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Archived questions from: July, 2011 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

I'm not sure if he is into me, am I wasting my time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - Is he into me or not? So i went out for dinner with an old college friend. This is the first time we went out alone.It was not a date, more like two friends catching up. I think both of us had a good time. So he stays in another city. Around 3-...

Everybody at works think we are an item but I am not sure what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

31 July 2011 (M) - Hi, I work with a girl who I have developed strong feelings for and I don’t know what to do. She broke up with her boyfriend about 5 months ago and we have become very close, we have spent a lot of time together, going out to dinner, to the movi...

Am I being too fussy and picky when it comes to girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

31 July 2011 (M) - I'm a virgin guy and 20. I've finished my first year of uni. There have been a few girls. I kissed one in a club, danced with a few and there was one i was interested in but she wasn't. Anyway yesterday i met up with my mates who i hadn't seen in a ...

Does he think of me as a good mate or something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - Last nite i stayed round my mates house who i used to like ( still do a little) but he has told me clear that there is no spark there for him, ( we have slept together a few times )before he ound out i liked him Anyway last nite i called him in ...

Is my male friend living in hope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - At the beginning of the year I decided I need to widen my social circle and find friends who have children the same age as my daughter. Emailed a few people on Facebook that I went to school with and now back in touch with some old school ...

We planned our pregnancy, now I am having second thoughts

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I have a bit of a dilemma..... At Christmas, my parter and I decided to come off using contraception and just to let nature take its course and see what happens. Last month, we booked our wedding and honeymoon for July next year and I went ba...

How do I tell guys that like me that I don't like them back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I dont know how to tell the guys that like me, that i dont like them back. (yes, guy(s) - there is 2) The first one is like my best friend, i've known him for 7 years and we've always been best friends but recently he started developing feeli...

He says he likes me very much but insists were just friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - HOw can I tell if my male friend is acting as more than a friend - he calls me each day sometimes more than once a day and says he likes me very much but insists he's just a friend. However, to me it seems more than that but I don't know if I am ...

She's accusing me of cheating on her and being jealous of her male friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 July 2011 (M) - I'm 19, been with my girlfriend who's 21, for 6 months now. All's been well up until recently. However, for the past few weeks, she's been accusing me of being jealous of her male friends. The irony? I'm not jealous, and I even get along we...

I'm leaving soon should I tell her about my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 July 2011 (M) - Hello everyone. I am due to leave in Sept for further studies from my home country, for the next two years, at least. The problem I'm facing is concerned with my feelings for a girl. I have known her for a year now, and I have developed deep fee...

Should I cancel the trip or go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Okay so, I have had this crush on this boy for quite a while - but it was an innocent crush, more just from afar. I went to high school with him, he was two years above me. It never even crossed my mind anything would happen because we were just ...

I hate being her backup friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Basically my friend has got closer with somemeone else who she always falls out with. I'm sick of them getting close because something always happens and my friends comes running back to me! Should I tell her this? I hate feeling like second ...

I think he is my soulmate but he has a girlfriend. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - I need to know his feelings about me. This man and I have developed a really strong friendship. In fact, I would say he is probably my very best friend. We met by circumstance last year and immediately, I felt this strange cosmic connection like he ...

Torn between two guys. I'm SO confused, what do I do?!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, So lately I'm really confused. I've been single for 8 months and started talking to two guys just as friends. Then it turned out I started liking them both. I kind of therew off the older one since he'll be in college, but he tells me...

Girlfriend has kept our relationship secret for a year. Should I be upset about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - My girlfriend doesn't want to tell her friends that we've been dating for a year because that would mean they would know that she's only been single for 2 months (she had just gotten out of a relationship). She's finally going to tell them that ...

My friend is WAY too clingy and is getting on my nerves! What do I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Hi, Basically, I have a friend that I've been studying with this past summer, since we are both taking the same summer class. He'd ask me to study a lot, and I would be fine with that at first, since it would force me to study. However, I'm st...

I think my only friend (who is a guy) may like me. How can I be sure and what should I do if he does?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Hello x well basically i have a bit of dilemma. I only have one friend and i'm starting to get abit of a feeling he may fancy me a bit. He is the only friend i have and i've known since before i can remember. I recently lost all my friends and ...

He's ignored me for two weeks. How can I keep his interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - okay so there's this guy he's not the player type. He is usually so sweet to me and we used to talk and text all the time. He recently asked me to go to town with him, just us two, and after we went back to his house. We spent the whole day together ...

I can't get these cruel words out of my head

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 6 months and everything was going great however I did always feel a bit smothered, if I wanted to go out with my friends he ALWAYS wanted to come along. My ex boyfriend is an event ticket salesman and there we...

Is he leading me on? I really thought he liked me but I'm not so sure now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4894 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - I honestly thought this guy liked me. He really doesn't like affection, but doesn't mind when I show him affection, and shows me much more affection than I've ever seen him show to anybody else. He flirts with me a lot. He compliments me a lot and ...

Suggestions! what can we do when she comes over so I don't bore her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) - Hello everybody. I've come to this site seeking some suggestions and maybe even some tips? My situation is this: I've been texting one of my friends back and forth and while doing so, we've gotten a bit close and I learned how she really acts ...

I've been hurt before and I don't want it to happen again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Hey I,m in a bit of a dilemma and i could use some help. Last night i went out with my friends and one of my friends brother. Now i hardly know this guy but his sister and my best friend told me he's a nice and sweet guy. Last night I ended up...

Love triangle with my two best friends.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - I have two best friends. One's a girl, let's call her Mary, and ones a boy, let's call him Jack. Well Jack is dating Mary and what she doesn't know is is that I love him.. And That he loves me too. A couple weeks ago I told him I loved him and to my ...

Do I take heed of the Value Judgements of others? Or can my fiance and I find happiness following our dreams to help others?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - im having a bit of a personal crisis in my life right now, this may take a while to explain so bear with me. When i was a teen i had 2 best friends, we had all been home schooled and spent as much time together as we could. that all changed ...

FWB--I'm scared I'm in too deep

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - About a year ago I was just getting out of a 3 year drammatic relationship when I met this guy. We had mutual friends and instantly clicked, so after a few drinks one night we ended up hooking up. Neither wanted anything serious as he was getting ...

Is this guy just being nice? Or does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - I have a guy friend who is from my hometown and I've known for a long time, although we were never close but just had mutual friends. I always thought he was cute, and invited him as my date to a wedding a year ago. Since then, we would talk via ...

Any advice for my situation? Never had a girlfriend and need some new social outlets.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4895 days ago

28 July 2011 (M) - I've been going through a bit of a rough spot, maybe some of you will have some words of wisdom. I'll try to keep this as concise as possible. I've been having a really hard time meeting girls since graduating from high school. I'm a fairly qui...

We're working on fixing things but his ex is still a big concern for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - I have been with this guy going on two years, living together the last year. We have been described as being "each others opposites." He's very serious, already has his next five years of his life and finances planned out, introverted, and it's such ...

Have I missed my chance to ask her out and does she see us as just friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

28 July 2011 (M) - Alright this is kind of a 2 part question, so there is this girl i had met at university who i really liked and coincidentally she lived in the room next to mine in residence so we got to know one another by the end of the year. So here is my probl...

What have I done so wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - whats the best way for me to handle this. im so down at the mo. everyday at work theres always someone ready to make me the butt of their jokes. noone likes me because i work really hard and say i will make them look bad so im viewed as a social ...

Can a romantic gay-straight relationship work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

28 July 2011 (M) - So, I am 20 and gay and my best friend is 21 and straight. We started chillin in high school and never thought much of it but we spent almost every day together and as a result we have fallen in love with eachother. At first I thought I just had a ...

How can I help someone who is grieving?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - how can i help my friend deal with the death of her mother? she is forty something. single, has custody of her brothers child and she is a nurse. she lived with her mum but aside from being mum and daughter they were best friends too and went ...

I'm a VIRGIN and I don't deny it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4897 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Hello there! Ok I seem to be so confused! Im in highschool and in the words of other people im ''a trip, funny, popular, cute, pretty, fine ,curvy, athletic, confident, independent, smart, loyal'' i was even nominated most outgoing and most ...

I was mad and cheated on her, but now her family and friends hate me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (M) - My ex and I got into a fight while we were still dating and I was mad and cheated on her. I felt horrible and told her about it the very next day. She was mad and we broke up. A few weeks later we got back together and I cheated again. This all ...

It's really hard to spend time with my bf because his roommate always tags along

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - my boyfriend is bestfriends with his college roommate they are going to be Jr.s this year and have been rooming together every year and both summers they take every class together, and join all the same activities if one jumps the other jump...

My bestfriend's brother is texting me. I don't want to reply and risk losing my friend. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - okay so i have had the same best friend for 6 years and we are always together which means im mostly over her house, she has an older brother and we fight all the time, some say like a married couple, but she has said that she doesnt have friends ...

We are a really close group of friends but lately I have slowly been kicked out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - my friends phone just rang me in her pocket and i answered and could hear all my friends at a sleep over with out me and i could hear them bitching about me being a bitch and a slag... i text them to say i had heard all this and im not answering ...

Is he worth fighting for? He said he doesn't want a relationship.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - So. Hey everyone. Here's my story. I know this guy since about three years and I've had a number of crushed on him since about a year and a half ago. I never acted on them because I had a boyfriend at the time but no matter how strong I fought t...

Why do I feel so strongly about this guy??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4897 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - Why do I feel so strongly about this guy. i really like him.? I really like this guy at work. He's really friendly and lovely. He stares at me when am not looking and looks away when I catch him. I gave him my number, we were chatting on t...

Should I try and call people after I got so badly drunk and see how they react to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - I am ashamed of myself. I am in my mid 30's and got drunk at a party, acted very stupid and said so many things that I wouldn't normally say. All I remember is that it was pretty bad and my inhibitions had dropped very low and I would have said ...

Do I tell my guy friend that his girlfriend is a complete tramp and people are laughing at him behind his back because he is dating her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - I have a male friend who has been dating this woman for about the last 6 months seriously. He and I had a past, but now we really are just friends and it is cool. He has always been hesitant about relationships since he was burned by who he thought ...

Why is arrogance so appealing? Should I become more arrogant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

26 July 2011 (M) - Hi! I m a 25yr old, have average looks, good physique, sound financial position, and have a good behaviour(as people around me say). I never disgrace someone, never think anyone is inferior to me, never show off my attitude to anybody. Some of ...

I have a boyfriend but am crushing on a friend. Do I act on it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - So I'm in a very happy relationship with my boyfriend of 3 years. We love each other and don't ever plan to break up. However, I've had a crush on one of his friends from school for longer than I've been with my boyfriend, and it's really been ...

Too good to walk away from

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid I have met a man who I have fallen in love with - and to use an over used cliche, I have never felt like this before. I do not love him, I don't know him well enough for that - but I feel that I could and I want to. I want to show him...

Should I be worried about my flirty fiance and his 2 women friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4895 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - I am a 31 yr old mother to 4 wonderful little boys..I recently got divorced after 2 yrs of seperation from my childrens father. I am getting remarried next month (August 2011) to a man who loves me very much. Ok here goes..even though I know that my ...

What can I do to make the situation with my friends better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4897 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - at school i have about 6 friends, i get along fine with all of them, but recently they're starting to get kind of annoying. its like im starting so see the bad side of them and its coming more and more obvious as time goes by. there are way to m...

After 8 years of being friends I'm finding it hard seeing us as a couple

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - I don’t know how my relationship with my best friend/boyfriend will work. The situation is, we were best friends for 8 years, and then about 4 weeks ago I told him that I liked him more than a friend. He said he felt the same and we have been goi...

Should I face my fears head on and go to this party? Or should I admit that the past 2 years have been a failure and forget them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - For the past two years I've been at a college on the other side of my city, the side I had never set foot in before. It's a very tight-knit community that doesn't care for strange outlanders it seems. I tried at first, I really did. But as soon as ...

Should we still just be fooling around at 7 months or should we be taking it to the next level ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - I've been messing with my guy bestfriend for a while now, about 7 months. We normally text everyday, from the time we wake up til the time we go to sleep. (Normally he falls alseep first so in the morning he responds to the text from me the previous ...

Cold texts but warm body language, what does this mean ladies ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

25 July 2011 (M) - Ladies help me out with this one, girls are sooooooo difficult to figure out. I used to work with this girl, every weekend. I think she likes me because she is so shy around me, makes effort to speak to me but recently has been going so red in ...