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Archived questions from: 13 February, 2011 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

I still love a boy I dated 3 years ago... but he is my ex's best friend!

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13 February 2011 (F) - Okay, 3 years ago I had my first boyfriend he broke up with me after 3 months and I still feel like I am not over him. Its crazy! In the 3 years since we broke up I have had 2 serious relationships one of which was with his close friend, we were ...

Am I insane for having a crush on a dead celebrity, and why did the crush develop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

13 February 2011 (M) - About 2 years ago in sixth form, there was this girl that i liked. She was part of our group of friends. I slowly began to develop a crush on her and towards the end of sixth form, around january of our final year, i confessed my feelings for her. ...

I don't want myself to be hurt badly. What do I do for the best?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

13 February 2011 (M) - I'm really in need of your advice here! I've asked 7-8 questions regarding my relationship with her, but i'm not getting responses from you guys. I fall in love with my closest friend lets say A.. Closest among all, and now my best friend and gf. ...

Feeling left out - female and male friends becoming close.

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13 February 2011 (F) - I find it hard to be friends with guys without developing an attachment to them, and i feel its unhealthy as i'm jealous of their female friends and girlfriends because of how close they seem to be. perhaps because I fell that I don't have that kind ...

Should I tell him I've slept with his brother long before we got together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - I just started seeing someone, I've known him for years and kept bumping into each other sporadically. Two years ago he was in a relationship of five years, around that time I was going through some stuff and I ended up sleeping with his brother. ...

I love her something terrible and I'm not going to be a wimp!

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13 February 2011 (M) - So right to it. there's this girl who I took for big big granted. I've always bee pretty much a player so I didn't have to worry about losing girls unless I decided I didn't want them around. This one girl got sick of my crap and doesn't give a crap ...

Should I ask HIM out? Help!!!

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13 February 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, So I have had a TA since September now. As soon as I saw him for the first time I was attracted. He has been giving me extremely high grades and has consistently gone out of his way to help me; seeing my outside his office hours la...

Should I keep on playing him?

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13 February 2011 (F) - A few weeks ago I kissed this guy for the first time- and it was my first kiss. Ever. We get on really well and we're also really, really close. I count him as one of my best friends because he's trustworthy, loyal and an amazing listener. We tal...

Advice on how to re-build my social life???

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13 February 2011 (M) - I have been through such a whirl wind of situations and circumstances that I am not sure exactly where I should begun so I will try to explain my life story as briefly as possible. I started off with a major struggle early on in life. I was born ...

Text fling!!!

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13 February 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years ish now and no matter how much I moan about him or our little arguments I love him to bits and the thought of having to be without him kills me. He has a group of friends we all go out every other week...

I just want to be 100% happy, not 75% and have to find the other 25% elsewhere.

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13 February 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 8 months. We have known each other for 8 years on and off. I had a crush on him when I was 12. We never went out or did anything until I was 19 with the exception of a drunk mini makeout session when I was ...

I'm confused by his actions. Is he really my boyfriend or does he have reservations?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5059 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - Hey everyone. I'm really confused on what to do with my boyfriend. We've been dating for about 7 months. We were casually seeing each other at first, but then he asked my to be his girlfriend and I agreed. When we're alone he's amazing. He tells me ...

I have a crush on my friend's ex. would it be OK to drop hints to him that I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - I like this guy at school who sits behind me in homeroom. I really want to go out with him but he's one of my friend's ex. I like him and he flirts with me and i've been there when he went through rough breakups. We talk to each other and share jo...

What do I need to do to be accepted as a friend by this girl? She seems super resistant to me

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13 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend's circle of friends includes 3 other guys, and just 1 girl. I get along fantastically with all of the guys, however, the girl seems resistant to accept me, or be my friend. I get the feeling that she's jealous of me because she feel...

My over protective childhood makes me feel like a teen, not 23. what do I need to do to grow up and face the world as it is?

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13 February 2011 (F) - I've grown up being sheltered from the big bad world, and it's biting me back right now. My parents were always about the whole true love deal and only getting into a relationship when you thought it could be long term/forever. They always want...

I'm having problems with my Mum. How can I get her to listen to me?

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13 February 2011 (F) - Lately my mum and me have been getting into a lot of arguments and although when she is in a good mood she is like a best friend, when she is in a bad mood she is being horrible. My sister and I have realized that she always thinks she is righ...

What should I take it to mean when a girl gets this close?

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13 February 2011 (M) - I'm 20. What should I read into a girl's motivation and intentions and does it mean anything if a girl lies back onto my chest and starts rubbing my hair?...

Am I too demanding? Or is he too insensitive?

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13 February 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 5 years. It’s one that I had to keep secret from my family and relatives due to cultural barriers. We were committed to making this work. Although it was extremely difficult for both of us, I finally managed to buil...

Revival tips needed please? I want to know how to improve my LDR with my boyfriend since he's become boring

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13 February 2011 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship since four years ago. my boyfriend is really nice and sweet but the problem is he doesn't share anything with me.. while on the other hand,i give him all the tiniest of detail.. i don't know why but his friends ...

We are good mates, but it looks like he wants more. I'm not sure. Should I allow it to become more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - For a long time now everyone has been telling me to get with a particular boy. This morning he told me he loved me, but we are really good friends. I dont know how I feel. We are already good mates and have gone out with friends a couple of times...

Should I ask him directly? He's a shy kind of guy

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13 February 2011 (F) - hi, thank you for answering my previous questions guys......but i have one more question to ask..... the guy I talked about before... he called me on my birthday i.e. on 11 Feb he wished me Happy Birthday. Since then he has called me everyday, but...

Do I have myself a friend with benefits?

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13 February 2011 (M) - ok i met this girl at a bar who was an acquantinces.. and we made out that night and got her number.. the other week she wrote me a private msg on facebook saying that she doesnt want a relationship with me but she wrote saying 'we could have cra...

She broke up with me because she said I didn't make her 1st priority

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

13 February 2011 (M) - So, me and my bf broke up and now we are trying to get back together. she started to date her Bestfriend knowing she still loved me. The thing is the reason she broke up with me was because she says that she is not my first priority in life. That im ...

How can we get past everything to actually listen to one another?

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13 February 2011 (F) - I am having a lot of conflict with my husband. He is a popular sociable man with literally hundreds of friends whereas I am quiet and very insular with about 3 friends! We row all the time as he wants me to go to family unions and for lunches and ...

What actions do I avoid so I don't get put in the friend zone?

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13 February 2011 (M) - I'm going to be hanging out for the 2nd time with this girl that I've met. This is will be the 2nd date in my entire life so far, and I'm not sure how to flirt with women. I just talk to them while being nice. I don't want her to put me in the ...

My bestfriend loves this guy, but I have been getting close with him too... what should I do?

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13 February 2011 (F) - So there's this guy that i really haven't had any feelings for until earlier this week... and this week has been one emotional week for him and me, so we got together, and as i was leaving, we hugged. This hug wasn't a normal "friend" hug, it was m...

I told her that I had fallen in love with her, but she said she doesn't feel the same way... what should I do now??

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13 February 2011 (M) - Ok, so there is this girl in college, and we have been friends for a long time. Recently I started to fall in love with her and started doing things out of the way for her. Then when I was sure that it was love and not just an attraction, I told h...

How do I handle a threatening group at school?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - Okay so there's this girl in my school who's like really ghetto. And she has her own "posse" but so do i and i'm the leader of mine except i'm not ghetto at all. In fact the ghetto girl calls me "blonde" but i have brown hair and i'm part african. ...

All my friends are ignoring me and I feel like switching schools. Help!

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13 February 2011 (F) - All of my friends have been ignoring me lately. It seems everyone else has their own clique except me, I'm thirteen. I only have about three friends I can actually talk to, and I have been feeling really depressed about this for a few months now. I ...

How do I hold a conversation with him?

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13 February 2011 (F) - So I been talking to this guy for about two weeks and he is wonderful. I am 18 and he is 30. we met up and hung out then the second time we met up we had sex. but when we were done we didn't talk much. It was kind of awkward. He later texted me and ...

I wonder whether this guy like me. Help!

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13 February 2011 (F) - I wonder whether this guy like me. I had noticed that he looked at me quite often. A friends mentioned to him ( as she knows him) that she should invite him and I over for a meal as we are both single. He was ok about that. He from there on ...

He is just sooo embarrassed! Why?

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13 February 2011 (F) - Please can someone give me some advice? There's an amazing guy at work who I have a huge crush on. There was some intense chemistry between us when we first met (just polite chat) and the second time we met he blushed. After that, I think the attr...

She means the world to me and I've lost her... should I give up or fight for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

13 February 2011 (M) - Thank you all for helping me through a difficult time of mine. So im not a perfect guy. When it comes to girls I dont exactly show a lot of love... I keep most of it away that way break ups are'nt tough... right? Well my ex-girlfriend and I broke ...