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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi,I really hope its okay just this once to ask a different type of relationship question!!My work 'mates' never ask me to go anywhere with them, and I was wondering should I start asking them to come out with me instead?Ive worked there a year, and the one time I went with them - to the Christmas party, everyone talked over and around me because they are firm friends having worked together for years! Im usually confident but I found myself silent! Turns out they socialise a lot and Im wondering am I missing out not joining in?We do all get on in work, and I have an outside life so I don't need to try I guess, but should I ask?Considering they dont ask bother asking me to go out?Thank you.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (29 September 2011):
 Yes I think you should go for it. Maybe none off them have even thought about asking you to join them. So why not ask them on a night out and hopefully things will change.
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