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female
age
36-40,
*ezza_4
writes:My boyfriend is being manipulated by two girls at work. One of them told me he never mentions me, thats she didnt know he had a girlfriend and hes always flirting with her- i know he talks anout me other people tell me he does all the time. He went out with them the other night, i wasnt invited, he cant understand why im angry. The girl im most concerned about is known as a slut, she doesnt want my boyfriend she only wants him to want her. I trust my boyfriend, i dont trust her. Oh i should mention the other woman in this story (not the slut), is his manager and the slut is her best friend. These two have already manipulated my best friend against me, at first it was to see how my relationship with my boyfriend was. Now i dont have my best friend and am scared of losing my boyfriend.
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reader, Queenie2015  +, writes (23 September 2015):
 HelloGosh this is bit complicated. Firstly if you trust your boyfriend you should know that he isn't going to cheat on you. It doesn't matter how slutty the woman is. Do not suffocate him, remember he works with these p[people and they could potentially make his work life hell. Secondly do not talk to them, if she is going out of her way to mention to you that she didn't know he had a girlfriend and that he never talks about you then I would suggest ignoring her. She's only trying to drive a wedge between you two. How did they manipulate your best friend? If I'm honest if your best friend believed whatever they said over you then I would say this person wasn't much of a best friend in the first place. Moreover I would never ever let anyone talk trash to me about my best friend, I don't care what other people think of her she's my best friend and I know her. There is nothing anyone could tell me that would make me fall out with her, unless she did something directly herself. But I know her and I know she wouldn't do anything that would jeopardise our friendship.
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