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My long distance bf has totally changed and become vicious - how can I tell if he loves me?

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Question - (28 September 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 September 2007)
A female South Africa age 30-35, anonymous writes:

im in a longdistance relationship for 19 months now. my bf completely changed. dnt know if he still loves me. he dnt even take pics of us ,he dnt seem very sad of going away. al he want is being vicous. how can i know if he loves me?

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A female reader, JustAskJen United Kingdom +, writes (28 September 2007):

JustAskJen agony auntThe answer is simple, ask him. If the worst comes to the worst at least you know where you stand, and move on. I know you love him and i know what you are going through is hard but you owe it to yourself to know, you deserve better than being shunned.

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A female reader, Just Jo United Kingdom +, writes (28 September 2007):

I know sometimes the old saying, absence makes the heart grow fonder is soppy, but i think in this case that you may have fallen into this catagory, and can only think of the past nice things your boyfriend did .

We can all wear rose tinted specs on occasion, and don't want to see things as they are in the old light of day.

You sound like you have a lot of love to give some special guy, who will in turn love you back.

This guy is not showing signs of love if he is "being vicious", you are far to clever and special to let someone treat you harmfully.

You desreve the best, and the only way you will find the best is to break tieswith this relationship , which are only hurting you, and make way for what the future has in store for you.

You are a bright girl, and have a lot to lok forward to.

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