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writes:Would like some advice, I have been seeing someone for about three months, thanksgiving is coming up. She didn't offer, me to come over, that is fine, I got friends, I can go over, to their place, it's just the thought, she didn't ask, she knows I live by myself, in a small apartment, I feel like we are really close,if I was having thanksgiving at my place. Or would I ask her? Reply to this Question
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (19 November 2015):
 You have only been dating 3 months . She will probably be spending Thanksgiving with her family and maybe it won't even have crossed her mind to include you in such an intimate famiy occasion at this early stage of your relationship. She knows that you live alone, but she will have assumed that you have anyway close(r) friends to spend the holiday with. As actually it happens to be the case.
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reader, chipmunk37  +, writes (18 November 2015):
 I wouldn't think too much into this. You may be getting close but she is most likely spending thanks giving with her family and thinks maybe three months is a little too early for you to be meeting the folks. I was seeing my boyfriend for over a year before I properly introduced him to my parents and two years before he felt comfortable enough around them to attend my mothers birthday party because it was just family.
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