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Archived questions from: September, 2011 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

He is afraid of committment! Is there a chance one day we might be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4800 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - my ex and I used to be best friends and then we decided to go out together. they were the best months until once he told me that he is afraid of commitment. he feels trapped when he is serious.at the same time he does not want to lose me. he didn't ...

My childhood crush just added me on FB! Should I strike up a chat?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - It was like, "OMG, is this true?..'' or "maybe I'm dreaming or somethng".. etc.. I opened my FB account and saw a single friend request.. I used to think who it might be, and guessed that maybe it was just someone from my old school whom I do...

She recently added the ex as friends on facebook. Should I be jealous? Will it affect our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4800 days ago

30 September 2011 (M) - My girl friend used to love some guy before we met but didn't start relationship.she said she only loved him because of peer influence and she was a fresh man student and alone.this was before 5 years.now they are friends on facebook and i don't ...

I am in relationship stress over this situation. Does he really love me? Why did he ignore me for so long after my Mom died?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - Hi Dear Cupid it's me again now a senior in high school and that also means that I have more relationship stress. As you may know from my last questions I've been involved with my bestfriend/ now ex-boyfriend and just when I thought things coul...

He says he is falling in love with me but that he can't leave his family. How can I let go of him and end our work affair?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - I need some advice. I am a teachers assistant at an elementary school. I have been working with the same man for the last three years. We are both married with 3 kids. We have formed a great friendship and seem like ideal mates for each other. W...

So, what was his feeling toward me? It's a little mysterious, so I need your opinions please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4800 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - I told my crush(an exchange student) I liked him. However, he said long distance relationship was impossible and if a relationship came into existence it wouldn't continue... In addition to this, he said he had no idea when he will come back to m...

Who is a Natural flirt? And what qualities signify a Natural Flirt?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...

Is it wrong of them? Neither of them seem to think they have done anything wrong

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - Okaay where to start.. Well i have been seeing this guy for a few days even though im all that into him i think hes okay but i thought id give him a chance. I will call this boy 'C' then there is one my best friends who i will call 'E' She (E) is s...

My best friend's really upset and I can't help

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29 September 2011 (F) - my best friend has been really upset for the last few months because she thinks shes really ugly and also she gets bullied for being lesbian by a lot of people, i have always been the one she leans on for help but im out of advice and i cant comfort ...

My boyfriend is close friends with my ex boyfriend..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4801 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - So here's the story. I dated this guy for a year, let's call him Mike, and when we broke up we pretty much stopped talking at all. Mike started dating one of my friends, and I started dating one of his friends shortly after (let's call him Tom). (...

Why am I always put in the 'friend zone'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4801 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - I'm 18 years old and I've never had a girlfriend before. I've put myself out there a couple of times already and I got rejected every single time. I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong. I've only once kissed a girl, and this was a friend proving me a ...

Did I cause offense? Should I apologise?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - I attended a get together with some friends the other day. These were a new group of friends so i got to chatting with some of them. There was this one girl who i started to chat to and we got a good conversation going. The conversation eventually ...

I cant understand him! Does he see me as just a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4801 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - One day, I asked my crush(He is an exchange student, and he also asked me out for the pub and having dinner with his friends) out for a lunch . He said it was okay and decided where we ate lunch. However, next day, he said on email he couldn't hang ...

How can I support him? Could he be lying to cope with his parents' divorce?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - Hi, I have this very good guy friend. He is a really good guy, very sweet and usually an honest person. About two weeks ago he texted me he wasn't going to be in school. I asked why, and he said family issues. I told him I hope eveythings ok and h...

How normal, or how often, is it likely a person could get depressed by what their loved one says?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - How normal or often is it to get depressed by what your loved one says? sometimes I feel like I was in a better place before I talk to my boyfriend. He's very politically centered, and I just don't like politics. everything has to be poli...

My work colleagues rarely bother asking me to go out with them as a group. How do I get accepted by this group? Should I ask if I can join in?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4801 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - Hi, I really hope its okay just this once to ask a different type of relationship question!! My work 'mates' never ask me to go anywhere with them, and I was wondering should I start asking them to come out with me instead? Ive worked t...

Is a one-sided fling okay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - So I am living in Hawaii until December. I came out here for school and intended to leave earlier. I met a guy who told me he's falling in love with me. I like being around him and compared to my previous boyfriends, he doesn't annoy me. There ...

He says he is straight. But is he?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - I am a bi male. I have a friend who I believe is "straight" but have doubts. Now ordinarily I wouldn't care about another persons sexual preference. But I have feelings for him. He knows that I am bisexual and has known since the beginning of our ...

Is his promiscuous ex flirting with my man? What can I do to stop it, or am I possessive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, I have a loving relationship with my bf for a month plus. Before that we already knew each other for almost a year. Although I'm very happy with everything, I can't help but feel that his ex is trying to flirt with him. She replies ...

My friend tried to make my boyfriend end it with me! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - So this girl that I have been getting pretty close as friends, I met her a couple months back. Well I also just recently came out of a relationship and she has kinda been right there with me. I have reunited with someone whom I never really gave ...

Feeling angry all the time because I don't trust my boyfriend and these other people are getting in the way of our relationship...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - Okay, firstly this is my question; I don't know what to do. In the very begining of my relatonship with my BF, if im being honest he wasnt the best and even he will say that now too. He never wanted to text a lot or see each other and he put th...

Friends or more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4794 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - Hello, I am in a bit of an awkward dillema at the moment, and i am grateful for anyone who has the patience and is lenient enough to read this thoroughly. I am currently studying at university alongside this guy (who i shall name D for confiden...

What are the tell tale signs that two people are romantically involved?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - What are the tell tale signs that two people are romantically involved particularly are having sex. I think two of my close friends [male and female] are doing the nasty.... yet both of them are married to other people. I dont know if its all in my ...

Is he into me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - One day, I asked my crush(He is an exchange student, and he also asked me out for the pub and having dinner with his friends) out for a lunch. He said it was okay and decided where we ate lunch. However, next day, he said on email he couldn't hang ...

It's been a week now. I don't know how to proceed with her. Should I tell her '' No''? or say more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

28 September 2011 (M) - So I have this friend I have known for two years now. Several months after meeting she confessed that she liked me as "more than a friend", thought I was sexy, smart, wonderful and said she wanted to date me. I was very flattered but am not ...

Break his heart when we've been through so much or try to get past these things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4803 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and sometimes I feel so in love with him and other times I just can't stand him. Now I just don't feel attracted to him. He loves me to the moon and back and he'd never betray me but I just don't know what ...

Been with my girlfriend for 5 years but lately I'm feeling very unappreciated...what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

27 September 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 5 years. I lately feel very unappreciated in our relationship, and don't feel as though that is fair. She says she appreciates me, but I tell her that unless I feel it, it doesn't count. Recently, we r...

His ex is a newly married good looking girl. What does it mean to us he checks her out on FB regularly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - We are just about to get married and I found out that my future husband is regularly visiting facebook profile of his ex who is also freshly married. He told me about her, that he left her as he couldn't imagine being with her for the rest of his l...

Do I want too much in this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - I'm currently dating a lovely guy. I'm not sure if I can really use the word "dating" because even though he wants us to be exclusive and tells me he loves me, he refers to me as a friend to everyone he introduces me to. On Facebook, he was fine ...

She does not know why. What can we do for her to feel better and possibly restore her love for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4803 days ago

27 September 2011 (M) - I need help it's with my gf. we have been currently been together for 2 years and 2 months recently she has told me she has had a very bad feeling and she is losing her love for me. I don't know why she is like this, and she doesn't have a clue ...

How much is too much patience? He tells me to "please wait and be patient" but my patience has limits

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - So I met this guy two years ago but he was with someone else, so we lost touch, but then one day a year ago we started talking again. And I found out he was single. We started talking practically everyday and every night and things seemed to go very...

Love triangles. I keep trying to do the 'right' thing but it keeps hurting more and more. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - First it's important to know that I have never had this occur before, never thought it even slightly possible, and hope it never happens again. I'm 35 and 3 years ago I moved workplaces. I was assigned a mentor, B, who was great in showing me the ...

Why do people expect their significant others to stop seeing the mother/father of their child even though they are together?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - Hi, I have seen alot of questions on this site an also on TV and once with my aunt. Why do people expect their bf/gf/husband/wife/fiance to stop seeing the mother/father of their child because they're together? For example, lets say a girl and a bo...

Seems like every girl loves him. He flirts. What should I do? Don't want to appear jealous.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - I really like a boy and I know he loves me. But it seems like every girl loves him. He knows it too. It really makes me feel insecure and jealous when he flirts with other girls. Is it normal for a boy to do this? Am I overreacting? I'm afraid that...

My friend's date decided she like me instead

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

27 September 2011 (M) - My friend has met a girl on a dating website, they went on two dates and invited me along to the third...I was ment to have a blind date with her mate. As soon as I seen them both I knew I didnt like the blind date so I just enjoyed he night and the ...

I was considering writing him a short email with my phone number. Is this stupid to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - I will be leaving my job soon and was hoping to keep in touch with certain people..There is a guy coworker in my area..i sometimes feel the way we look at each other we like each other and other days things are just normal without any looks..we also ...

How to hint other people I am gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - Hey there all who want to help :) I am gay, 22 years old, straight looking and acting though, since i dont like being femine (no offence to femine gays out there) and since that is the way I normally am :P. My question is, if there are any si...

BFF? Emotional affair? Possessive? Has this ever happened to you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4804 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - How can i know if i'm in a emotionnal affair with my male bff (i've known him for one year)? I adore my boyfriend but i like the attention i get from my bff he listens to me and notices me more than my bf it seems. I'm addicted to it I think like a ...

Why do I only want to date my friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - Hey everyone I'm a gay guy and I guess I find it hard to get close to other gay people and I’ve had my fair share of disastrous dates! Anyway I’ve come to realise that the only people I seem truly attracted to are people that I am friends with tho...

Why does she flirt so much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Why does one of my best friends flirt with loads of boys? There is one boy who she goes out with, but she says she doesnt like him, his friend likes me but whenever he isnt around she flirts with him. The other day we had been round at a friends ...

I'm the last one to be told anything about his plans. Do I end the casual relationship we've got going?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - There's this guy I've been seeing. We aren't official, but have spent the last month and a half or so together. Not long ago I found out, via a mutual friend of both me and him (a friend who does not know we are seeing each other), that he plan...

When is the right time for me to come out as a Cross Dresser? I need help to come to terms with my life.

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26 September 2011 (M) - I am whats classed as a cross-dresser. I want to be able to 'come out' to my parents, to my school mates, to everybody. I am afraid to do this, I have almost told my Mam once or twice, but Dad is so male, that I am afraid to tell him. I need help ...

Has being single so long left me bitter in some way, or maybe desperate seeming?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - I've been single for three years. The first year was nice, because I was finding my own life after getting out of a long, young, horribly bad relationship (only one ever). Now I've wanted to be with somebody and have a healthy relationship for year...

Sad part? I don't think he likes me that way. Is it that he just wants to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - I've been friends with this guy for quite some times. We are really close and I believe we've known each other for 7 years. Well this year we finally confessed we liked each other and dated for a two months. After we broke up things went back to o...

Can this be a relationship? He is straight and I am gay. He's a co-worker.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - i would like to ask help or advice regarding my relationship to my co-worker. i am so very confused about our relationship because between the two of us there is a mutual understanding between our friendship. probably he knows that i care for him ...

I really do like this girl, but I don't want to be THAT guy. She has a Bf already

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4805 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - So i met this girl at school and i started falling for her. After a couple months of crushing, i found out she had a boyfriend. I tried hard to forget her and move on but it was very hard because I see her everyday. So we started becoming clos...

I'm just really hurt and I didn't see it coming. Do I just let her go? I really do like her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4794 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - First of all thank you for reading this! So i've been in love with my best friend now for close to two years. We met at a friend's house and we liked each other and went on a few dates. She had just broken up with her boyfriend of two years so she...

Too many arguments. is there a way I can get over him without ending the relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - im worried my boyfriend and I are not going to work out. We argue every single day about stupid things. Im deeply in love with him , and what hurts the most is that this relationship was unexpected. He claims that he's in love with me , and that...

Was he being cruel? why would he give me his friends phone number and not his? why not just say no thanks ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

26 September 2011 (?) - names have been changed I am doing running crew for a play and i asked one of the cast members(X) if i could buy him coffee sometime , He said sure and i got his phone number but as we were standing there his friend(Z) said that's not his n...

I think I'm falling for my one and only friend! Should I carry on flirting and get my hopes up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Well i know you probably hear things like this all the time so, ill try and keep it short as possible and thanks for taking the time to read it!. Basically long story short i think i might be starting to really fall for my one and only friend. ...