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writes:I have been in love with a man for 4 years, we have been LDR. Well, today Christmas day he erased me from his Skype contacts without saying a word. I text him and he didn't replied. I feel like he threw all we shared and all he promised during this time to the trash. He was so cold about it. I feel like garbage right now. I know I have to move on, but how?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2010): the best way to move on is to not make contact with him and try to keep yourself busy i know it will be hard but when someone hurts the best revenges sometimes is just ignoring them.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (26 December 2010):
 seems very heartless to do this on christmas day! do you know why he did this and do you want to know why or just move on from him? how long distance? have you ever met in person? did he give you any indication that he was losing interest prior to this? i dont know how well you have gotten to know him, is there a chancce that he is married or in a r.ship already? to get over him i woud keep in my mind that only a horrible person dumps someone in this way, especially on christmas day! remember that you deserve better than that. make sure you look after yourself and nurse your heartache. if you have friends or family that will be there for you make sure you let them! give yourself nice things to look forward to, a holiday or nice days out even. look very carefully at the relationship and decide if it was really all that great or are there thngs abut him that you will be glad you dont have to deal with anymore. maybe making a list of his good and bad points wil help you to do this. do not get tooo caught up in looking for answers as to why this has happened. he has not wanted to give you what you wanted from him and only he knows the answer to that but in any case may not want to give you the truthful version. i hope you can remain strong and realise that while he has gone and you will naturally grieve for him, this will get easier day by day and you will be free to meet someone more deserving of you
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2010): best way to get oVer somebody old is to find somebody new.
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