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Archived questions from: November, 2015 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

I don't want to lose her friendship over spur of the moment sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3308 days ago

30 November 2015 (M) - I had sex with one of my flatmates after a drunken Halloween party last month and I fear it’s destroyed our friendship. I’m 20, she’s 21. We live in a halls of residence flat at university with 4 other students, and are in our second year. We’ve ...

Why is my boyfriend suddenly indifferent about his ex who's now engaged?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3310 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - TDLR my boyfriend is suddenly completely indifferent about his ex after hearing she got engaged. What could be the reason for this sudden change of heart??? Long version: My boyfriend found it extremely hard to let go of his ex. They didn't date...

Do I just stop talking to him or keep waiting ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3310 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - hey everyone, i'm so confused about a guy right now. I don't know what to do. anyway i started talking to this guy a while ago and we started talking everyday back in september. we have hung out, i've stayed at his house twice the second time i st...

My friends are driving me crazy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3310 days ago

28 November 2015 (F) - My friends are really beginning to annoy me but they're the only friends I have (I mean, people who hang out with me outside school that my parents aprove of). Lisa is the worst. I'll be going somewhere with her and she'll be driving because she ...

Pay back my friend and have job security? Or go for my dream career?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3309 days ago

28 November 2015 (F) - Dear friends, I need some advice on what to do. When I graduated, the career I had wanted was out of reach because there were no job openings. I was barely able to keep myself afloat participating as a subject in medical experiments and ...

Guy asked me out, but he has a female friend who worries me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3311 days ago

27 November 2015 (F) - Met this guy recently and he seems to have a major thing for me and recently told me he liked me. His friends say I am his "type" physically and he is always giving me compliments etc. I told him Id think it over and to give me time. He is not my ...

How often is a partner in a relationship likely to come home drunk? His actions are causing me concern

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3312 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - Hi all, for those cohabiting and/or married, how often does your partner come home drunk? My boyfriend comes home drunk once a month. We've been living together for half a year. He reaches home around 3,4am, reeks of alcohol and is terribly inco...

Do troubled on again and off again relationships last? Or is she just kidding herself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3313 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - My friend is in a very 'on-off' relationship with her boyfriend. One minute they are best of friends having weekends away together and the next minute they are falling out and he is abusive to her and doesn't speak to her for days - and then the...

Can I safely assume that I don't have a young man that is attracted to me and is just being friendly/flirty with me and enjoy it as it is?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3313 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - I am a 40 year old and normally find when a man winks at you its either friendly or they are interested in you. However a younger man (I think he is about 25) joined our workplace a year ago and on his first day of being introduced to me winked at ...

Friend says I make him uncomfortable after he buys me a present

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2690 days ago

25 November 2015 (M) - Hey Cupids, I've had a situation recently with one of my now former friends that you might be able to help me with. Last year I got to know a guy called Oscar, for whatever reason when I first met him I didn't think we would get on. I was fri...

A 10-year friendship ended for no good reason

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3313 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - Is it possible for a friendship that lasted over 10years to suddenly end for no particular reason? Not really sure what I'm asking here just wondered if anyone else has experienced the same? Can shed any wisdom for me? I'm talking about a best ...

Smitten with my female best friend. She has a Bf. Am I Bi-sexual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3314 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - I am so beyond confused and hoping somebody will point my thoughts in the right direction.... I have always been bi-curious, but never actually thought bisexual! Reason being i've had 3 serious boyfriends, but never been tempted to have a girlfr...

How can I get past the fact that I'm not tall, improve my confidence and successfully date women?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3310 days ago

24 November 2015 (M) - Ashamed to be a short man. I don't feel like I have the same potential as a taller man. Anything positive that I do would be much better if done by a taller man. I am also the shortest guy in my family and every time I meet a relative, family friend ...

We spent a night cuddling and tickling and watching videos, but I just like him as a friend! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3315 days ago

23 November 2015 (F) - Ok so the other night I crashed on a friends couch because I was pretty drunk but after I'd gotten ready and into a sleeping bag my friend came back haven met another of our male friends and he was also going to be crashing in the living room but ...

Did I ruin the friendship? I'm in love with my male best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3317 days ago

22 November 2015 (F) - To cut a long story short, I'm in love with my male best friend. We've known each other 8 years and were close.. I came onto him a few weeks ago and we ended up having sex and now all these feelings have suddenly come from nowhere. We used to tex...

He thinks I should be flattered by his remarks, which I find hurtful. How should I respond?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3316 days ago

22 November 2015 (F) - I'm really upset about what my boyfriend has said and I'd like some opinions about whether I'm overreacting or not. I met my boyfriend on plenty of fish. For some reason he thought it would be a good idea telling me who else was talking to him w...

Am I reading too much into this?? Should I just back off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3316 days ago

22 November 2015 (M) - Have a question, for the lady's, been seeing a woman over two month's, seeing each other once a week, it's really good, feel's great. I know she has family an friends, needs her alone time, but girl's if you really like a guy, are you content,...

What did my friend mean by this question?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3317 days ago

22 November 2015 (F) - Hi, looking for sum advice, My male friend who I have known since we was 16. In the past week his wife had kicked him out, any cut a long story short, I offered him my spare bed untill things got bk on track (I try help friends much as poss), A...

How can I keep his interest high? Don't want to scare him off. Nor appear desperate

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3317 days ago

21 November 2015 (F) - Hey everyone, I'm 25 and I've been single for 6 months and not had any sexual contact for about 7 months. I'm a very sexual person so this has been a little frustrating but I'm trying not to let it get the best of me. But I'm starting to find the...

I don't entirely trust their friendship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3318 days ago

21 November 2015 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for a few weeks. I really like him but I am not sure about his best friend who is female. She is bipolar and seems to rely on him a lot as her husband is not a great communicator. They have known each other 20 years and he ...

Is my husband abusive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3317 days ago

21 November 2015 (F) - He never hit me, true. But I came to realize that even though I am not afraid of him, I do (or refrain from doing) certain things to avoid his reaction, be it impatience, lecturing or anger. Let's start with anger, he yells when he's mad. I hate tha...

He's being distant and going to spend the night at a female friends that he's slept with before. Should I worry?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3318 days ago

20 November 2015 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together a month now, before that we were good friends. It took him a week or so to come round to the idea of us being together but we made it official and things were good, up until last week. normally we would make ...

Do I marry my ex, when I hardly know him? What are my options in this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3313 days ago

20 November 2015 (F) - Hi everyone I need your advice, I was dating T from Italy while I am staying in South Africa for 4 years, in that 4 years we saw eachother a couple of times when he came to see me in SA, like not more than 5 times in that 4 years, so we hardly spent ...

I want to ask my boyfriend if he is doing drugs again but I don't know how to go about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3319 days ago

19 November 2015 (F) - I've come here as I'm scared of what the answer will be if I ask my boyfriend or his friends and I know what my family and friends will say, but I want to help my boyfriend. I'm 24 and for the past two years I have been in a relationship wit...

Am I his first real Gf? Or is it that he lacks consideration and empathy? Or does he lack commitment to our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3320 days ago

19 November 2015 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for 5 month. we dont get to see each other so much due to work and other commitments. im wondering if im expecting too much , this is the reason why . we message everyday even if its just to say hi and the odd day we dont ...

A friend has a crush on my BF. What needs to be done to discourage her unwelcome attention ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3320 days ago

19 November 2015 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles, I need some help here regarding a female Friend who has been asking my Boyfriend out. My Boyfriend and I discuss about boundaries with opposite gender friends and we both agree hanging out one on one with the opposite gender ...

How does one nicely tell a opposite gender friend you don't want to hang out anymore? Or is there no way to do so?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3321 days ago

How would you have handled ending an internet friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3320 days ago

18 November 2015 (F) - So...I'm dealing with some friendship issues... Is it wrong to back out of a newly-made friendship if you no longer feel chemistry with that person? This will be long because it's sort of a complicated situation. Basically, I make ...

How can I convince him to not break up with me, without me becoming a doormat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3321 days ago

18 November 2015 (F) - Today I had a serious talk with my boyfriend of two years. He wants to break up. I don't. He's not sure himself. I want to try to make this work, win him over. The situation is a little bit weird. Our relationship was nothing short of a fairy...

Should I ask her to my place for Thanksgiving?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3321 days ago

17 November 2015 (M) - Would like some advice, I have been seeing someone for about three months, thanksgiving is coming up. She didn't offer, me to come over, that is fine, I got friends, I can go over, to their place, it's just the thought, she didn't ask, she k...

Was I just another notch on his bedpost?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3321 days ago

17 November 2015 (F) - Hi Okay so I've been friends with this guy for a while, we don't see each other often but have a catch up now and again. I think he's nice looking and have liked him for some time, I wasn't too sure of his feelings about me and neither of us ev...

My friend has ended our relationship and I am hurt and confused

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3321 days ago

17 November 2015 (F) - I am pretty upset over a situation regarding somebody who was a very close friend. I will call her H. She has relocated to London at least 6 months ago because her fiance lives there and she writes in her blog on how she is torn and finds it hard to ...

Why did he completely ignore me? He even tried to hide his face, why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3321 days ago

17 November 2015 (F) - So there's this guy, I have been hooking up with him for a while now and we talk on and off. So I saw him today at school and he was sitting with his friend chilling. I think he had just worked out. He saw me but I didn't see him. My friend...

Feeling shattered that my Bf has been talking to his ex for 4 weeks. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3299 days ago

17 November 2015 (F) - I am really disappointed with what I found out yesterday im not really the jealous type but this lie has me broken!i Found out that my boyfriend has been talking to his ex for about 4 weeks now and no I did not snoop into his phone to find that out...

Is it too late for a last goodbye?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3321 days ago

16 November 2015 (F) - I suppose I should summarise. I met him 10 years ago and we started by dating. We were both incredibly young and reckless, not to mention mentally unstable. We were both confused about our sexuality but he has since came out as gay. Somehow a...

Has he lied to me again about what he really said to this girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3323 days ago

16 November 2015 (F) - I posted here last week about my boyfriend allowing this girl to pick off off his plate, take the cherry from his drink etc. Both myself and boyfriend's sister in law spoke to him telling him it's wrong, that he shouldn't have allowed it. He said ...

How can I be less self conscious about dating? What could encourage him to ask for a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3322 days ago

16 November 2015 (F) - Hello, I'm a very self-conscious person when it comes to dating and relationships. I've never been asked for a date nor had a boyfriend. And everytime a guy gives me signs that he's interested, i end up not believing that he likes me because ...

Should I be bothered? Does he want a girlfriend or a house-cleaner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3322 days ago

16 November 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year. We are both in our 30's, never married before and have no children. We live about 40 mins apart. Here is what bothers me. His house is quite dirty from having 2 large dogs(160LBS) inside that ...

Would it be wrong to meet with him in a public place in day time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3323 days ago

16 November 2015 (F) - I'm 16 and he's 20 and we met online. Before you say I'm a naive stupid teenager I've thought this through oh too many times. It turns out we actually live very close (like same town close). I know he wasn't lying about where he lived because I ...

Clearly three women in succssion have not felt "that way" about me. What am I doing wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3322 days ago

15 November 2015 (M) - Hello all. I am a 33 year old guy with a 10 year old daughter. Her mother and I split up nine years ago but I have been ever present in my daughters life. I see her as often as I can and I pay my way with every salary. Everything is great but for ...

All my Bf's past relationship history bothers me. Am I over-thinking all this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3325 days ago

14 November 2015 (F) - I have been bothered by my boyfriend's past relationships recently, because he kept bringing them up over the course of our relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for four years and he occasionally brings up his exes. We met when I was a sop...

I'll be 40 in 2 years and have nothing to show for it! I'm unhappy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3322 days ago

14 November 2015 (F) - A friend of mine (former classmate) sent me an invitation for the opening of her exhibition. I was happy for her and at the same time felt so small. Ever since we graduated (I’m much older than her) I haven’t done anything worth mentioni...

My new boyfriend is starting to make it all about him and his rules how can I show him its not all one way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3326 days ago

13 November 2015 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend a short time , he lives a 10 minute drive from me and we can both drive. he told me his dad isnt well so cancelled seeing me , previous to this i asked him how his dad was , he told me hes not at work but goes to see ...

My best friend has severe low self esteem and it's ruining our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3327 days ago

12 November 2015 (F) - My best friend has severe low self esteem and its ruining our relationship. We've been friends for years and I use to be really close to her but lately her behaviour is getting hard to deal with and is effecting my life. She has the typical beha...

I want to live a new lifestyle, but I'm afraid of not being accepted by my family and friends!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3327 days ago

12 November 2015 (M) - Hello everyone! I just want to say before I bring anything up, that this was a decision in the works for a long time, and it's set in stone for me. So, I'm 16 years old, and I have made the decision that I want to become a nudist. Or naturist, if ...

Did she confuse me with someone else? Or is her excuse plausible?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3328 days ago

12 November 2015 (M) - Hello, well I been seeing this woman for over a month, been great. I sent her a sweet tex this morning, she sent one back,but the tex said we should meet up for coffee, or a walk. It sounded like we never met before, so I ask her, she said some ho...

Is this friend trying to phase me out of her life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3327 days ago

11 November 2015 (F) - I have a lovely dog, who lacks confidence with other dogs but he has a best friend, who he meets regularly to play with. This dog's owner has become a friend over time. She's from a different walk of life from me. My husband and I love our life as ...

He didn't talk to me for 2 weeks, now he starts again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3328 days ago

10 November 2015 (F) - There is a guy at my university he used to stare at me alot and he made eye contat for so long, also he would flirt with me and smile at me alot. Then he suddenly stopped talking to me for almost 2 weeks or so. The past 2 days, he started to appro...

Should I explore the topic of three- and foursomes with my wife?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3329 days ago

10 November 2015 (M) - So my wife and I have been friends with another couple for years. Got along great, no issues. They moved away a few years ago and recently came to visit. It was like they never left, just amazing friendship. All four of us are relatively young...

Should I be suspicious that all is not well between us, based on his actions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3329 days ago

10 November 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of 9 months and i usually spend the weekdays together and he stays over at my place and then leaves in the morning to go to his place to get ready for work. on fridays he doesnt come for dinner and goes out for drinks with his friends ...