family lied to me he lied to me. I got pregnant and we now have I child together. She is 5 months old. He and ...

Am I crazy for wanting intimacy NOT leading to sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for seven months now and although we live 70 odd miles apart we see each other very frequently. He is 14 years my senior. He is a decent guy, we go out, he helps me with things, he cooks for me (if he's not taking me out). ...

Like this great Mexican guy, but am travelling whole of next year. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, Socorro!! Please help me!! This is a job for King Soloman, but he was busy, and you aunts at DC are the next best thing. I´m really in a bind, and the only solution I can think of is to just cut myself in half... but that would...

I can't help but blame myself for our breakup

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

23 December 2010 (?) - My LDR boyfriend recently broke up with me and I have not contacted him and have absolutely no intention of, unless he wants to. It's nearly Christmas and New Year next week and there could be a possibility of being tempted to wish him a happy ...

My LDR girlfriend has just logged off chat and went off to be alone in her room with a guy she has kissed before!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - what does it mean when your long distance girlfriend goes offline on msn so she can watch a movie with her male bestfriend that she kissed before?!!! I was just talking to my ldr gf and she left me for her best male friend to watch a movie in...

She cant trust me after I was having conversations with my ex behind her back, what should I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - Hi Cupid Well I'm having the problem of my love life at the moment. I was with my ex-girlfriend for 1 year 4 months. For the last 4 months we have been separated by distance. We have opted for a long distance relationship because we really believ...

Is it possible to finally be together one day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Okay, i just turned 15. Imet this guy about a year ago and I'm pretty sure I'm in love with him, and he is as well. The thing is, he lives in NewYork, and i live in Florida :/ also, we never dated or anything. I lived in New York for a while, which ...

No response, no replies, What's up with our LDR?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - I haven't heard from my LDR in almost three days. Yesterday, I assumed he was still asleep but when I texted him, he said he had been dealing with some stuff since the day before. I said ok and later on texted him saying I love you, but got no ...

Help me understand mu boyfriend's mother please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - Please help me understand my boyfriend's mum! she tells my boyfriend he is useless etc., and moans at him when he doesn't do a job she wants doing straight away, and complains that my boyfriend and I are on the phone too much (all 7 months of our ...

I'm still in love with her, is this because she dumped me or do I just need more time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

22 December 2010 (M) - Hi my queston is if is a good idea to send her a marry christmas sms or email? or for new year wishes? or for her birthday, which she have it in the end of january. which it will be a month that we broke up and maybe is better then to show her frie...

I think my ex may be expecting more than I am when he visits AND I have a new interest and am wondering when is having first sex a good idea?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - Hi all 3 I have a few questions for you guys to consider.. any feedback is appreciated more than you know. Quick background: -I dated my best friend of 3.5 years for all of 4 months this past July-November. He's in the Marine Corps ...

My husband is talking like he is single!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - Hi, my husband is now in another country doing some bussines...I talked with a friend of him, and he told me: "Your husband sounds very happy there..he doesn't want to come back..he saids over there is a paradise..and he wants me to come there and I ...

She claims she's never horny, but get super wet

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

22 December 2010 (M) - I dont understand how my gf is never horny. We have alot of foreplay and she gets dripping wet all over but yet she says she doesn't feel horny. Also it seems that she never initiates sex or anything sexual, i always have to start doing ever...

I say I love him, but does he really love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - So, I'm 15 and I've been with this boy (he's 16) for about 4 months now. And I know that I really care for him and I love him but I know i'm not IN LOVE with him. he tells me he loves me and I say it back. but I always wonder if he really does love ...

I've only just come to realize what my long-distance friend means to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - hey, I have met a girl through the internet 8 years ago, and we always felt a connection but the problem is we completly live from each others. I live in Belgium and she lives all the way in the USA. we have neglected our feelings for one ano...