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writes: I will be leaving my job soon and was hoping to keep in touch with certain people..There is a guy coworker in my area..i sometimes feel the way we look at each other we like each other and other days things are just normal without any looks..we also made out a couple of times this year after happy hours..i am guessing hook ups don't mean as much to guys even if the kisses felt nice or like there was something there(atleast thats how i felt at times)..i think since then i started to like him more..we act normal of course. I would like to keep in touch with him just in general..it doesnt have to mean other things..i know he is dating someone now as well but i just wanted to put it out there that i hope we can keep in touch and atleast see each other once in awhile.It's been quiet at work towards the end of the day and i was hoping maybe he would ask me for a drink before all going out together but he hasnt..so i guess thats a clear sign he isnt looking to pursue me romantically?I was considering writing him a short email with my phone number. Is this stupid to do?? I dont wanna leave and just never talk again
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reader, KittieS  +, writes (27 September 2011):
 He's dating someone else, it's time to move on!
You have a new job to look forward too, and who knows there might be a nicer guy just around the corner!!
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (27 September 2011):
 Yeah, if he's dating someone else now, that's a really clear sign that he's not looking to pursue you romantically.
If you're leaving your job that he's in, best to chalk him up to a work memory and move on.
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