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writes: Hi, looking for sum advice, My male friend who I have known since we was 16. In the past week his wife had kicked him out, any cut a long story short, I offered him my spare bed untill things got bk on track (I try help friends much as poss), Anyway he msg me a few minutes after saying if we had sex that nite, and they got bk together say in next week would I think bad of him. I was completely shocked at what he askes me yes its happened once way before he was married. I was more confused as to why he said would I feel bad towards him if he got bk with her,I mean course I wouldnt id hate to think of it not working out for him,...but of course would never sleep with him anyway What did he mean? Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (22 November 2015):
 I think he was hoping you would want to have sex with him, and NOT hate him if he works it out with her. I think he was hoping for some NSA sex going on.
And I'd say if he really is a Friend, KEEP it that way. Don't get sex in the mix. Because? IF/WHEN they work it out, guess who would be painted as the bad guy? You.
I'd just make sure to shoot him down ASAP with the sex. Make sure he knows you are not interested in having sex with him now or ever. Because 1. he is a friend and 2. he is married 3. you aren't interested in sex with him.
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