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writes:I'm 23 and have had boyfriends all through high school I've never thought about another girl in a sexual way. A few weeks ago my boyfriend and I were drinking with his roommate and the roomates gf when they dared us to kiss. After more drinks we ended up messing around (totally make out session, touching and oral) and I loved it! Now I'm so confused. I can't stop thinking about it and about her . Am I bisexual
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (14 June 2016):
 Don't label yourself, bisexual is just a word, and yes you could be, or else you could be just experimenting and enjoying it. As long as you stay safe at all times and use protection then don't worry about it, just enjoy it.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (14 June 2016):
 Yes, you probably are a bit bisexual. Doesn't mean you are going to find every girl you meet attractive, but it means you will occasionally find a woman attractive. I like to think of it in percentages, makes it more easy to understand. You can be bisexual and like men 70% and women 30%, for example. I haven't really met any bisexuals who are completely 50/50. Also, we all have our preferences just like straight people. This means that just because I am a bisexual, doesn't mean I am going to hook up with every man and every woman I meet! I still have my likes and dislikes about each gender, and Im not going to be attracted to every person I meet. So maybe you only just now found a girl you thought of as attractive enough.
Also, if you are bisexual, then you are interested in boys just the same as a straight girl is, so naturally you haven't felt like something was missing up until now. I mean, you've had your time filled up with boyfriends already. It's a myth that bisexuals need both genders at the same time, we don't. We fall in love just the same as every other person, and then we only have eyes for the one we are in love with. So my guess is, you've been so occupied with boyfriends that you haven't really explored this side of you until now. Hence it went undiscovered.
But, congratulations on finding out! Now you have even more options, for next time you are single ;) And, you have the rare ability to actually ENJOY a threesome, lol. I mean, not that all bisexuals like threesomes (like I said before, bisexuals are every bit as interested in monogamy as your average straight person), but if you ARE one of the few who enjoy multiple sex partners at the same time AND are a bisexual on top, then you've got it all set! Enjoy your new found sexuality.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (14 June 2016):
 It isn't about labels. Do what makes you happy, but stay safe.
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