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Archived questions from: February, 2011 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

I met a great guy and we had fun hanging out, but he seemed turned off when I told him I'm 17! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - How to get this guy to notice/like me or ask me out? I’m going to have to explain this whole situation so you can kind of get into my shoes a bit and give me some advice. I was out at a gig in my college with my friend the other night and we wer...

He cheated and I haven't responded to him for 7 months. I will be moving back to his country, should I make peace with him?

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28 February 2011 (F) - Hi there, I have a complicated story. In 2009 I stayed in Australia for in total 4 months for an internship. I met this guy through a friend of mine, we hit it off instantly, and it was supposed to be something casual. We spent time together...

My girlfriend has feelings for 2 of my friends! We all work together,so it's awkward. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Ok so here it goes, my girlfriend and I have been dating for four years (I’m 21, she’s 20). The beginning was great, we loved each other and we were having fun and what not, this was until I found out she had feelings for two of my friends. So I ...

You're a lesbian, so leave my boyfriend alone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Essay time- get comfy! I'm a little confused about my best friend and what exactly it is she is up to... See, we have been best friends for 9 years, she's like my right arm and we do everything together pretty much (even work together) I always ...

Is it normal for a guy to take this long to decide whether or not he wants to date someone he once dated before and has been friends with since?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5042 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Ok so back in 2009 I dated a guy-- my first boyfriend, from June 26, 2009 until December 16, 2009. He broke up with me because he was "unsure of his true feelings" I was also the last girlfriend he's had since and I was the longest of his three ...

Does losing temper really mean you care?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Hi all, To start off we are both male Today I asked a friend of mine to stop playing his music up full volume while he was round mine as I had to concentrate on something. He had his other friends with him and he said no, this doesn't sound r...

Why doesn't my friend want to talk about the past? And which boy does my heart belong to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hey, Need your help again. So, last year, there used to be a lad (Luke) who was totally in love with me. He spoke to me everyday and always said he loved me. He did this everyday for a year but I never responded because I didn't want to ruin our...

She made her choice, but now I'm hurting..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Ok so I met this girl a while ago, we swiftly hit it off and became friends. Knowing this girl was in a relationship, I didn't push for anything more. After a while we became best friends simply spending each evening talking, it had been a while ...

Is it normal to not want to date people older than me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - hey there, I was just wondering if i'm meant to be attracted to people older than me. I mean i'm gay and I like people my own age, but not older, and I was wondering if thats normal. Cause some of my mates have older gf and bf. So any help woul...

I know I shouldnt be with him but I am so alone and only answer his calls so I have someone to talk to....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Okay, you all probably heard all this before! I have been with my ex for about 2 years! We have been going down hill from the second month! He treats me like I'm worthless and brain less and so much more! It has got to the point where I cant ta...

He blows hot and cold. I want him to look at me as a potential girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Any suggestions as to how to make a guy who only looks at you as a friend, look at you like a potential gf? I mean there's this guy who blows hot n cold...i know there's something there...but i can't seem to get it!!...

The man I like found out I like him, he likes me only as a sister and things are really strange now!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - First of all, my grammar is very bad.. sorry bout that.. hope you can understand my story.. I like my senior, Kim. We know each other for more than one year and we are quite close. His close friends is my close friends as well. They (Ed and Dan...

Our classmates made fun of our friendship and now she doesn't talk to me anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - hi frnds i am a student of class 11th and i have been fall in love with a classmate of mine i just truly love her but all my friends and her friends now know that i like her and most probably she also knows that i like her. she is somewhat a s...

Should I trust her? And if so, how do I get her to hook me up with the guy I like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - There's this guy I sort of like. His name's Rick. He's tall and always wears hooded jackets even though we live in mild climates. I'm guessing this is just his style, and I find it cute. I want to talk to him, but we barely cross paths or share ...

Flirty friends and double standards....what would you do in this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Ok i'm really unsure what to do and would love some advice. Here goes: My fella and I have been together a year now. I have this group of so-called friends (so-called because they never really bothered with me much when I was single unless th...

I like my friends brother...what do I do?

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28 February 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, Alright, I use to like my friend's brother. But now I just think he's cute, and I even told his sister (my friend) that. But ever since we first met, he's been saying that he likes me and he just wants to be friends, but recently...

I am in love with my bestfriend's boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - My best friend in the whole world, Christine, started texting this guy Oliver about 9 months now. They kind of had an off and on thing but they never really dated. Then one day randomly they just started going out. Theyve been together for about 6 ...

Will it seem needy and desperate if I text him first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Hi there, I met a guy on new years ago through mutual friends and we got on really well. I did not want to swap numbers with him at the time as he was still texting his ex then - turns out now that she was messing him about and he has now complete...

I have a boyfriend who loves me....but I'm starting to fall for my ex again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I'm 17 years old, and I've been dating my boyfriend (let's call him O) for around 6 months, and its properly serious. I've only had one serious relationship before this one (let's call him L), here we were friends before we started dating. It end...

The man I love proposed to a woman back home. He is giving me mixed signals. Help!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I have posted similar questions to this issue, and this is somewhat of a followup question. I have fallen for a foreign-exchange student who loves another that may or may not return the feelings. It is a relationship from his past tha...

Should I take it as a compliment that he doesn't want to date me?

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27 February 2011 (F) - i really like my best friend a lot hes a male and we've been friends for over a year. we have spoken about dating but he says hes views me as an older sister the way ive been there for him (hes had a lot of personal crap)and how ive helped him and ...

Is this a normal way for best friends to act?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5041 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Recently Me and my best friend admitted over the computer that we like each other. It's not awkward in person, when we go over to each others houses we cuddle on each others beds and tickle each other. I feel really comfortable with him and I want ...

Help with confidence sucking friends...ideas?

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27 February 2011 (F) - So i have been with my gf almost 4yrs nw. her old bestie ditched her once she knew she was going out with a girl even though hangs out with a group of leasbians. The bestie is straight (or supposedly). when me and my girl started going going ou...

Can feelings change if I change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - Do you think that after time away, someone's feelings towards another can change? (become romantic) Especially if one of the two (i.e. the one who has not been away) has changed somewhat in a positive manner? We are best friends. Thats why I post...

I'm not scared..but I still stop it, why?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Heey:) I'm 13 and the other day I had a boy round my house, and we were bored so he wanted to play nervous, a game were you touch eachother in certain parts, and he went up my shorts and in my nickers then I stopped him before he could do anything...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I really like this guy at my school and we talk all the time online but he has a really really pretty ex girlfriend who, until recently, he was still in love with, but they still talk everyday and she flirts with him loads even though she doesnt ...

Am I puritan for staying a virgin at 18?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I am an 18 year old girl who is a virgin. All of my friends have had sexual relations prior to turning 18. They say I am a puritan and should be having sex at my age. I think I am right in that I want to wait until I am married. Am I wrong ?...

We both just got out of other relationships. I like him, but he acts hot and cold toward me! Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Well where to start with this one ... My boyfriend, now ex boyfriend, who I was with for 4 years, (I am now 20), well we have split up and it has been very hard for me. He was my first love and boyfriend but we have been through some very difficult ...

She used me and I need to confront her on it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - I am in serious need of help, The girl I thought was my best friend/friend with benefits/girlfriend used the shit out of me and I can't stand it. She said we never dated but I went to her house met her parents went to sporting events picked her up ...

I know he's no good for me, I need to get over him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - So it's been like 3 years since my ex-boyfriend broke up with me. I've been so hurt that I've been doing things that I'm not supposed to do. We've only been together for 6 months but he is my first love, on the last 3 months of our relationship we ...

Should I talk to him about my friends or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Okay, so there's this boy, I always talk about him to friends and it seems there taking note of his name and adding him on Facebook. They know that I really like him as a boyfriend, but they're talking to him all the time, and because of this I feel ...

He's been ignoring me for 7 years now...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - So here it goes...it happened 7 years ago. I was in the same city as the guy i liked(my dad was in the army) and he promised to meet me . . .we were supposed to go out for a movie or something. Well, he never turned up. I was stood up...and t...

Can our friendship be salvaged after all the mess thats been created??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I have been really good friends with a guy in my class for almost a year now. Up until recently, we told each other everything -- our deepest secrets, what we were going through at home -- everything -- and the other always listened and offered ...

I don't want to tell my friend that I wet the bed at their house!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - This is so embarrassing but I need to find out and didn't know where else to ask. Last night, after a night out, I slept at a friends house in their bed. They took the couch. When I woke in the middle of the night, I'd wet the bed. I was mo...

Pass it on! I like your friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - hi there i met thing girl last weekend at my friends party. i only knew 3 people there who i go to college with and i knew 1 other who goes to the same college as me but she's in another class doing another course and we don't talk and didn't ...

After what my interfering father did, is the friendship salvageable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - At the beginning of this year, I became really good friends with this guy in my class. We hung out and talked all the time for nearly seven months and flirted all the time. At my birthday party, we were dared to kiss and for a week after that, I was ...

I am so beautiful. Are my friends all just jealous of me?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I am so beautiful. I have a really nice body and i have double D's. Flirting comes naturally to me. I can honestly say that a lot of people like me and just want to be me. I'm really popular and i have a lot of experience. All my close friends are ...

I am so hurt.... I really feel dead inside!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - So I posted another question and it's about how me and my ex have been broke up a month and my ex that I haven't heard from in a month had his guy friend that I do not know anything about and he doesn't know me send me a text message.He said that my ...

My best friend is pregnant. My fiance is the father. Should we continue with planning our wedding as he wants to?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for five years and we are getting married in six months so technically he is my fiance. Everything was going so well for me i felt like i was living in a fairytale. My best friend since second grade was help...

I am suffocating in this marriage. Is my emotional affair with this other man the answer?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I will try to make my story as brief as possible. But please read and share your views. I have been married for a few years to the man of my own choice and am without kids due to many reasons. My in-laws are very interefering and they have mess...

Male opinion needed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5047 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I live across the street from this guy and girl. The girl: 'X'and I, are friends, not best friends just friends, me and the guy 'Z' and I have a flirtatious relationship, and I made sure X knew that. One day I came home from school and I saw...

I missed an opportunity before. How can I convey to my co-worker that I am attracted to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - around a year ago a co-worker and I both left our partners and began seeing other people. we began talking about our problems etc eventually going on a night out with friends during the night i got the vibe she was attracted to me but never acte...

My best friend has fallen for a gay guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5047 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I need someone to help me to understand if I gave alright advise about something. My best friend in the entire world just told me that she has fallen for our gay best friend. He is outwardly gay and has dated many men. Not to mention myself a...

How should I tell this guy I love him, without him mocking my wheelchair situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

26 February 2011 (F) - Okay, there is a boy who is 16 and is amazing. I'm 14 and for this current stage in my life, I am in a wheelchair. I’m not sure that if I should tell him that I really love him. Will he understand, or just laugh at the fact that I am in a ...

Religion, family and friends are causing trouble in our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

26 February 2011 (M) - Hey, basically there are three problems in my relationship with my girlfriend at the moment. 1) Her friends don't accept me because I fingered her before she was ready although she led me on to do it and they are now making it very hard for us to be ...

My ex-best friend hates my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

26 February 2011 (F) - I just don't know what to do here. My Ex-Bestfriend and me are now on talking levels after I found out she doesn't hate me she hates my boyfriend. She hates him because she swears he purposely touched her boob well play fighting with her one day. ...

Since announcing my engagement, I've noticed some of my female friends have dropped out of the picture. Why?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

26 February 2011 (M) - I am a male in my late 40s and engaged to be married. I have several male and female friends who I've been friends with for several years. I became engaged this past summer and naturally told all my friends the good news. Since then, I've noticed ...

Why won't my boyfriend's friend talk to me anymore? It's very awkward!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

26 February 2011 (F) - Why is he acting so weird? What’s his problem? My boyfriend’s friend has been acting really weird with me lately. I spent Christmas with him and my boyfriend. We got on really well, but now he hardly says a word to me whenever I am around. ...

My crush used to sit next to me and flirt. Now that we've changed seats he ignores me! Why do boys act like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

26 February 2011 (F) - So my crush, "Bob," and I used to sit next to each other in a class. We used to talk and he teased me (in a nice way) and we would laugh and he would kind of flirt. We changed seats and now he totally ignores me. He doesn't look at me or talk to me. ...

I got upset, and confronted my new friends in a fit of anger. Now I don't have have any friends. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

26 February 2011 (M) - I’m new at a school, and I’m trying to get into a relationship with a girl. Every time I’m with her, my friends would come and interrupt the conversation. This happened quite a few times and I kept the anger bottled up. I have a short temper, so ...