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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm confused on which guy to choose. The first one is my boyfriend who seems to be very good and perfect but i do not really understand him. We hardly talk about ourselves, and furthermore we are now in different countries. I feel that he is the perfect boyfriend and i dont really like the fact that we are of a different nationality.Back at home, i have a very close guy friend who shares most of his thoughts with me. Then one day he told me that he liked me. I ignored him for sometime but then i realised that i missed him. I feel that i understand him more and he is closer to me. He treats me very very well and always never fail to cheer me up. the only thing is that he is quite forgetful and lazy, and i am afraid i might not be able to stand this. Please tell me who should i choose? Or should i just remain single? I am afraid to make a wrong decision. Thank you!
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reader, Ears4tears  +, writes (15 September 2007):
 When the truth be told the only person who can really make this decision is you huni, Most people struggle to find one wonderful guy in life let alone two... you should consider yourself a lucky women. Can i ask why the different nationalities bothers you so much, coz in the great scheme of things it really doesnt matter especially if you really care for this guy. Follow your heart huni in making the your decison only you will know whether its wright one. Best of luck xxx
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reader, ***** +, writes (15 September 2007):
ok this is the thing i can relate to you, the only person that can decide is you, but i will tell you something your with your boyfriend and you have feelings for someone eles so that means that this friend of yours is the one you should be with life is too short to hang about your going to make mistakes in life even when it comes to boyfrinds. i think that you sould maybe go out with your friend go out have fun and see if how he is around you,even if he is lazy and laydback it doesnt matter if he really wants to be with you he will try and make a effort! let me know how it goes hope i helped you. ***** x
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