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26-29,
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writes:So there's this guy, I have been hooking up with him for a while now and we talk on and off. So I saw him today at school and he was sitting with his friend chilling. I think he had just worked out. He saw me but I didn't see him. My friend saw him and told me that as soon as he saw me he hid his face. One of my other friends said hi to him while I went to go do something but when I was walking across the room(I had to walk past him because he was by the exit) and he put his face down so I couldn't see it. I ignored him and walked away with my friends. And I saw out of the corner of my eye he turned and looked at me. I don't understand why he did that. In the past he said hi to me. He's been with his friends and he will say hi, but all of a sudden he won't. Like why hide your face from me? Reply to this Question
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reader, 02DuszJ  +, writes (18 November 2015):
 Pretty wishy-washy, immature, hot and cold behaviour from what sounds like a pretty immature guy really- let's face it he's not looking for a commitment, looking at your ages. Remember boys mature slower than girlsYou're young and you, cos he thinks that's all it is, and you're not saying otherwise... if you're having sex he's a little s**t cos he's not investing time into a romance with you and he's just a real user! sex is different for women, and something people should do in a relationship...Im sorry to say that it could well be like You wish said that he didnt want you to come over... because there was someone in the room that he has something going on with...Men dont play hot and cold and shy away like a little boy... trying to cover his face? Come on! What a wet wimp! Whatever has changed with him, it's quite a cowardly juvenile thing to do, just forget about him!Focus on friends, studies, just having fun meeting people at school, it's a really fun age and a good opportunity to find something you love and are passionate about. If you really want a boyfriend, make sure you get to know each other a bit first, flirt and mess aroud, but don't give yourself to any guy that doesnt want to commit to you.. or you'll just end up again with some little jerk giving you the cold shoulder, when he starts getting with someone else... or he cant be man enough to be honest with you about why...Take care and good luck, he's not worth it!
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reader, YouWish +, writes (17 November 2015):
 You said you're "hooking up" with him?
I'd guess that there's someone else he's also "hooking up" with, or she was somewhere in that same room.
Either way, unless you're in middle school (which your age suggests you aren't), I'd be surprised if you're the only one he's "hooking up" with.
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