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30-35,
*ofialoren
writes:We live in different countries in Europe. He has flown down to meet me three time from September. We met last week. I love him, he's lovely. Sometimes I think I could end up with him. He's five years older than me (Im 19 and he's 24)Sometimes he gets me really annoyed though. He does compare his country to mine all the time- 'Oh but in ---, this is better'. It annoyes the hell out of me and I was close to ending it with him because after he left after one trip, I felt all hurt and annoyed that nothing I have is good enough.There is another thing that annoys the hell out of me. My parents live in Asia at the moment and I'm there for the holidays. We can't really skype like we used to because he's in the mountains and the internet connection is rubbish. Anyway, we call each other up and its annoying that he'll always say I have to go now we have to ski or I have to go for dinner with my parents.I mean we were to talk on skype last night and he texted me that he had to go for dinner and that we should talk tomorrow? So he couldnt call me up for a minute to tell me? I hate him sometimes.The thing is I think he's more in love with me than I am with him. He's very attached to me and wants to get amrried and all and I love him as well. I can't imagine not being with him but I feel I have changed as a person since we have been going out (a year now) Im boring, I don't go anywhere or do anything. I miss him so much when I am back in uni and Im sick of this. I used to be a very popular girl back in school and I enjoyed life.I'm confused. I can't live without him but I'm also a bit sick of our relationship situation. I suspect he's a little childish. I mean how can you keep going out with your parents!!! All the time. Oh dear god.Help me. I'm in tears here.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (28 December 2010):
 I'm sorry but I can't see any future in this with what I have read. Can't you possibly just let him down gently and say you will be friends. He is too far away for you to be trying to be possessive with you. His excuses are so trivial and you are falling for it. You have put your life on hold for someone who you hardly see and he doesnt help by his excuses as to why he can't maintain the relationship. If you let him go and get on with your life then you will be much happier in the long run and who knows, there will be a guy for you much closer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2010): Im going through the same thing right now my boyfriends so childish and he usually never takes anything serious. I told him i didnt like the way that he wqqas acting aournd me but he told me and i think its true, that if you relly love me youll accept me for who i am and not change anything aabout me. but if it gets a little out of hand you can jus tell me anf ill try my best to fix it. i hoped this helped in a way.. good luck!! xxx :)
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