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writes:Hello, well I been seeing this woman for over a month, been great.I sent her a sweet tex this morning, she sent one back,but the tex said we should meet up for coffee, or a walk.It sounded like we never met before, so I ask her, she said some how, an old tex to me got attached, to the new one, some of it was about last night,I almost thought she sent it to the wrong guy, that has happened before.Can an old tex get attached to a new one, from over a month ago?She also said she hopes I am just as sweet in person,but at the end, it was about last night, the tex was broken up, several times, am I just making to much out of this?
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reader, Abella +, writes (12 November 2015):
 I think she may be casting her net wide, making contact with several men and she lost track of who you were, confusing another guy with you.
If you have been in contact for a month and yet she is still looking around then it's likely that she does not yet see you as the ''one''.
Rather than straight out dating sights please do consider some other ways to meet a person where can see them in person and see how thet behave and discover what makes the lady ''tick'' before you ask her out.
So instead join in some leisure activities where you will regularly see some ladies.
For example: learn to play contract bridge at a club. Ladies often look for a bridge partner.
Join a zumba class (exercise/workout while having fun) more ladies then men at these sessions
Join an acquarobics class - they love guys joinging - lots of fun.
Volunteer at a big city hospital once a month - if you have one that uses volunteers.
Kind lovely ladies make good company and are more likely to NOT play the field while they get to know you.
You could even enroll in a cooking class ig it's a reasonanlt
Hasten slowly but steadily to form a friendship with a lady as similarly sincere as you. See how she treats After establishing a few facts about the lady - then you will know if you want to invite her to join you on a date?
Regards
Abella
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reader, Abella +, writes (12 November 2015):
I think she may be casting her net wide, making contact with several men and she lost track of who you were, confusing another guy with you.
If you have been in contact for a month and yet she is still looking around then it's likely that she does not yet see you as the ''one''.
Rather than straight out dating sights please do consider some other ways to meet a person where can see them in person and see how thet behave and discover what makes the lady ''tick'' before you ask her out.
So instead join in some leisure activities where you will regularly see some ladies.
For example: learn to play contract bridge at a club. Ladies often look for a bridge partner.
Join a zumba class (exercise/workout while having fun) more ladies then men at these sessions
Join an acquarobics class - they love guys joinging - lots of fun.
Volunteer at a big city hospital once a month - if you have one that uses volunteers.
Kind lovely ladies make good company and are more likely to NOT play the field while they get to know you.
You could even enroll in a cooking class ig it's a reasonanlt
Hasten slowly but steadily to form a friendship with a lady as similarly sincere as you. See how she treats After establishing a few facts about the lady - then you will know if you want to invite her to join you on a date?
Regards
Abella
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reader, dougbcoll +, writes (12 November 2015):
 some times you have to trust your gut feelings on things. you may need to slow down and watch her for her character. trust worthiness, lies, breaking dates.
i am not saying don't trust her , but you have only known her for a month right.
i am like " cows attack" i don't think it is possible to get a text mixed with another also.
the main thing is not over react, and start pointing fingers. if there was mistrust it will reveal it self over time.
just slow down and build a relationship, give it some time for the newness to wear off so you can see each other for who you both really are from day to day. i hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2015): My ex boyfriends texts used to add bits of old texts on coz he re "drafted an old version each time and accidentally left words on the end". I think she got confused about who she was texting and sent u one intended for someone else. The fact she is covering that up should tell you something. On the odd occasion I would wonder about my ex's texts he had his excuse. I eventually found out he had been seeing someone else at the same time as me. I had felt he was but he denied it regularly at the time. Trust your instincts. I doubt you're imagining it.
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reader, WhenCowsAttack +, writes (12 November 2015):
I don't think that is possible, but since it's only been a month I also think you may be making too much of it. It all hinges on this: have you agreed to be exclusive?
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