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writes:I have really bad luck when it comes to guys. I am 17, and have never had a boyfriend. But here's the thing: I met this guy online, and we've been friens for 2 years, He says he really likes me, And i like him too. I want to meet him so badly, especially since we have been friends for a while. He lives in Australia though, and I live in Canada. I dont know what to do. I hate how the only guys that seem to like me are online. What can I do to solve this painful problem?
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reader, drastic knowledge  +, writes (27 September 2007):
 well there really is no way to solve it because no mater if you see him it wont make it better just worse as hes going to be so far away after you return home or he leaves and the only ways to have a normal relationship would for some one to take a leap of faith in this a move
but really cant seem to see that happing here so i say that you must put your self out there more online and not as much when you cant put up the block button and never hear from the guy again after something goes wrong
well you should get off the computer more and get out with friends and go places and see new people in person and no all guys other think your not there type just you may seem not intressed in them
good luck take care and i think you should remain friends with him but keep it at that and find a bf your age and near you easy that way but you got to try nothing hardly comes to you with out much work
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reader, brooke5426  +, writes (26 September 2007):
 wow. that is quite a long distance thing going on. i think you should realise that you are obviously a really nice girl and it seems like only guys you meet online like you because they are the ones who are really getting to talk to you and getting to know you.
be wary of people you meet online - its very very easy to pretend to be someone your not and im a bit unsure how good an idea it is to meet someone from the net unless its somewhere you know well and local to you. i would definitely not recommend going all the way to australia to meet someone no matter how well you get on. if something goes horribly wrong you are a long way from home.
use the guys you meet online as practice for how to speak to guys and how to be around them and to build up your confidence because obviously you are attractive to men, you just need to meet the right one in person and be able to get to know someone in person the way you get to know people online. it will happen.
brooke
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