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writes:Okay, there is a boy who is 16 and is amazing. I'm 14 and for this current stage in my life, I am in a wheelchair. I’m not sure that if I should tell him that I really love him. Will he understand, or just laugh at the fact that I am in a wheelchair. And because of his age, I'm not quite sure how I should talk to him, nevermind, tell him I love him. He's a family friend and I have been on holiday with him. So how should I tell him that I love him, without him mocking my wheelchair situation?
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reader, sam44  +, writes (27 February 2011):
redbutterfly said it best, but i will add on. Love have to boundaries.. true love that is. If he is a well brought up person, he will not judge you because you are on a wheelchair, i wouldn't... he will treat you with respect. Dont expect him to love you though, because maybe you're not his like of a girl, but he will not reject you based on your wheelchair bound situation if he is a good person. Love can go over that. Strecth your wings and reach for the sky. You are like anyone else... and you will find someone who loves you and appreciate you.
But first, love yourself and respect yourself, okay? good luck with that boy.
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reader, redbutterfly  +, writes (27 February 2011):
if he truly cares about you then he shouldn't mock you. You're more than that and the fact that you can love and feel and wake up tomorrow and still feel is worth more than all the saints in the world. If you trust him and if he's a decent person and if life brought him up right, then there's no reason he should laugh at you and if he does then it's a life experience. In this life something are truly unfair. Most of us have to work harder than most to even get as far as we want and we may not reach it. If he rejects you then don't get discouraged because destiny has a plan for everyone. God has a plan and he'll make it happen and no matter what people say about not telling him what you need because he knows. Sometimes it's okay to tell him again because maybe if we wish hard enough he'll hurry at it a bit lol. ^_^
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