A
female
age
30-35,
*upid78
writes:Please correct me if I am wrong!but I am really mad at a guy I am seeing for a little over a month.So on our last date(which was yesterday) he called me over to his place and no we did not even kiss it was us just hanging out and having dinner,but the numerous things he did in the span of time pissed me off!So I ask him to come pick me up,he was too lazy probably sends his driver which is okay..I go to his house he wouldn't even come outside to greet me,he stays in his room sleeping on his bed..he talked about how "bored" he was,despite me sitting there with him!fine lets just let everything go what was the final nail on the coffin was we sit together for dinner and I asked for a knife,he has help at home so he asked them to get it,and he started eating his food so I am there sitting next to him waiting for my knife while he continues to eat almost finishing his meal when I said I think I should just try using a fork and that's when he was like oh they did not give you a knife yet and he asked the help for a knife!i am not saying he doesn't offer at the table he does serve me!we were checking his phone he was showing some pictures and constantly these message pop ups from women kept showing up I did not ask them but that just disturbed be although he volunteered to drop me home!i am really considering if I should continue seeing him or just leave(it's not like he has asked me to be his girlfriend but indirectly hints)it's all confusing to me and at my age I want everything to be simple and I'm not looking to fool around with someone..what do I do? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, Xearo  +, writes (27 September 2015):
I think you deserve better, sorry. Sounds like one of the worst dates I've heard of.
A
female
reader, Ivyblue  +, writes (26 September 2015):
 Bad manners now, bad manners for ever- sounds like a spoiled prat
...............................
A
female
reader, Honeypie +, writes (25 September 2015):
 Eh, doesn't sound like there is much to recommend this guy. And you don't sound like you are all that attracted to him either.
I'd move on.
...............................
A
male
reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (24 September 2015):
 Dump this creature and find a real "boyfriend."
Good luck...
...............................
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2015): It does not sound like he is too interested in having a girlfriend, more like he gets kicks out of seeing how badly he has to act before a girl decides that it is too mich. Probably laughing because you are taking it all, maybe because he is rich as he doesn't sound nice.
...............................
A
male
reader, Denizen  +, writes (24 September 2015):
 Have some self respect. If you start by letting someone treat you like that it will never change.
He sounds like a spoilt brat who has had too many toys. You could just be another one of them.
...............................
|
