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*utu22
writes:I am ashamed of myself. I am in my mid 30's and got drunk at a party, acted very stupid and said so many things that I wouldn't normally say. All I remember is that it was pretty bad and my inhibitions had dropped very low and I would have said anything. The people I was with that day I know and everyone is linked somehow and that's what makes this worse. they all would talk about this since it is something new and exciting to talk about: how i acted and let the "party guy" kiss me. everyone asked me if i was his girlfriend and I am not...even more to be ashamed of. there are a lot of things i am embarrased of from that day and I probably offended people. I feel low class and I really should have known better since this has happened to me before many times. I am older now and there is no excuse. I know that all I can do is learn from it and not do this next time and this is what most people will probably tell me . I just don't know if i should try to call people and try to see how they act with me? try to see if i did say something to offend them? i just don't know what to do because this situation makes me look so unclassy and i feel like it was a make or break day for me since i just came out of a relationship and really needed to set my reputation back up with people i havn't seen for a long time and they all wonder what kind of person i am. So in a matter of a few hours i was able to show them i am a stupid girl..i feel so low.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 July 2011):
I would just apologize to the people. I think that's all you need to do.
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reader, tutu22 +, writes (26 July 2011):
tutu22 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank u..one thing i need to clarify though is that the way i think i offended people is by being loud and obnoxious and blurting stuff..basically annoying and acting crazy. i didn't really attack anyone persay..
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 July 2011):
I wouldn't ring up and ask what happened and what they think. I would ring up a few people who you're close to and apologize for your actions, and explain that you were in a bad place following a break up. An apology will make more difference than asking them if they were offended.
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reader, tutu22 +, writes (26 July 2011):
tutu22 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionand just to add to this I was not yelling at people or cursing or anything..i was just acting like I loved everybody and complimenting people way too much and acting like we were best friends and I do remember being pushed around a bit since people saw that I was drunk they were having fun with me and I was just laughing..just very ashamed of how i was acting.
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reader, Roshii +, writes (26 July 2011):
 You can only apologize for your action at the party and take it all on the chin.
we've all been so embarrassingly drunk at some point in our life's so i really wouldn't be to worried about it.
So yeah take it on the chin, apologize let them know your embarrassed and have a little giggle about it.
It'll be old news soon.
I hope that helps
Roshii
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