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Archived questions from: 5 September, 2011 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

I would like to be more than friends, but she is a serial cheat and I worry that she would do the same to me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

5 September 2011 (M) - We're both 16 and we've known each other for about 5 years and been best friends for about 2 years. We are very honest to each other and we've both admitted to liking each other however one of us or the other has always been in a relationship so ...

I feel I hug people too much. How can I control this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4818 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Ok this is a really stupid problem but I think it makes people uncomfortable. I'm a very huggy/cuddly person and I think that it annoys everyone and makes me seem strange. Like I don't go up to random people and hug them; just people I know. I...

Heart broken in Texas: I found out through facebook that my friend has been in a relationship for nearly a year and never told me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4817 days ago

5 September 2011 (M) - I am a male who has been friends with a female for 18 years. During that span we dated for about four years (at the beginning of our friendship). About 10 years ago, I moved away to a different state but I went back for visits every year until last ...

We were supposed to be friends but he didnt even tell me he is married and expecting a baby!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - I'm having a bit of a crisis and I'm probably mad but here goes. I split with my ex partner in November last year, though we dragged it out until January with sweet I miss you type e-mails (there was never a doubt of still loving each other, j...

Is my friend toxic? she seems to nick friends off you. Is she too much trouble?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Hi. I have one friend who I spend more time with than anyone else. We were at school together, we’re at uni together and we’re even sharing a house this year. She’s been one of my closest friends since I met her but she can be pretty annoying...

I'm newly single. Should I wait in case my ex and I can get back together? Or go with this new girl now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - I have been in love with this girl for five years, and now she has left me saying she can no longer take the fights we generally have. And so i let her go thinking she might really be facing real trouble. And i wasn't even thinking of anyt...

Don't want to do anything stupid. Should I tell my "friend" that I like his girlfriend, but I'm not going to act on my feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

5 September 2011 (M) - so im in love with my "friend's" girlfriend and have been since february. I just want to be with her so much and everytime i speak or talk to her i just want to kiss her. we are quite good friends and talk very often. we text and facebook. i told...

Why, when I reach out to her does she still blank me out? Seems I cannot do anything right with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

5 September 2011 (M) - I suspect the possible answers to this one, but just want to be sure. A friend of mine, not spoken to her since July, I made all the effort, it wasn't given back. I sent her a letter last week as I heard it was an anniversary that wasn't too p...

Am I expecting too much from him? five years into our relationship and still he remains at the beck and call of his ex and others.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my partner for over 5 years. Lots of difficulties have came from his ex wife, daughter, his mother and his mother's friend. I have struggled to understand why. I can see clearly now that these 4 women have had ...

Will this couple make it? Interested in your opinion, in view of their myriad of differences?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - I'm asking this question purely out of curiosity. What are the chances of a couple (one of them being a relative of mine) making their relationship work the second time around if she ended the relationship the first time because her bf tried to ...

But what can I do to make this consuming jealous feeling go away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4818 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been in a long distance relationship for almost three years on and off. i feel like i constantly have these insecurities that eat me up inside. i try not to show them because i don't want to push him away. but he has this...

My alarm bells are ringing. Do my suspicions about this guy seem on target?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - There was a guy who I had in a couple of my university classes with me. We would talk in class and during breaks and stuff, and he seemed interested in me. So one day he asked if we could do something together. Mind you, he never gave me his number ...

How do I get some balance back into our friendship? my friend is obessive and possesive of our other friends. Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4817 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - so my friend lets call her J is being super possesive of our other friends lets call them JC n A. Everyday J has to call JC n A who are sisters to see what they are doing. J textes them like crazy. Always wanting to know where they are at and if ...

What do I need to do? I'm worried and broken hearted over our falling out. She means so much to me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4818 days ago

5 September 2011 (M) - my bestfriend for 3yrs. Yet we got into a heated argument over a lie someone else told.. She and I have only slept together 2 times in those 3yrs.As a guy, i have more respect her than that. Yet no matter what i say, she won't believe me. My heart...

My best friend is a slut and I think she's after my boyfriend....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - I'm 15, turning 16 in two weeks. My boyfriend is a really great guy. He's got everything--looks, sweet, sense of humor, caring, and on top of all that, loaded. He would never cheat as he's been cheated on. My best friend (L), for lack of a better ...

How can I stop talking to my guy friends? My boyfriend gets really mad.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - How can I stop talking to my guy friends? I'm still in high school and my boyfriends in his first year of college. He doesn't talk to girls at all in college because he says he loves me too much to talk to them but I talk to two guy friends and he ...

After 8 months, he says he feels he loves me more as a special friend than a girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - So i've been going out with my bf for 8 months, and recently he told me that he didn't feel like that he loves me as a gf anymore.. and he said like, right now he still loves me but he feels like i'm more of a really special friend than a gf.. B...