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Health: Help and advice

Was it Implantation bleeding? or just a really light period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I had unprotected sex twice about a week and 2 days ago(it was a Friday and Saturday). The day after,which would have been Sunday,my period was supposed to start. I am on birth control,and was on the last set of pills at the end,which are supposed ...

Can eating ice make you gain weight?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - Hi, I know this isn't a relationship question but I need a serious answer as I can't find one on google. I have gained a stone in the last year and I'm worried its because of my addiction to ice? I'm very active, I don't have time for 'exercis...

Help with irregular periods and pains.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - with my period, im always at different times sometimes its at the begining of the month middle of the month or towards the end, My last period was 28 june,so that that maybe over 4 weeks ago, i have the symptoms of one starting like pa...

Why did my normal 5 day period only last 2 days?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

31 July 2011 (?) - My periods usually lasts for 5 days, but this month they only lasted for 2 days. What could be a reason for that?...

What do men think of breast implants?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - Hi just wondering about breast implants what do males think of them? and people who have them down short story i have a breast problem when i was 15 i knew i had small boobs but they said when i grew older they would grow to be similar size ( o...

Where do I start to meet other gay men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

31 July 2011 (M) - I'm 23, have Asperger's syndrome, and although I've had some struggles in life, things have got a fair bit better over the past 2 years (well, since November 2008 to be really technical, but...). I find it difficult to make friends, unless ...

Sisters are best friends while I am out in the cold.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - My sisters block me out of there lives. I am in the middle my older sister and I are 18 months apart and my younger sister is 6 years younger than me. My older sister has disliked me since birth and my younger sister was so much younger than me, ...

I took my birth control pills a few hours earlier than normal. Could this have messed my period up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - I had sex about a week ago,and we didn't use condoms twice. He also didn't pull out. He has a really difficult time staying hard with condoms,so I figured it couldn't hurt since I'm on birth control. We had sex that Friday and Saturday. My period w...

Any suggestions on what I can do to help my ultrasound appointment on my varicose veins?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4868 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - I am in my mid twenties and I have varicose veins for years..i notice it keeps getting worse and bigger as time goes on and I actually feel more discomfort this past year and I also just in general want to get them treated because i know they are ...

Did I sleep with my Bf's brother. I was wasted. But if I did how can I salvage things with my BF?....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4868 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - I have been dating my Bf for 6months now and we have been through almost everything in our relationship. Except this. We got drunk one night out on the town and he got picked up, so I took a cab to his family's place which we were staying at duri...

Uncomfortable with my chest size...how should I deal with this? How should I react when I get sleazy comments?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - So in a nutshell, I have large boobs. I am 25, probably D cup size, and only 5'1" and 130 lbs; I don't know my cup size for sure because it's been so long since I got measured. And the reason it's been so long is because going to Victoria's Secret ...

Should I feel ok about my fiance telling me to put on some weight?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) - should i feel ok about my fiance telling me to put on some weight and try do something about it or should i let her deal with my nature of being skinny? really like her but being under lot of pressure by her. is it right that skinny and not skinny ...

Depressed boyfriend now he has quit drinking and I'm not sure how to help him.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Hi. My boyfriend recently quit drinking, about 2 weeks ago. Since then it’s been an up-down rollercoaster with him, and I just don’t know how to help him. He’s been depressed, irritable, overall moody. And since most of his friends drink, it’s been ...

How can I improve my attention span when studying?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - I can't be attentive in my study.when i start studying i frequently lose my attention.after reading for so many times i forget what i read the previous day.how can i complete my studies in due time with proper attention? ...

What does this dream mean? I'm scared to sleep in case it happens again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Hello everyone. Last night when I went to sleep, no dream no nothing, and this morning I wake up, and i got out for a bit, theb went back to bed rough two hours later. I had felt it was needed. Then about an hour later, I'm waking up screaming and ...

Is this normal? Has anyone else experienced this before?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Its been a week after my period and I feel off an on emotional and achy legs and some fatigue here and there. I had (anal) sex 12 (almost 13) weeks ago. He didnt ejaculate in me.... had 3 periods since so we can cross off pregnancy. ...

Do I take heed of the Value Judgements of others? Or can my fiance and I find happiness following our dreams to help others?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - im having a bit of a personal crisis in my life right now, this may take a while to explain so bear with me. When i was a teen i had 2 best friends, we had all been home schooled and spent as much time together as we could. that all changed ...

I am faithful to my current Girl friend who means a lot to me. My ex just causes me grief and will not let me see our child. How can I stop my ex hurting us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) - hi there im 25 years old. I broke up with my x. After she told me she was pregnant. I am with a new gf now who is 20 and we have been going out less then a year but were living together. i don't see the child because the times that my x gives me...

I think my weight gain could affect my relationship. Can I have any tips to help please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years and he is compeletly honest with me. So when he told me that I was gaining weight.. I was unhappy with my gain ( which I am ) I want to lose the weight but I am 5'2" 20yrs 175ibs I wear a Canada s...

Is it normal that I bleed a little?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - Hi, i have a little question. Im a virgin but have been finered about twice by my boyfriend. After he fingered me today, i went to the toilet and noticed blood on my knickers. Is that normal? I am due my period in a few days however i dont think its ...

Boyfriend's tattoo of his ex wife's name on his neck - is it unreasonable of me to want it removed or covered?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - I'm 29 and he is 37. We have been together for just over 3 months but i'm already in love like never before. He was with his ex for about 12 years and a few years ago got her name tattooed on his neck in large letters. He has said he thought they ...

I can't feel any sexual pleasure. So scared it's something unfixable!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4870 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - I'm currently having problems with my sex life. I'm almost 20, and I've been with my boyfriend awhile now, but I can't feel any sexual pleasure. This isn't a "I don't feel sex" or "I don't feel it sometimes" It is Never. He is the first boyfriend ...

I'm not a leech!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - I'm in a 5 year relationship with my bf and two kids a 16 month old and a 3 year old, living together in his house. We have been having tough times since we only have one income, he works and i stay at home with the kids. I have been looking for a ...

Erectile dysfunction....is it really so common?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

28 July 2011 (M) - Hi, I really wonder about this issue for a long time. I hope you can give me some ideas about the reality. So I'm in my late forties, and I really struggle with libido, and erectile dysfunction. My doctor says even I have no medical problems...

I think I have a really high sex drive, is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - I think i have a really high sex drive. This in itself is not a problem but im just wondering if it is normal to have one as high i as i believe i have. I get myself off at least once a day and on some days it can be up to 5 or 6 times. I don't h...

Will he catch my genital warts?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Hi me in my boyfriend had sex twice with condoms. And I have genital warts. Will he catch it, even though we use condoms ?...

Should she enema before first time anal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

27 July 2011 (M) - I am looking for advice on whehter my GF should use an enema before first time anal sex. I have heard many pros and cons. Pros being that they obviously clean things out, cons being that they can irritate and make poo that would otherwise stay ...

All about tattoos...just how bad is the pain?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - I know this isn't a relationship question, but I get a lot of great advice from this site and it's always my first choice. My question is for those who have tattoos. I've been looking at a lot of tattoo related things lately, and my biggest curio...

My fiance's butt stinks....how do I tell him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

26 July 2011 (?) - I have been dating my fiance for four years now. And theres this small little issue that KILLS me, and grosses me out and i dont know how to tell him without it hurting his feelings. I'm really embarassed to talk about this, but...something needs to ...

Is getting a nose job a good idea?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - I know this is a relationship website, but i really really need some advice as to what to do and how to deal with what people will think. I know i shouldn't care about others opinions but i really can't help it!! Basically, since i was about 11 i...

Trying too hard to make everyone else happy is making me depressed! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - Any help is appreciated. So my girlfriend and I broke up and we have always been on and off but recently we've been really great. She says we act like friends and its true shes my bestfriend, but I feel like she wants to just jump into another rel...

Bad breakouts and a messed up menstrual cycle....any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - im 21 female and for the last two years my skins been going crazy. i used to have great skin but now i breakout on my chin and around my mouth all the time. my menstrual cycle is all messed up too. i started taking just this year, took yaz and that ...

Introverted and feel like I am missing out. Any help to get past this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - Ive always been shy and not very talkative and as ive grown up this has been such a big problem. People never recognize me as im too quiet. Im too nice, i never say no to people, as a result of this people use me. I have no self confidence and i...

I just want to understand why is he happy and I'm miserable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

24 July 2011 (F) - For a year I was with a man that I was absolutely in love with. From the beginning there were red flags such as an occasional night of drugs, a recent divorce, little white lies. But then we talked, moved in together, and things seemed to be ...

I have no self-confidence and always let people use me....can you help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

24 July 2011 (F) - I need help, im so depressed i cant see any hope of getting out of this depression. I've always let guys use me. I've helped with money, everything but because of a lack of confidence and self esteem i have always come out badly. The last guy left...

Is there a connection between my eating behaviour and my love/sex life.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

24 July 2011 (F) - I've been experiencing something rather odd these past few months. I feel compelled to eat often (high-calorie food in particular) even though I can tell I'm not physically hungry; I don't know if I can call it comfort eating because I don't feel ...

Are these spots friction marks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

24 July 2011 (M) - Its not really a relationship problem, but moreso of a health question (if its okay to post them here). I recently got back from Hilton Head Island, SC, and everything was fine down there. After two hours of being on wave runners, we went...

What could this brown discharge be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

24 July 2011 (F) - I apologize ahead of time for the graphic nature of this question. I had sex with a new guy last night after a long-term relationship ended. But this morning I have strange light-brown discharge. It doesn't have much of an odor, but I'm very ...

How can I stop letting my insecurities get in the way of me dating again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4875 days ago

23 July 2011 (F) - I think I lost a great guy, because of my insecurities, also since I've been hurt before in the past.. I've became antisocial too I'm always home when I do go out its hard for me to meet people and make new friends..I wasn't like this I was the ...

Can a relationship last without sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

23 July 2011 (M) - I haven't had sex yet, but I always knew I was gay. I've been trying to find the right guy, but couldn't all this 10 years. Last year I met this guy and when he noticed I was always avoiding sex he got himself checked and unfortunately he's ...

How can I overcome my nerves about drunken sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

23 July 2011 (M) - Basically I have a problem with drunken sex. So here's the story. I was out Friday night at a party and my cousion brings her friends down and this stunning girl but about 5 years older than me. I have a pretty good wing man though who can usually ...

Girlfriend has hair on her nipples....it creeps me out. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

23 July 2011 (M) - My girlfriend of 6 months has hair on her nipples. It creeps me out but I don't know how to address the situation. Even thinking about it makes me shiver. She shaves other parts of her body, ie legs, pubic region etc. however I don't know how to ...

I'm addicted to eating at McDonald's and I need to cool it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

23 July 2011 (M) - hey everyone i have quite a weird problem im ADDICTED TO mcdonalds !!! its all i think about and im relly spending hell lots of money on that shit per month but im loving it really !! especially that where i live they have delivery service so its e...

I develop serious social anxiety in college and it is getting me really down!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

23 July 2011 (F) - I'm a regular college going person who's subject to all the pressures and deliberations a girl of this age is wont to be under, at this time. However, ever since I left my first year, I've been struggling with a niggling problem that totally wei...

Will the depo shot stop me getting pregnant with a new guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4875 days ago

23 July 2011 (F) - Okay well, I've been on the depo shot for about a year now and I have a couple of questions about it. My ex boyfriend and I were together for 2 years and after I started the shot, we stopped using condoms, actually my gyno had told me to stop usi...

Why doesn't he love me anymore? I just want to help him and see him succeed...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

23 July 2011 (F) - I dated an amazing man for a year who treated me like such a queen. We lived together and had planned our entire life together. A couple months ago he began having crazy mood swings and would get so angry so easy. I found out he has been doing ...

Ladies: Any consequences of using whipped cream down there during foreplay??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

23 July 2011 (M) - ok this is a really, really freaky and albeit personal question, well me and my girlfriend want to spice up our love life, by adding sexual foods to our love life, the question I want to ask is well the food we want to add is whipped cream, from the ...

When life's a female dog...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - ... haha sorry about the title. Lame i know :). I also know that this may sound dramatic, emo, cliche, cheesy, etc etc etc... BUT I had a momentary moment of absolute peace when i thought of this... When you're in a situation that just t...

Any suggestions on how to lose weight? 100lbs seems so overwhelming!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - Hi all. This is more a self-esteem/relationship with myself kinda deal. I'm currently 220 lbs and at only 5'4", I'm a big girl. It sucks and I hate it. I was actually one of those girls you called anorexic back in elementary school because I was so ...

Movement in my stomach, What could be causing this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - Okay I am VERY sure I am not pregnant. About 11-12 weeks ago I had sex. Anal none the less. It was 3 days after i started a new pack of the pill (which i have been on for over a year now) Off and on I feel movement in my stomach...I am n...