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Archived questions from: September, 2015 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

What do I say? When he asks me why I like him so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3327 days ago

30 September 2015 (F) - I am 26 years old and I have always been a little socially awkward and reserved!i met this guy that I really like and care about a lot but let's just say I am unable to express that to him,he asked me why do I like him so much and I have no ...

I feel like giving up on dating. Is it me? No one seems to want to be in a relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3340 days ago

30 September 2015 (F) - Hello. I had been seeing this guy recently (about 5months) and things were going pretty well then out of the blue he began acting strange and distant. I asked him why and a first he said he was fine and later said that he thought I was going to ask ...

Why did he disappear when I expressed interest in him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3339 days ago

30 September 2015 (F) - So I was talking to this guy that I met.We haven't spend time in person yet but we coommunicate regulary.He brought up sex the first time we spoke .Last time he wanted to come over at my apartment but I told him that I'm not comfotable inviting him ...

How do I build myself to become someone likeable yet tough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3339 days ago

29 September 2015 (F) - Hello. Growing up, ive been rejected by many people, my peers, strangers, some teacherz because i was fat and shy. Now im older and some people still make me feel like i did when i was young. They still treat me like i cant think on my own ...

I am finally getting on with my life after a bad relatsionhip, but have concerns about the change in myself in increased low tolerance levels.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3339 days ago

29 September 2015 (F) - Dear all, this is not a relationship question, but it kind of is as it is to do with freinds and people. Please can you help me get some insight into this. Thank you in advance. I have recently come out of a bad relationship with a guy,( well abou...

Can I save this situation? What can I do if the girl I like is starting to show less interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

29 September 2015 (M) - Dear all To summarize, a girl i like may be losing interest. what should i do? I met this girl online 15 days ago, she lives about 1 hour away. we did not meet via a dating website, she chose to contact me as she had just moved to the area. ...

Help ! Should we get back together? Did he really cheat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3340 days ago

29 September 2015 (F) - First off people of the internet, I apologize for the really long post I really just want you all to fully understand the situation (: So.. I recently broke up with my ex boyfriend because my friend told me she saw him grinding with another gir...

The man that I am dating doesn't know how to tell his lady friend about me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

28 September 2015 (F) - Dear aunties and uncles I posted on here in June about a man I have been seeing: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-you-think-it-is-worth-me-continuing.html I am 55 and 4 months ago I met a man who is 60. 8 months before we met he had me...

I am falling in love with my housemate.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

28 September 2015 (F) - Ok so I've just started uni and I've already got feelings for one of my housemates which is essentially breaking the cardinal rule of freshers. It started when he was being really sweet trying to encourage me to get involved with of the flat (I'm ...

My childhood friend is passively mean to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3341 days ago

27 September 2015 (F) - Hey all, So I have this friend I grew up with. He is a little eccentric in his behavior but we had a fun childhood together. He was my best friend for a very long time. As we grew, I guess he started liking me and still does I guess. I love hi...

How do I deal with a jealous/possessive friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3343 days ago

26 September 2015 (F) - Hello, For a few months now I've known this girl (K) through one of my closest friends at work (D). I knew she was important to him so I tried to get to know her and be very friendly. However, recently, a lot of negativity has been directed my...

Am I going crazy? Or is he being overly possessive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3343 days ago

26 September 2015 (F) - Dear aunts and uncles, Here's a background on my relationship: I've been with my boyfriend for a year now. Currently we are having a long distance relationship (it has been ongoing for half a year and I have made plans to move over to his coun...

How do I message a girl I've never talked to before without seeming creepy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3343 days ago

26 September 2015 (M) - So there is this girl who I follow on Instagram and have thought was gorgeous for a good year now. She is best friends with a friend of mine (whom I still talk with occasionally). I got out of a year and a half long relationship at the beginning ...

I lack the confidence to ask someone out. What needs to change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3342 days ago

26 September 2015 (M) - I'm a 19 year old man and have been stuck in limbo for the last 10 months, just over a year ago I met a girl who came over to the UK to learn English. She was only staying for 6 months and I was teaching her how to work in my old job (waiter/...

Confused by one night stand. Was I too harsh on him?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 3339 days ago

26 September 2015 (F) - Dear all. Please can you throw some light on this. Thanks. I have recently come out of a long abusive relationship and feel happier than ever. I've been out partying and dating and having a great time. Anyway, last weekend I met a guy I was stro...

I know that we are amazing friends but my question is, is it possible to have a 'bond' with a guy friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3343 days ago

25 September 2015 (F) - Hi, so I'm currently studying for a degree and have a close group of friends made up of three girls and one guy. Myself and the guy are close friends and when I went through a breakup of a very long relationship he was an amazing friend to me and ...

How do I get over the hurt and betrayal that my "friend" was dating the guy I liked behind my back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3343 days ago

25 September 2015 (F) - My friend tricked me into believing she wasn't seeing the guy I fancied. How do I get over this betrayal? Me and this girl were friends for a couple of years - I didn't know her that long - but long enough to be close friends. She knew I was keen...

To love? Or to live? Or to leave? That is the question

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3342 days ago

24 September 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of seven years is seriously ill and this alone brings heartache because his life is inevitably shortened. I have offered him to move in with me but he likes to keep his own place and it does make financial matters easier to handle. H...

How can I learn to really stand up for myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3344 days ago

24 September 2015 (M) - I often let people run over me and talk to me any kind of way. Especially ones that are not my family. It's like my mind goes blank and I don't know what to say. It's like my mind runs scared. But I get disrespected to the point to where I want ...

He complains about being bored and he's rude. Should continue seeing him or just leave?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3343 days ago

24 September 2015 (F) - Please correct me if I am wrong!but I am really mad at a guy I am seeing for a little over a month. So on our last date(which was yesterday) he called me over to his place and no we did not even kiss it was us just hanging out and having dinner,b...

I want to do things right, this time, with this intriguing girl, and not mess things up. What do I need to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3346 days ago

23 September 2015 (M) - So, today we were in English class and we discussed as an excersie the new Maze Runner film. A couple of classes ago she had asked me a lot of questions (i'm the only boy at the classroom) and we seem kinda have the same interests. We talked a...

How can I get past the regret of never being able to be with him? Am I allowed to pursue a friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

23 September 2015 (F) - Hello dear all, For many years now I work together with someone in a local cultural institute. While I was young, about 15, he was 21 and I guess our age gap was considered too big, by ourselves and by others. I had a crush on him for years a...

Is it normal to still be so angry and hurt? Why can't I forget?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

23 September 2015 (F) - Well nearly a year after the split I'm still angry and hurt that my friend went off with my ex behind my back. I have tried to do all the things I should do - like no contact and blocking off social media - but it still hurts and I still ha...

It's not a crush. He intrigues me. Am I over-thinking this or does anyone understand what's happening here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3343 days ago

23 September 2015 (F) - Hi all. I have recently started a college course that is male dominated with 23 boys to 3 girls (me being one of them) I've noticed that a couple of boys keep looking at me when I look up and then turn so it isn't obvious. There's one guy that if ...

LD Crush. Should I consider this guy as a friend and nothing else? Age differences and difference cultures.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

23 September 2015 (F) - A few years back I used to work with a nice guy. We always got along great and I don't know if the feeling was mutual or not, but I was always attracted to him. At the time he was married (and I knew who is wife was, talked to her on several ...

It feels like he's distancing himself from me. How can I improve my relationship with my bf who has PTSD?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

22 September 2015 (F) - My boyfriend has PTSD from the war and he is hard to deal with. He gets mad at dumb things and always thinks I'm mad at him when I'm not I'm just chill or quiet or relaxing or thinking. If I talk too much he gets irrational especially in fr...

Porn. He called them 'pop-ups'. Feels like it's hard to trust him since I think I caught him lying. Or am I over-reacting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

22 September 2015 (F) - I think I may have caught my boyfriend lying to me and it really bothers me, even more than what he is lying about. We live together and have been together for about two years. At the beginning of the relationship he came out and told me he doesn...

Problems with relationships in my family and not sure about my life decisions. Can you help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3347 days ago

22 September 2015 (F) - My life is a mess and i would like for things to change. I dont have a good relationship with my mother. My mother is against my father but i can communicate with my father even though sometimes i dont agree with his life choices. My father make...

She's trying to steal my man!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

22 September 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, Ive been in my relationship for a year and a month. I've fallen in love with my boyfriend and we have no problems except his best friends fiance diana is also in love with him! When I come around she gives me the dirtiest looks and she ...

When did dating become so confusing? Do I cut him off or give him a chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

22 September 2015 (F) - I have known this man for 2 yrs, we were friends first. We dating a bit last year and were physical when were seeing each other. All was going well and then he disappeared on me. We kept in touch but it looked like he was dating other peop...

Could his reaction, to me touching him, be regarded as him flirting with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

21 September 2015 (F) - I like this guy and i met him 3 weeks ago in my college and he has 2 of the same lessons as me. We take the same bus home and i sit next to him. Today, i sat next to him and kept touching him and he was like stop touching me or i'll punch you. ...

Should I confront a cheat?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

20 September 2015 (F) - Whilst I was browsing on a free online dating site I came across my friend whos girlfriend is eight months pregnant. What shall I do. I've known my friend since school, at school I had a crush on him and decades later I asked him out, which he...

Should I try to re-connect with this guy? I did enjoy talking to him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3348 days ago

20 September 2015 (F) - Hello cupids, I met a guy this year in august at a friends friend birthday party. I just came out of a relationship almost a month before. I was standing by the water enjoying the cool breeze when a guy walked up to me. He's not really my type phy...

My husband's family are putting pressure on me and I feel lost. How can I gain some control in this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3348 days ago

19 September 2015 (F) - I am feeling lost. I met my current husband 4 years ago, We dated for 3 years and finally moved in together, December last year... We got engaged in june...but life has been terrible after that. We were happy when he used to come every weeken...

How can I make friends when I have no friends? I suffer from social anxiety.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

19 September 2015 (M) - I dropped out of university a few years ago, I feel it was the right decision and am going back as a mature student in a few years. I was suffering with social anxiety/depression at the time (have not seen a GP about this) and still have it today. ...

He evaded answering my question. Should I confront him or ignore him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

19 September 2015 (F) - Hiya I have been seeing a guy for a few months and all has been going really well, and always tells me how much he likes me and how much fun he has with me. We haven't yet been physical and I want to wait until I am sure of him. We only se...

His past (failed) relationship is making him very cautious about getting into a relationship with me. What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

19 September 2015 (F) - I met this guy a bit less than a month ago and things have been good between us. But something sparked the conversation about what he wants and he said he likes me, i tick all the right boxes but he needs to know that he is 100% okay because ...

Does this guy like me and if so what way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

19 September 2015 (M) - So I started to like this guy on Twitter I'm a bi not out guy and his gay. I instantly liked him and tried to make conversation every time he tweeted. Turns out we have a lot in common. I do really like him but I'm unsure if he likes me we've o...

Am I wrong for not wanting him to have contact with his ex girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

19 September 2015 (F) - I've been dating a guy for the passed 2 months and he still works with his ex girlfriend. They had only broken up 2 month proir to us dating and they was together for 2 years. I had told him when we first started dating that i think it is a little...

Is it true that size doesn't matter? My family tells me this but my friend say elsewise

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

18 September 2015 (F) - Is it true that appearance doesn't matter? I am a plus sized black woman and I feel like men judge me by these factors. I got bullied often because of my race and for being big in high school and no men ever really showed interest in me. I ...

Should I just stop wasting my time with a guy who is so like my father? Neither my father nor my Bf have much patience.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

18 September 2015 (F) - I have been dating someone for the last 3 months, and he painfully reminds me my father. They have one thing in common, it's the way they conduct all the conversations. My father has no patience listening to something that he thinks is not imp...

Boyfriend being manipulated by two girls who have already manipulated my best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3346 days ago

17 September 2015 (F) - My boyfriend is being manipulated by two girls at work. One of them told me he never mentions me, thats she didnt know he had a girlfriend and hes always flirting with her- i know he talks anout me other people tell me he does all the time. He went ...

Why is my ex still friends with this guy after he hit on me but yet can't be friends with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3353 days ago

16 September 2015 (F) - I work at a local pharmacy as a cashier and my ex and his friend go there from time to time. It makes me uncomfortable that they are there. My ex doesn't go in because he is banned from the store (because he stole something before we started ...

Why is my ex-friend even trying with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

15 September 2015 (F) - My female friend treated me badly - she had an affair with my boyfriend behind my back, lied to me and basically treated me like dirt. We fell out obviously - but now she wants to make up and says she feels bad about everything she's done. ...

Why does my ex need to stay in touch? I am rather irritated and annoyed but too nice to tell him to stop

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

15 September 2015 (F) - My ex still hands around me as a 'friend'. We stopped sleeping with each other about 10 years ago, as basically I do not find him attractive anymore - so had no desire to be in a relationship with him. However, his family live nearby and whene...

How to deal with boyfriend's best female friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

14 September 2015 (F) - We have been together a bit more than a year. Half a year ago we had hard time in our relationship (broke up for a few weeks). No serious reason: we are two stubborn people. My boyfriend has a female friend (for 3-4 years by now) with who they sha...

Should I date the only friend I made in college?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3346 days ago

13 September 2015 (F) - I am 18 and have had severe social anxiety from when I was a child due to abuse from my family. I can hardly talk and relate to people, and therefore have only ever had 1 boyfriend for a short while. I've had very few friends too, and now about none ...

How can I overcome, or at least manage, being overly sensitive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3356 days ago

12 September 2015 (F) - Dear cupid How do you overcome or at least manage being quite emotionally sensitive? I find every comment people make that could be interpreted badly plays on my mind for days afterwards. I even find relatively fickle things such as being dele...

How do I get over my backstabbing friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3356 days ago

11 September 2015 (F) - How do I get over my backstabbing friend? We were friends to start with and then she started flirting with this guy I know who was friends with me too. At first it was all done lightheartedly, but then bit by bit she started to cause trouble be...

Is my friend (rightfully) angry since she hasn’t answered my email for days?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

11 September 2015 (F) - A decade ago my hubby and I moved to one of the most beautiful and touristic cities in Europe. We knew that our friends would visit. And they did. One more than others, let’s call her K. She’s smart, witty, sociable, makes friends easily … and she ...