A
female
age
30-35,
*T2012
writes: Ok so back in 2009 I dated a guy-- my first boyfriend, from June 26, 2009 until December 16, 2009. He broke up with me because he was "unsure of his true feelings" I was also the last girlfriend he's had since and I was the longest of his three relationships. Ever since though, we have become really close friends. I'm very thankful about that as he is like my best male friend...Anyways, two weeks ago he texted me to meet him later that night to dance (we danced a lot as a couple) I decided to go. While there he kissed me and said he may still love me but he is unsure and wants us to keep meeting up until he decides whether he wants me back or not. He hasn't said anything since, I know school and work keep both of us busy but is it normal for a guy to take a while to debate whether or not he wants someone back after about two years?
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (3 March 2011):
I guess his feelings are returning because you have both been close friends for a while now. But he is probably just hesitating because he doesnt want to ruin the friendship. I think you should just give it some time and see how things work out. It is normal for a guy to take his time until he realises what he wants, so try not to worry about it and just see what happens.
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