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Archived questions from: June, 2016 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Another guy has spoilt our friendship

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3056 days ago

30 June 2016 (M) - I'm friends with a female at work and I'm concerned that she isn't into me anymore like she used to be. We used to talk, have a laugh and things seem to have changed. A man who I'm not friends with anymore and who I'm not keen on is now friends ...

Engaged to be married man after my friend at work. Is this now a competition?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3057 days ago

29 June 2016 (M) - There's a guy at work who is jealous I'm friends with this female. The problem is he's very full of himself and tries to ruin moments I have with her, when I talk to her. To my horror, I found out he is friends with her on facebook today, I don't kn...

What are we ? Last night he told me "you're not my girlfriend".

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3058 days ago

29 June 2016 (F) - I'm having the most troubling time. I'll start explaining from the beginning. (lets call him J) I met J my first year of college. At the time we both had someone we were dating, so we never bothered getting close or anything. maybe 2 months p...

I love some who I can't have. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3055 days ago

29 June 2016 (F) - What do you do when you've fallen for a guy who just ^^^ks with your head? Okay so one of my best friends a while ago we admitted we liked one another, but not wanting to jeopardize the friendship we agreed to keep things normal. Well that didn't ...

Is it wrong to sleep with a distant cousin? In my culture some disapprove of this.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3059 days ago

28 June 2016 (M) - Is it wrong to sleep with distant cousin? Not even real distant cousin. Its just that both of our family have same family name. I hate when all of my and their family meets like( cousin family) Also in our culture it is okay to Marry first co...

How can I address this? I have trouble trusting women and I'm feeling resentful that my dating experiences haven't been good.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3058 days ago

28 June 2016 (M) - I have a lot of trouble trusting women. I have female friends that I can trust to a degree. But when it comes to dating I can't really trust women because of my past with them. I'm 23 years old. I never had a good dating life and am resentful abo...

I feel that no one will give me a break. How can I gain more acceptance in a work situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3059 days ago

28 June 2016 (F) - I feel like I'm being discriminated against at work but it's the restaurant owner! I messed up in the past and felt VERY lucky to have gotten the job I did. Right after my arrest, I applied for every job I could and landed a job as a barrista...

How do I suppress my attraction toward him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

27 June 2016 (M) - I am going through somewhat a confusing moment in life. I find myself attracted to my best friend who may be asexual. The problem is I don't think it is mutual. He's never dated anyone ever nor expressed interest in anyone. He does know I am gay, ...

He just wants to argue and never says sorry.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3057 days ago

26 June 2016 (F) - So I've been dating my guy for 8months now, but we've known each other for years as good friends. im 26 and hes 30. We both work. Lately he has been talking about taking me to see his family and talking rings and marriage and I love him but ...

Is something going on, or am I reading too much into this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3058 days ago

26 June 2016 (F) - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years we get on really well and his family are like my family the problem is any woman that walks past he stares till she's out of sight now he received a text this morning asking saying is this for instance john ...

I want to date but am turning them all down ....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3062 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - A couple of months ago a guy i'd been seeing broke it off with me, i was really upset as it had been going on a while and i thought we were really good together. Since then i haven't openly looked to start dating anyone else, but on nights out with ...

Do I end the 25 year friendship ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3060 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - I dont understand why my friend is trying to make me feel guilty. Sorry but this is a long story , I have a friend who lives in a different town to me its only a 10 minute bus ride ill call her A i also have a friend who lives in the same town as ...

Why do some young women go out to night clubs dressed they way they do?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3061 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - Why do the women at the night clubs dress like s^^ts?? So I'm talking here about women who wear clothes with plunging cleavages, booster bras, short skirts and the like. We went to a club last weekend and there were many women barely dressed. ...

Was it right for me to say what I said? will this break help us sort things out for ourselves?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3062 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - A few nights ago, my boyfriend and I called a break because he and I wanted to find time for ourselves. Since we've been dating for four years, we thought it was time. We still love each other but I want a break for two weeks because I feel we ...

Is it Okay to ghost in this situation? I feel that he's lost interest in me.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3052 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I've been dating someone for three months now. The first two months were great, he was very affectionate and planned thoughtful dates (as did I). He reached out daily and I reciprocated. We met twice a week. However this month he's been busy w...

She rejected my invitation. I still want to be friends. How do I keep things light when I see her again?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3062 days ago

24 June 2016 (M) - Hello agony aunts So this week I asked a female friend of mine if she wanted to meet for a coffee sometime and I mentioned we don't get opportunities to talk at work with our different schedules. Which is true as we don't do, anyway to cut ...

Does he feel rejected? I'd like to know, how can this be fixed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3062 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I have a weird situation and need opinions please.. Talked to this guy online, Skype, phone for three years(I know I know "you never met him")... But it was budding pen pals to friends to romantic interest. There was a possibility of s...

What's your opinion of age gaps? Does he really like me? Or does he have a different motive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3061 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - Okay so first.. What's your opinion on age gaps?? What's to big of an age gap? There is a guy at my work ( I work in a factory) who works second shift while I work first. He is 12 years older than I am. When I very first started working there he...

He says I do not set aside enough time to spend with him. What should I say or do in response to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3063 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I am in a relationship with a guy from my office. I'm a self confessed workaholic and he is always complaining that I don't make enough time for him on the weekdays. However every alternate weekend, he goes to his parents house where he maintai...

Is rejection good or bad? How does one accept and deal with rejection?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3061 days ago

24 June 2016 (M) - I asked a female who is beautiful from work on social media if she fancied meeting me for a coffee to get to know me better. This was today, we are good friends on social media, and I decided the time was right to ask her and to seize the day. And...

What would you do if faced with these situations from his family and the friends from his country.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3064 days ago

23 June 2016 (F) - Hello I am middle aged and have been married for over 12 years. Both my husband and I are from diff countries and our cultures are different. I moved to Canada and married him, im from UK and hes from another country There have been times whe...

All I think of when his name is mentioned is anger and hate!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3064 days ago

23 June 2016 (F) - I had a bad breakup with my ex boyfriend in 2014 December before new year's eve. We dated for four months before the break up. I was not happy with him because he wanted to take my virginity even when i told him many times politely that i was not ...

We agreed to remain friends but I haven't heard from him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3064 days ago

22 June 2016 (F) - A guy i was seeing for 5 months ended things with me a couple of months ago. From my persepctive everything was going well and had been fine between us leading up to him ending things so it really upset me as it was totally unexpected. When he ended ...

Is he serious about our future?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3054 days ago

22 June 2016 (F) - Hi all, I am in a long-distance relationship. I am from Italy, my partner is Spanish and has been living in Germany for over 15 years now. He was unemployed for ages but now has a good job, it is on a contract basis but they love him and have sai...

I have lost a lot of friends due to jealousy. Why are girls so jealous?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3063 days ago

21 June 2016 (F) - I have lost a lot of friends due to jealousy. Why are girls so jealous? I use to have a lot of girlfriends but they all seem to disappear as my life gets better. Im a very sweet girl. I'm always there for my friends when they need me. I work rea...

What can I do? Don't want it rubbed in my face. But she says I'm offloading my insecurities by being upset with her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3065 days ago

21 June 2016 (M) - My friend upset me again talking about interacting with another man who she has a past with... I've covered with her in the past that she's to have as much fun as she can with whomever she feels like regardless that I'm mad about her. We have f...

Feeling really depressed that I have never been asked out. How should I approach this problem?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3065 days ago

21 June 2016 (F) - I get really depressed because I have never been asked out despite putting myself out there. I volunteer, I also work in retail. No guys like me and I see other girls who are always asked out and hit on but I am always left out. I am 5'6 and w...

Help! What can I say? I'm a gay female being set up at work ! I'm scared and unsure what to do.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3066 days ago

20 June 2016 (F) - Im a single GAY female over 40 and today at work as I walked in tea room I overheard her talking to another manager about setting me up with a 26 yr old asian guy who used to work with us and who likes me! And how I am " over 40" The other mana...

Can a friend forget about you while they are away?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3063 days ago

20 June 2016 (M) - I have a friend who is abroad at the moment, she hasn't spoken to me for three to four weeks. I've not heard from her by social media and I'm beginning to lose patience. She's helping abroad and providing water to disadvantaged people and trying t...

I'm not sure if I should tell my friend I like her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2667 days ago

20 June 2016 (F) - Hi this is probably going to be a long post but I'm not sure if I should tell my friend that I like her. It started when we were having a girls night and we both mentionned how we were both bisexual but hadnt ever kissed a girl in a non-platonic w...

My best guy friend told me he has feelings for me, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3058 days ago

20 June 2016 (F) - Hey, so I'm having an issue with my best guy friend... I'll briefly explain my situation, He and I have been friends for about 3 years now. We actually met at my college, we became friends through a really odd circumstance where we just used to ...

Is it possible to have a friendship with this guy but also raise my concerns as a means to support him over issues that seem concerning to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3057 days ago

19 June 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid...I'm strongly attracted to a single guy but I get intense feelings of concern/worry about his well-being and I worry that I'm going to end up revealing my concerns and he will cut me out of his life because he hates it when people worry ...

Why is this guy acting immaturely at work to ruin my friendship with a another co-worker?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3057 days ago

19 June 2016 (M) - I work for a company and enjoy the job I do, and I've made friends which is good. The problem is there's this lad who is like a reaptive parrot and copies everything I say. There's this female who says hi to me and asks me how I am, so when ive ...

He was respectful and did not try anything. Was he expecting me to make the first move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3066 days ago

19 June 2016 (F) - I am 31 yrs old and i met a 32 yrs old online. So we started to talk back and forth for a couple of month. It was nothing much just friendly talk. When he had to go on a bussiness trip we decided to meet up because it was a neighbour country of ...

She's giving me mixed signals. Does she like ? Is she being genuine?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3057 days ago

19 June 2016 (M) - While I was at work, I noticed that a female has taken a shine to me, I don't know if I read into the wrong or she genuinely liked me. I've not asked her out, but I'm thinking of doing and im not sure what to do for the best. While I was making m...

Am I right to be upset about my boyfriend going on a "men's day out"? no women allowed.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3067 days ago

18 June 2016 (F) - Am I right to be upset about my boyfriend going out for the day with his male friends?. He is going out for the day with his male friends this afternoon. He said no women are allowed. He said they go on a day out together every year. He also to...

I'm struggling with the right words to use in an email to tell her how much I like her. What would be the best way to do this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3058 days ago

18 June 2016 (M) - I'm an autistic male and find it hard to communicate with people and make friends and it's hard for me to write an email to someone, as it comes out as jumbled crap, as I've so many words in my head and when I write it out it comes out much worse as ...

Crush on shy girl at work. Should I issue invitations to attend my birthday and include her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

16 June 2016 (M) - Next year will be my birthday. I've made friends at work and won people over, when I first started working at a factory where I live I didn't think I would. As at school I was completely friendless and had no one I could rely on. Does this soun...

Am I more than a close friend to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3068 days ago

16 June 2016 (F) - I have a male friend but I don't know if he sees me as more? So far he has told me deep trauma from his past, he has went out of his way to introduce me to his mother, his sister and his cousin etc. He has hugged me, given me support when I needed ...

Newly married but feel so guilty about my cheating. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

16 June 2016 (F) - I got married to my boyfriend recently whom I was with in a long distance relationship for 3 yrs. We still live apart as I have not moved to his city yet as he could be taking a transfer to mine. I have dark secret which haunts me even now. Las...

Cute guy at the gym. How do I get his attention?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

16 June 2016 (F) - I recently started weighttraining with a guy friend (older gentleman) at the gym, and there is one particular guy. I told my workout buddy (harry) that i think the guy's cute, and he's trying to help me break the ice with him. Because of Harrys he...

Why is my friend telling me lies, when there is no need to do so?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

15 June 2016 (F) - My question is , me and my ex grew apart and decided to be friends this has been a few month and we both moved on. He told me he plans on staying single i said yeah yeah and he replied saying its so much easier to stay single , i will admit he...

How do I bring up that I'm interested in a casual relationship with no sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

15 June 2016 (F) - First things first, I must establish that I'm interested in getting married in the next 4-5 years, but I'm currently busy on placement in another state. I will eventually have to return either to my home state or move to another country for work, ...

If he has a girlfriend then why is he around me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

14 June 2016 (F) - Hello, I have been talking to this boy for 3 years on and off and in the mean time we have both had partners. We first started talking at the start of college and it's normal for us to talk all day, everyday. I have met him twice and kissed him both ...

My friend is trying to sabotage a budding relationship with a guy I like

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

14 June 2016 (F) - Not sure where to start but I guess some background information is a good way to go. Typical start to any of these questions but.. So there's this guy, and he's perfect. The problem doesn't lie with him, it lies with my friend. My friend, 3 y...

Breaking up and I've developed a crush on another guy already. Is my idea of moving on viable or a terrible idea?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

14 June 2016 (F) - I need opinions... So my husband and I are ending things. For our own personal reasons. My husband was and is emotionally abusive and can't seem to change. We have a mutual friend that we both just starting hanging around. I, ( knowing th...

I don't know how to face him after a night of heavy petting!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3073 days ago

13 June 2016 (F) - Hi this is my first time writing here.. i just turned 18 this june 12 and i have a few drinks with my friends and there this guy who is 2 years younger than me,he is 15 turning 16 this july actually hes very mature on hes age. And hes very vocal a...

I feel very confused by her. First she flirts with me. Then she didn't invite me to her birthday celebration. What's happening here?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3073 days ago

13 June 2016 (F) - I am lusting after another female colleague. She is also bi-sexual. I've known her a year but only recently did we start getting to know each other better as she has moved into my office at work. We flirt a lot by teasing each other and play fig...

He puts his family above all else. Am I wrong to be feeling concerned about our future together, considering his actions?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3073 days ago

13 June 2016 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a man for awhile now. There was that immediate spark and we being with him felt great and easy. He treated me better than anyone I had previously been with and made me happy. Gradually we started realizin...

I like my ex-best friend's ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

11 June 2016 (F) - There's this guy I like. Him and one of my best friends used to go out. He broke up with her because he said it wasn't going well for them in the last 6 months. He told me that during those last 6 months he had developed feelings for me. She cheated ...