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writes:Right, well my girlfriend will be going to university next year, and I am the year below her at school so I will be going a year after her. I've been with her for just over 6 months and she means the world to me, but to clarify i do not love her yet, but I'm certain I will by the time she has to leave, we barely ever argue and she's perfect for me, but is it worth falling in love with her if she is just going to move away? should i end it now and save a lot of pain? or keep going and see what happens?Thanks
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reader, halfamoto +, writes (26 November 2007):
halfamoto is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe uni talk has come up a few times, but now its a cirtanty that shes going to take a year out and we will both goto the same uni or ones close to each other. I'd just like to thank you for your help, it has helped me a lot.
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reader, Dustin587  +, writes (27 September 2007):
 It all depends on distance. In my case, the college I go to is 10 minutes from my home. Most people associate college with a long distance movement, but many people will stay in their state. It's unlikely that she's moving out of state due to the tremendous cost of out-of-state tuition. If she is moving far away, you two should talk about it. If she's going to be nearby, I don't guess you have anything to worry about :).
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reader, masquerade711  +, writes (26 September 2007):
 Well, not all good things must come to an end, my friend. First of all, it depends how far away she's moving. Will you be able to see her on a semi-regular basis, or will it be Thanksgiving or Christmas before she comes home? Long-distance relationships are never easy, but I definitely think you and your girlfriend need to sit and talk about where you both see your relationship going. If you don't want to do that, I would say stick with it for a couple of months, and if you're finding it too hard, maybe it's time to break it off. Hope this helps! :)
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