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Archived questions from: June, 2016 (see latest in Health category)

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How do I seem more open so he could approach me one more time? How do I get rid of my shyness and nervousness?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3103 days ago

30 June 2016 (F) - Okay so I've been going to this new gym for weeks, and a week go, a guy at the gym saw me doing a workout incorrectly, and he came to me and told me how to do it right, and since then, I started to notice him. I've seen him giving a weird glance to ...

Why is she avoiding sex and won't discuss it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3103 days ago

30 June 2016 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend around about 18 months now. At the start of the relationship we had sex often, however around the 6 month mark that slowed down and would only do it once a month and then at the nine month mark it stopped completely, ...

Can't help feel offended by boyfriends comment. Advice please !

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3102 days ago

29 June 2016 (F) - Well my boyfriend was showing me this video the other day , the music video from fifth harmony called work. He said I look a bit like Camila cebelo , and I said thanks (she's really pretty if you guys have seen her!) anywaysyyyy he said to me that ...

He's giving me the silent treatment right now, Will he return to me? I know he's abusive but I want him back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3104 days ago

29 June 2016 (F) - I recently learned that the guy im dating is a narcissist. We've been through at least 3 cycles of devalue/discard and a recent cycle of re-idealization. He's giving me the silent treatment right now, will he ever return my calls or come ar...

Passion has gone from our private life. We don't get out socially together enough. How do I woo her back again?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3054 days ago

29 June 2016 (M) - My wife and I have been together for 8 years now. We met in China and for several years, things were rocky. Then after so much conflict and so many problems, things settled down. We are looking forward to our first home settling so we can move i...

How can I address this? I have trouble trusting women and I'm feeling resentful that my dating experiences haven't been good.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3104 days ago

28 June 2016 (M) - I have a lot of trouble trusting women. I have female friends that I can trust to a degree. But when it comes to dating I can't really trust women because of my past with them. I'm 23 years old. I never had a good dating life and am resentful abo...

Why can't I let go? Breaking up has left me feeling so low.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3105 days ago

28 June 2016 (F) - My boyfriend of six months broke up with me over text a month ago- I get it the relationship wasn't exactly a two way street. We did everythingn in his time and I put up with a lot more than I should have- like him bringing his friends over on date ...

Would you go to a reunion with a brother who blames you for Dad's alcoholism?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3105 days ago

27 June 2016 (M) - Hello, I am the youngest of four. I have two older sisters and a brother. My dad passed away in 2008 and my mom in 2013. When my dad passed away my brother called me two days later blaming me for his death. He died of a bad liver due to drinking. My ...

Breaking up was the right decision so why do I feel bad now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3106 days ago

27 June 2016 (F) - I was okay for two weeks when busy traveling for work, but home now and thinking about this man I was seeing for the past four years. It was a difficult relationship and never really knew where I stood with him. If I was being real, I would al...

My gf won't be sexually intimate

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3104 days ago

26 June 2016 (M) - Hi. I've been with my gf for two and a half years. I love her to bits and I really feel she's the love of my life but she refuses to be physically intimate. We only kiss. I have a high sex drive and had a very active sex life in the past. I'm ...

Why do some young women go out to night clubs dressed they way they do?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3107 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - Why do the women at the night clubs dress like s^^ts?? So I'm talking here about women who wear clothes with plunging cleavages, booster bras, short skirts and the like. We went to a club last weekend and there were many women barely dressed. ...

Is there such a thing as relationship anxiety? How do I manage this anxiety?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3109 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I've had horrible experiences with exes. My first love cheated on me twice and both times he choose the other girl over me. That in a sense kind of left me emotionally scarred and since then I haven't had a relationship last more than a couple o...

She rejected my invitation. I still want to be friends. How do I keep things light when I see her again?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3108 days ago

24 June 2016 (M) - Hello agony aunts So this week I asked a female friend of mine if she wanted to meet for a coffee sometime and I mentioned we don't get opportunities to talk at work with our different schedules. Which is true as we don't do, anyway to cut ...

My boyfriend has a fat fetish and wants me to gain more weight! I've already gained 100!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2582 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I met my bf almost a year and a half ago and we imediately hit it off great. Then I weighed about 150lbs. The first 4 months were great and he was so caring and attentive always surprising me with my favorite snacks or ice cream and taking me out to ...

How can I fit in with new work colleagues? Some are not very nice

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3109 days ago

23 June 2016 (F) - Some of our departments have merged at work, whats a good way to get along with new colleagues? Edit None of us new to the workplace but 1/3 of us ( maybe 13 of us) have moved to new much bigger a...

Do I keep lying to her or tell her the truth? Nothing fits any more.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3108 days ago

23 June 2016 (M) - I been with my gf for 4 years and she has put on weight since. I'm not bothered because she is really attractive with extra weight on. However if I mention it she says she doesn't like it. So I don't mention anything anyway however now all her ...

Feeling really depressed that I have never been asked out. How should I approach this problem?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3111 days ago

21 June 2016 (F) - I get really depressed because I have never been asked out despite putting myself out there. I volunteer, I also work in retail. No guys like me and I see other girls who are always asked out and hit on but I am always left out. I am 5'6 and w...

My husband wont talk to his 26 year old that doesn't work, bathe or interact with people!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3112 days ago

19 June 2016 (F) - Hello. In searching for an answer or at best some understanding to a terrible situation, I found this sight. To say that I'm thankful is an understatement. I have a 26-year-old stepson whose hygiene and overall laziness drives me crazy. He doesn't ...

Overwhelming depression has descended on me knowing my Bf will be away with his family until July. How can I stop this depression? What do I need to do about this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3114 days ago

19 June 2016 (F) - My boyfriend is away on a trip with his family. He hasn't even been gone two days and won't be back until the first week of July. I am not sure if this is normal but I am severely depressed. I have been crying a lot and have isolated myse...

Help ! What should I do? He treats me like someone he wants to string along

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3092 days ago

18 June 2016 (F) - I was with a relationship for 2 years. A few months ago i found out he had been two- timing me with his ex (i was apparently the side chick). I broke up. He pursued her like a crazed stalker for a month but she left him for good. Then he came for...

I'm struggling with the right words to use in an email to tell her how much I like her. What would be the best way to do this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3104 days ago

18 June 2016 (M) - I'm an autistic male and find it hard to communicate with people and make friends and it's hard for me to write an email to someone, as it comes out as jumbled crap, as I've so many words in my head and when I write it out it comes out much worse as ...

Lonely in a foreign hospital waiting for medical evacuation to a spinal unit and despite this my Gf is uncaring about the severity of the situation. Time to get rid of the Gf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3115 days ago

17 June 2016 (M) - I had a motorcycle accident last saturday whilst on holiday where I was initially paralysed from the neck down then recovered feelings. It will be a long term healing process as I struggle to walk, have spine damage etc. I am determined to do what I ...

High Libido and still a virgin. Am I weird or is it somewhat normal for my age to use masturbation to relieve my sexual tension?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3112 days ago

17 June 2016 (F) - Hi agony aunts. So I'll be 17 soon and am not yet sexually active. Problem is my hormones have been driving me crazy since I turned 11/12 (when I hit puberty). That is the time when I started masturbating (please don't tell me its a sin or anything...

Family put downs. What can I do? The problem is I do need them, but I need my space too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3115 days ago

17 June 2016 (F) - My family won't let the past go. I got pregnant at 18 and moved back home. I moved back because I failed out first semester. I was really let down and depressed at how mean everyone was to me and couldn't get out of bed. I found out people I t...

I've been putting up walls when dating. Is my fear and anxiety with dating turn away something good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3112 days ago

17 June 2016 (F) - I am a recent college grad and have been living on my own and working for a few years now. I'm confident in my job, family relationships and friendships. I struggle with dating. I've had 3 serious relationships in my life. Each one was fulfilli...

How do I meet a woman who is accepting of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3114 days ago

17 June 2016 (M) - I'm 30, male, and from the United Kingdom. I have Asperger's Syndrome - but it isn't the main issue here, the main issue is dating and my sexuality. I am mostly attracted to women, but have some attraction to men [but it is less important th...

How can I overcome my insecurities that are driving me nuts ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3112 days ago

17 June 2016 (F) - Hi, Thank you for reading... I am so insecure, I don't understand why. I've been dating this guy for about 9 months. Our families have met, he lied to me and told me that I was the first one that he had introduced to his family and later h...

Money, jealousy, love and complicated families. How does one negotiate around these challenges?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3114 days ago

16 June 2016 (M) - I was hurt to see how people mostly think about money... I've alway had complicated relationship with my father and his family. Not to justify him or anything but he's a deeply damaged man. After leaving my mother he never supported me emo...

Newly married but feel so guilty about my cheating. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3116 days ago

16 June 2016 (F) - I got married to my boyfriend recently whom I was with in a long distance relationship for 3 yrs. We still live apart as I have not moved to his city yet as he could be taking a transfer to mine. I have dark secret which haunts me even now. Las...

Crushed by an ex bf who was a jerk. Will I find a loving guy? Who's fault is it when I guy turns out to be a jerk or a loving and amazing guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3115 days ago

15 June 2016 (F) - How does it feel to have a faithful and loving boyfriend who cares for your feelings, spends on you, and makes you feel special after having a selfish liar and jerk who crushed your world for a long time by being the exact opposite of the and ...

How can this continue with me losing my sanity? I have a wife and a girlfriend who are both amazing.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3115 days ago

15 June 2016 (M) - I've been having an affair with a much younger, beautiful and sexy woman for over three years. I am in a fairly good marriage and we've been married for 22 years. My wife and I are on the same wave length. We've been through a lot together and are...

Am I being paranoid or is my husband a cheater?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3115 days ago

15 June 2016 (F) - I have been married for over 25 years, but am currently separated from my husband due to various issues. One of the issues is suspected cheating, which my husband denies. I just wanted to hear other peoples perspective on this, as my husbands...

How do I get over my needs for a boyfriend and for sex? I'm 16 and a virgin.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3117 days ago

15 June 2016 (F) - Hi so I'm 16. Obviously I'm a teenager so I have'needs'... Well they're more desires than needs. My first desire is to find someone to love who will love me back. Someone I can trust and talk to who understands me. Will I find him soon? Who know...

I have sex daily with my BF and I masturbate. My high sex drive is a problem. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3116 days ago

15 June 2016 (F) - I have always had a fairly high sex drive even in high school but the past year my sex drive keeps getting higher. It's to the point where I actually can't do daily things. My bf and I have an amazing sex life but he said that he physical...

Drunk boyfriend troubles. What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3118 days ago

14 June 2016 (F) - I accused my partner of lying the other night as he was coming back from a party and fell asleep on the bus. He then took a taxi from one town drove straight through the town that he was meant to meet me in and onto the next town. He told me this...

Should I accept this? My Boyfriend wants to sleep around and then come back to me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3119 days ago

14 June 2016 (F) - This is my first post so I'll try not to make it too wordy. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. About 10 months ago, I broke up with him because I felt like I needed more sexual experience before we settled down. He was heartbroken and ...

Cannot stomach this toxic dynamic any more. How can I deal with my toxic mother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3116 days ago

14 June 2016 (F) - My parents are in their 70s. My mother has a very difficult personality and I feel really negative around her. She splits people up within our family, picks fault with everyone (me, my sister, my neice and nephew, my auntie - you name it) and ...

When should I email the manager and what should I say?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3117 days ago

14 June 2016 (F) - So I recently got this job as a carer, caring for a client with spinal cord injury (shes in a wheelchair). It is different from anything else ive done before, now this client can be a bit rude with her loud voice telling how to fold her clothes...

Group sex with boyfriend, his room mate and room mate's girlfriend! I loved it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3119 days ago

14 June 2016 (F) - I'm 23 and have had boyfriends all through high school I've never thought about another girl in a sexual way. A few weeks ago my boyfriend and I were drinking with his roommate and the roomates gf when they dared us to kiss. After more drinks we ...

My mother complains she doesn't see her grandchildren, but she is always hungover!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3119 days ago

13 June 2016 (F) - hi everyone hope someone can give me some good advice it is not relationship problems but a family problem my parents split up 8 years ago my mam now has a new boyfriend since she has got with him she doesn't bother with her grandchildren she has 6 ...

I am going through hell with my 15 year old!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3118 days ago

13 June 2016 (F) - Not sure if this is the right place for this question I am currently going threw hell with my 15 year old daughter, she's my 4 th and youngest child. She's in with the wrong crowd and whilst not involved in drugs or drinks... She's involve...

I feel betrayed and devastated that my husband is regularly visiting a brothel. What are my options to deal with my hurt?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3117 days ago

13 June 2016 (F) - after 6 years of marriage I feel everything is falling apart! and I am completely devastated .. My husband is having an adultery, he is a regular brothel visitor. we got married after years of crazy deep love and commitment, now we are married for ...

My girlfriend is mean but I can’t seem to leave her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3121 days ago

12 June 2016 (F) - I'm in a same sex relationship, and we've been together for about 9 months. There's something about her that makes me crazy. I've never felt like this before (I can say that honestly). But for the most of our relationship, she's been incredibly ...

Do relationships that start as affairs go the distance, or do they fail?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3120 days ago

12 June 2016 (M) - My dad left my mum (who his disabled with MS) for the 'other woman' - do these relationships that start as an affair (lies, deception) typically last? How can his new parter trust him? She must be insecure that if he can do it with her, he will DO ...

Should I tell my boyfriend that we have finished for good?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3121 days ago

11 June 2016 (F) - Should I tell my boyfriend that we have finished for good?. We have been in an on/off relationship for eight months. When he was 20, he had a couple of one night stands with women in their 40's and then had one other girlfriend before me, which was ...

How can I move on from what seems to be true love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3122 days ago

11 June 2016 (F) - FWB with a guy who much like my boyfriend without the title (we both denied feelings for each other but i think it was clear we were very in love and also we lost our virginity to each other and were together for 2 years on-off). Two years ago he ...

How can I break this cycle? My life revolves around finding someone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3122 days ago

10 June 2016 (F) - My life revolves around finding someone how can I break this cycle ? I just had my heart broken by my ex he left me because he didn't want to invest the time in our relationship and I can't get over it. It was only six months and although I did e...

Do I wait for the new guy to make up his mind? or go back to Mr Wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3120 days ago

10 June 2016 (F) - So, my (verbally abusive) boyfriend of 2 years and I finally called it off. A few months later, I reconnect with and re-fall for this brilliant, kind, handsome guy who I used to be *very friendly* with in high school. Happy ending? Nope! He decides ...

I need help, please. Ten months therapy. Still a virgin. Still wary of girls. How can I solve this problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3120 days ago

10 June 2016 (M) - Hi everyone I'm posting again here because I cant seem to solve this problem no matter what I throw at it. I'm a 23 yr old virgin and have low self esteem as a result. My last and only girlfriend was 5 years ago. I've been on several first an...

Do women feel extra sexy during their periods?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3123 days ago

10 June 2016 (F) - Is it true that when women are on their periods they are sexually high / their sex drive is high at this point? Like few days before the periods, on periods and just after the periods gets over. Does it happens that they dress in a way that they lo...