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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hello x well basically i have a bit of dilemma. I only have one friend and i'm starting to get abit of a feeling he may fancy me a bit.He is the only friend i have and i've known since before i can remember. I recently lost all my friends and he was the only one who stuck by me, i will always have great respect for him for that.He has helped me get along considerably and i beleive he is one of the only people who has generally looked out for me. I have depression and severe social anxiety. He is one of the few people who when im at my worst will always help me through and is always encouraging, my family love him, and his personality is one of a kind.I had a bit of a crush on him about 3 or so months ago but that wasn't anything big and it went away when he said that he was not attracted to me in any way which i was fine with. But now im getting the feeling he may well like me. Hes started being a bit more affectionate, and hes been a lot more nice and loving in a way. Hes opened up to me a bit more as well, and told me a few facts which im pretty sure he hasnt told anyone else also hes been making a few more comments about my appearance in a good way.I know he doesn't really like the way i look but im kinda sorting that out a bit and will be going on a diet soon which he is really supportive of and says he might even do it with me. He likes to play fight a bit sometimes and sometimes he strokes my hand i dont know if he realizes hes doing it. I just wondered does this kinda sounds like he likes me a bit ? or am i getting the wrong end of the stick. Im not to sure what to do if he happens to ask me out as ive never had a bf and not to sure if hes the right one for me. what do i do if he comes on to me or anything ? any suggestions ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2011): You should ask him that. If he does, and you do too, then take things forward.
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