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writes:Alright this is kind of a 2 part question, so there is this girl i had met at university who i really liked and coincidentally she lived in the room next to mine in residence so we got to know one another by the end of the year. So here is my problem, for most of the school year she had a boyfriend which was ok because i didn't realize i liked her until the latter half of the year, so about the end of March she mentioned that she and her boyfriend had broken up but from what i gathered she didn't seem too upset about it (i could be wrong though). Anyway once she told me that she had broken up with her boyfriend i really wanted to ask her out but i didn't for a number of reasons 1) we were close to final exams 2) i was worried that she only saw us as friends because we had walked to class together sometimes (just the two of us) and i would usually ask her if she wanted to join my roommate and i for dinner if i saw her sitting alone. So, now school is over and we are on summer vacation and i added her on Facebook and a few weeks ago we had quite a lengthy conversation about classes and the start of school and what not, so my question is have i missed my chance to ask her out and does she only see us as friends?
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reader, N91  +, writes (29 July 2011):
 Chance it, ask her. You never know and it could be a decision that pays off.
Nothing ventured nothing gained - good luck buddy!
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reader, shalley  +, writes (28 July 2011):
 Hello! I dnt think you have missed your chance of asking her out.you can still ask her out since she has'nt mentioned that she already has another bf.and as for what she thinks of you.she could be seeing you guys as just friends because you have only been studying together and had dinner a few times.and thats has not gone beyound frienship. i think d best thing to do is ask her and with her response u wil know how she feels about u too. Hope am clear enough?good luck to you.
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reader, Tom Obler +, writes (28 July 2011):
 A hard one to call here. She has not done anything to suggest just friends but on the other hand she hasn't flirted either. (From what you say.) I believe you need to continue the contact for the moment and just keep getting to know her. Please don't tell her how you feel. This doesn't work or attract anyone at this stage. Carry on doing what you are doing and see if she flirts at all. But don't ask yet because you risk having to go back to uni. with an embarrassing situation if things go wrong. let us know how you get on. thanks.
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