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writes:I have been talking to this guy for about 6-7 months. He lives outside the city that I live, however we met here in my city. Anyway he is a business man, and I am a career woman myself who has went back to school, so we dont get that much time to spend together. However we see each other when he's here on business, but we dont see each other any time ouside of that. He makes no effort to visit outside of work, so we are left seeing each other during odd hours because of my busy, sporadic work schedule. He doesnt call that often, but texts me periodically to tell me how much he misses me, etc...we have already been intimate, and he claims he's hooked. I just dont understand, early in the relationship he would call me from work, while he was on the road traveling, and text me everyday. I dont know if I should continue further with him or let him go, it seems this relationship is going nowhere. Oh and he asked me to be his girlfriend, but only when he moves to my city, which I have not gotten any feedback on yet. What should I do???? Help!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk, thats what I was thinking, even though I didnt want to. But he has pictures of us together as well as me alone in his phone, he keeps them there, and when he comes to visit they are still there and lets me have his phone with no questions asked. I have talked to him in the beginning of the relationship from his home, during all hours, he would talk to me until he dozed off on the phone. And he use to plan things for us to do like amusement parks,and etc...he even invited me to his Company Christmas party this year (Didnt go because I had to work), He just recently, about a week ago asked me to come visit him at his place in the city he lives, so a serious girlfriend I think is unlikely. But he did this 180 turn around after a big fight we had. He had planned to come up and visit me, but since he usually worked during that time, he paid someone else to work his job so he could come(he has several jobs), I couldnt meet up with him @ the time he was coming up, and it turned into a big ordeal, and I told him to not even come because I was pissed @ that point. I guess he was upset because he lost the money. Anyway we made up after that, but his efforts seem to weaken a bit after that, @ that point we hadnt had sex yet. He claims hes busy, as am I, but I find the more intimate we are the more emotionally involved I become, I think I will probably have to call it quits before someone gets hurt.
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reader, soon567 +, writes (29 December 2010):
This relationship is only about sex while he near you. You will be his love when he comes to you and he'll have another one at his resident. You know what its all about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): I hate to be blunt, but you're being played and it's all about sex for him. He's likely married or has a girlfriend. At first he was in the "chase" for you and that's why he called and texted. Now that he's "caught" you he's losing interest. He will still want to see you now and then for sex, but that's all he's interested in.
That's not a bad thing, if you're in to that. Some people like to have "buddies" they can see for fun but not have the drama that goes into a relationship. So, if you want to just have him for fun, you can. If you want him for a relationship, it will never happen.
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