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Archived questions from: September, 2007 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

I want her back, but it could destroy me. Do I gamble???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6252 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - Do I gamble and try and get something back with my ex? For those of you who haven't bee keeping up. My girlfriend of 2 years split with me back in June, because she was going to University. We had endured a long distance relationship sin...

In my relationship, I miss my family and friends who live a long way away. It's affecting our relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6252 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - HI I have a wierd guestion ... Don't know where to start. Me and my BF have a great relationship .. I know that he loves me and I love him. He is year younger ... has his whole family here in NY, his friends, job .. his whole entire life ......

Will his girlfriends think I'm immature?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6252 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm in an age gap relationship. I am 18, and my boyfriend is in his 20s. Everything is wonderful so far, we've been dating for about 7 months. I've met his family, he's met mine, he's met my friends, everyone gets along, wo...

My partner wants to go to university, but I'm afraid of the distance this implies; feel miserable verytime it's brought up.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6251 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - my partner wants to goto university, and i hate the thought of them leaving me. I know a relationship couldn't work between us with a 50mile distance if they go. I don't know what to do or say. 'Cos its their life and they can do what they want, but ...

Will she ever leave her husband for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - I met a beautiful married woman 5 years ago in a restaurant on a Saturday. She was from a neighboring state. We talked and clicked. She was perfect - we fell in love. She has an a**hole for a husband. We stayed in touch and she visits when she...

Is it fair that he will be leaving me on my own for a month every year?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - I moved out to new york to live in new york where he is from and where his business is out of. But now he is going back to colorado every january for a month to rent his houses (his other business). Im basically out of luck because i don't have my ...

I don't know what's going on at the moment.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - Hi - my boyfriend has emigrated to Australia (since May) and although he wants me to join him he is currently texting me at 3am, 4am (his time) from bars at least once or twice a week. I have asked him whether he would like it if I went out ...

Is he trying to get out of the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - I think my relationship has run its course, though I'm scared to say it. We're nothing at all like we were when we first started seeing each other- we were spontaneous, amorous, happy- everything lovers should be. We are each other's first ...

I have a crush on my Music Producer. Is it worth pursuing him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - I am a small-time musician and I have a seriously intense crush on my producer, who is in a (very) long distance relationship. He's 31 and I'm 19. Are there too many reasons not to pursue him, or should I just go for it? He sends obvious vibes ...

2 years together. I had to go to New Zealand for a while, and she cheated. Now she's really mean towards me. Do we have a chance at all??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - Hi My now ex and me had been dating for 2 years and known each other for 7 years (since she was 14). She was always really into me and talked about marriage and kids and how much she loved me and couldnt be with anyone else. She has had a few b/...

Distance of 300 miles is starting to eat us up. How can we find the common ground??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - Hi. me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years and 9 months. we're very close and very open with eachother.. the down side is that we're long distance. about 300 miles between us..(i'm in the s.f. bay area and she's about an hour from los ...

My ex has started speaking to me again, and I'm replying to her. But am I just headed for MORE heartache?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - My question is this: My ex has started speaking to me again, and I'm replying. But am I just headed for more heartache? I posted a question just yesterday telling how miserable I was (Because yesterday, I really was miserable over the situation...

Am I wrong in being disappointed that it's always me spending the $$ and making the effort?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and have been for about 4 years while we both finish school in different states. I'm planning on moving out there at the end of this upcoming summer when I graduate. I love him so much, and do ...

My long distance bf has totally changed and become vicious - how can I tell if he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - im in a longdistance relationship for 19 months now. my bf completely changed. dnt know if he still loves me. he dnt even take pics of us ,he dnt seem very sad of going away. al he want is being vicous. how can i know if he loves me? ...

So miserable... My ex-girlfriend is all I want in the world. She cannot be mine, and it hurts. What do you think?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6250 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - Please help me. Today, I'm so, so miserable about everything. Call it an off-day if you must, but whatever it is, it's dragging me WAAAY down. It's just over 3 months since my girlfriend and first love broke up with me, due to (as she claims) ...

She's keeping us a secret!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - She's keeping us a secret! I'm involved in a long-distance relationship. We're not kids (both in our 40's). We started contacting each other a year ago, when she was separated. Her divorce was final a few months ago, I am now separated. Yes...

My boyfriend of 3 years have moved away to University. He's getting on better with the girls than the guys. I'm so worried!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I'm 18 and my boyfriend of nearly 3 years has moved away 2 uni. we're each others first love and used to see each other everyday.we were unseperable. now he's moved away im finding it so difficult. everytime i speak to him (which isnt that often) ...

He cheated, but he won me back... Now he's had to move 2 hours away! I love him, but I have doubts...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I am so conflicted. I have been dating a man for about 4 years. Last March I found out he cheated on me with my best friend. I broke it off with him and kicked him out of my house. Afterwards he was very remorseful and fought very hard to win me ...

I don't know how he'd react if I asked him out, or how my friends would react! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - My family has been friends with this other family since before I was even born and now they have four kids and my parents have me and my brother. When we were little we used to share a bath and everything. I am like, best friends with the two girls ...

The Turkish guy says he'd leave all behind to be with me and marry, but my family think he'd doing it for a ticket in UK. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Somebody help me, i recently went to marmaris in july 2007 i met this turkish guy who worked at the hotel where i was staying, i noticed he was staring at me all the time because i am blonde and i know the turks love blondes but then we got chatting ...

Is it worth falling in love with her if she is just going to move away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6196 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - Right, well my girlfriend will be going to university next year, and I am the year below her at school so I will be going a year after her. I've been with her for just over 6 months and she means the world to me, but to clarify i do not love her ...

I hate how the only guys that seem to like me are online. What can I do to solve this painful problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I have really bad luck when it comes to guys. I am 17, and have never had a boyfriend. But here's the thing: I met this guy online, and we've been friens for 2 years, He says he really likes me, And i like him too. I want to meet him so badly, ...

I can't get it through my thick skull...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6258 days ago

25 September 2007 (M) - I need help I am in love with this girl I only met her over the summer and when I first saw her I had this awsome feeling hit me. Her brother became one of my best friends. But I asked her where did she live? and she said she lived in Texas and I ...

He lives far away but maintain contact. How do I know it's true love and exclusive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6258 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid... am a lady of 24 yearys and i have been dating this guy for 3yrs 1mnt now...he is caring loving and everything ...but the only problem is that we are always far away from each other...He is a footballer and he always t...

I had to move, so my girlfriend said "she loves me, but can't anymore." Please help me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6259 days ago

24 September 2007 (M) - I wont bore you with the detail, but 5 months ago I came out of a relationship, or rather, I was thrown out of it by circumstance. I had to move away from this girl who I considered to be the love of my life. That may sound foolish, since she is my ...

My wife and I have become incredibly attached to each other! We don't want this to cause us problems - what can we do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6259 days ago

24 September 2007 (M) - Right some of you may say this isn't all that bigger problem but its getting in the way of things. Well me and my wife have been together since we were 16,known each other all throughout school and been married 7 years. Just recently though we have ...

He's seeing a girl who lives over in South Africa... But I don't want him to go because I like him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6235 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - i am in love with a guy who is in a realtionship with a girl in south africa! the thing is we have been seeing each other for the past few months and now he is going to see her in october and i dont want him to go! he says he has deep feelings for ...

He's very withdrawn, emotionally detached even with me, I'm thinking our LD relation won't work due to this aspect of his personality?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

22 September 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for less than a year. We have a long distance thing at the moment, but we've met and have established that we're dedicated to each other. But (argh why must there be a but!) he's so emotionally detached and generally cold ...

He seems to be losing his patience with me, and I don't want our relationship to be a burden for him! I'm getting depressed.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

22 September 2007 (F) - Hi DearCupid. For the past few months, I have been getting more and more depressed. I have just started my final year of A-levels, and already I feel like I'm getting lost in it all. I can't concentrate any more. My home life is volatile, with my ...

I told him about a rape fantasy I had which he said he liked, but he wanted something darker/dirtier.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

22 September 2007 (F) - I feel somewhat embarrased to write this but from reading some of the responses, perhaps someone can help me. My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship right now and we're both pretty sexual people and into various aspects of BDSM. ...

Should I have made more effort to see him? Now I have upset him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - I need some advice. My boyfriend and I have had our first misunderstanding and I don’t know what to do about it. He had sent me a message last night saying that he had arranged an event with some important people he knows which I understood was ...

We're used to seeing each other every day but now it will be only once a month, until college. How will this work out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

20 September 2007 (M) - I need help I'm moving away from fl and I love my gf she is 18 and I'm 17 we have been dating for about 6 months we had sex a lot and we both love each other. This is both of ours very first relationships that we have ever been in. I have to move ...

I'm married. I've fallen in love with someone far away, but I don't know if I should up and go to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6250 days ago

19 September 2007 (M) - I have been married for 4 years (started dating since '98). Things were good (not the greatest) with her from the beginning. Let's start from the beginning... I was previously engaged to a wonderful person, but she died of lukemia. Ever s...

How do I break off the engagement to my long distance partner? I've found someone better for myself!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - What should I do. Am 28 years, I was engage with this guy whom i did not know, He was introduced to me by a friend. The guy is in abroad we were contacting each other on phone, I posted my picture to him and he also posted his to me. We talked on...

Is having phone sex normal? Maybe I should look for a better intimate and more meaningful relationship with somebody who lives closer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

19 September 2007 (?) - ok so me and my bf are in a long distance relationship and i dont know if its normal to have phone sex? im not too much of a sexually experianced girl i have only had 2 sexual partners in the past...and im 18 but now i am having an urge to have a ...

My gf split with me, as her family was moving away. We tried to talk, but it was awkward, as she sounded angry.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

18 September 2007 (M) - Hi. My girlfriend split with me because her family was moving house, about 130 miles away from me, and didn't want our relationship to continue. We tried to talk after she moved away, but it was awkward. She sounded angry with me, so I decided tha...

Is it normal for a guy not to let go of the last relationship when he's involved in the next one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - Dear Cupids I have been with this guy for four months now. He is wonderful and very appreciating of me. We are very good friends and the relationship is progressing well. When we started he told me he was dating someone who is 1000 miles away ...

How can I make sure he'll write to tell me where he is once he's back in the U.S.?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6235 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - How do I know if he will write back to me? I'm friend to this guy in the Air Force. We've been keeping in touch since December last year. He's in Aviano Italy, but recently got orders to come back to the U.S. but didn't told me where exactly. I...

Is my long distance bf calling me less because he's busy or because he wants to split up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

18 September 2007 (?) - So the thing is that I'm in a long distance relationship with this guy who I haven't met yet. He lives so far away, like a couple states over. He used to call me so much and now he calls me less. And when I call, it's like 2 mins we talk and he's...

I'm due to go backpacking for four and a half months. I'm giving everything up for this. How will it affect my relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - Hi guys, I was wondering if I could have some advice. I am due to backpack round Europe for four and half months and I leave in just under a week. I am 32 years old and I have a great job and a great apartment that I love. I am going to be g...

My girlfriend broke up with me because I am a virgin. She now wants to have fun with me, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

17 September 2007 (M) - Hey people, So me and my ex broke up for summer, she said she needed space and wasn’t ready for the commitment. 3 months later, she has returned back to the uk. When I found out she was back I sent her an email and we got chatting on msn, she...

In a long distance relationship... But after doing some research, I think this girl may not be who she says she is. What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

17 September 2007 (M) - I've been in a long distance relationship for almost 2 months now and I feel like I'm in love with this girl but after searching her phone number on google to try and find her myspace (She said she's forgotten the email/got hacked and she told me ...

My boyfriend is going over-seas soon... How will I cope with loss of contact and worry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

15 September 2007 (F) - Hi aunts My boyfriend is in the army and going over-seas soon Im so scared for him and worried how ill cope not having a lot of contact Someone suggested blueys but i dont know what these are can anyone tell me please Thank's...

I've developed feelings for a man I think lives too far away from me for things to work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

15 September 2007 (F) - I have been e-mailing a guy in the forces,who is serving abroad, for a while now. It started out as cheering someone up in a horrible place, but soon turned to flirting!We talk almost every night, and seem to have alot in common.He now wants to meet ...

Will I ever be able to even TALK to her ever again? I'd like to, but it's so painful. I love her!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

15 September 2007 (M) - Hi. A little while after my girlfriend split with me (after 2 years of being together), I found that talking to her was always difficult. I'd had (sn still have) many emotions and feelings that I couldn't give her. I couldn't tell her that I loved...

Should I remain single? I am afraid to make a wrong decision between these two guys.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

15 September 2007 (F) - I'm confused on which guy to choose. The first one is my boyfriend who seems to be very good and perfect but i do not really understand him. We hardly talk about ourselves, and furthermore we are now in different countries. I feel that he is the ...

Should I wait for him to make his mind up that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me OR should I just forget about him and try to RE-do my life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

15 September 2007 (F) - I am 29 yo and I feel like my life is not complete or that it has no meaning. I am not happy most of the time. My relationship with my b/f is not stable and we are also separated by hundrends of miles. I am not happy with my career, don't like ...

I don't trust my long distance lover. Why hasn't he contacted me today, he usually does?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

15 September 2007 (F) - My bf and I are in a long distance relationships, so we talk on the phone a lot, he calls me on the mornings, noon , and at night...However, today, I spent the whole morning, noon and night calling him and text messaging him. He did not answer nor ...

I can't tell him that I'm unsure of our relationship b/c his best friend just died - I can't hurt him anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

14 September 2007 (F) - Im so unsure what to do i have been seeing my current boyfriend for a month and its very long distance and ive only seen him a few times in that time. And im going through alot of things this year including the sudden passing of my grandad and i ...

I you loved someone, wouldn't you do anything for that person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

14 September 2007 (F) - IF YOU LOVED SOME ONE WOULDNT YOU DO ANYTHING ???????? well heres my question, my fiance and me are living about 5hrs away and were still kinda young and not making so much money i seen him in july and now i am going crazy i want to see h...