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Archived questions from: 3 February, 2011 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

I don't want to tell him to get rid of his friends who are girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - Hi, Well I’ve been with my boyfriend for 5 months now and it’s been going really well and we see each other most weekends and sometimes a couple of days throughout the week ~ but recently I’ve been feeling really insecure. I know he is a loyal(he...

Should I be worried? Am I overreacting?

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3 February 2011 (F) - Sorry about the essayness! Okay so my friend is having a massive party she's paid a lot of money for, and another friend (she is not massively close to but still close) then decides to go out clubbing the same night, and use her venue as a 'pre ...

I'm really concerned about her dating this guy who uses drugs, steals and has awful friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

3 February 2011 (M) - I have been talking to a girl for about 3 years now she is 26 and i am 28 and she works as a mobile cairer for the elderly for a few weeks she has complaind about this womans son how she doesnot like him and how hes old enough to be her dad and how ...

Should I stop talking to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - I've been at my job for 5 months now. I met a guy that is so nice and cool we have this bond like if we where relatives. He is older than me and calls me his little sister and watches over me. He just told me yesterday he is not allowed to talk to ...

I want them to be my friends but thing aren't going well!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5032 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - In my main group of friends there are 4 of us (fake names: me, zoe, kate, pheobe). I also have another best friend(helen). Zoe has been my best friend for almost all my life, pheobe i have known for ages but only recently become friends and kate who ...

I don't know what to say when he's back and forth, yet as his friend, I feel like I've got to say something.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - A friend who's getting divorced told me that his wife (who he does not have any kids with) will still come around because "that's just what we do." (they've been married less than 10 years, but been off and on for over 20 years. Is it weird fo...

My best friend took me in, and helped me escape an abusive relationship. Now I'm having feelings for her. Do I tell her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - I have a friend I've known for a little over 4 months now. She insisted I move in with her, so I could get away from my abusive soon to be ex husband. She has slowly become my best friend as I learn to trust more and more. I trust her pretty much ...

I want him, but I'm his best friend. I don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - Sooo.. I have this "really good friend", let's call him Josh. Josh and I talk all day everyday, starts with a good morning and ends with sweet dreams. We talk about everything, our beliefs, how our day is going, family problems, pretty much anything ...

My married lover had a stroke, but we still want to be together. How can we make this possible?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - Hi, I've been married for quite a few years, but I have always known I married on the rebound from my first marriage, which also was never right. The reason for this is that there was always someone else that I loved, but I never explored it as I ...

Why do I make others feel miserable, and push them away? How can I stop this negative behavior?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - I've been raised in a family who regularly criticizes other people for the way they dress, talk, how much they earn, hair color, number of fingers and so on; you get the point. Thing is, they've never encouraged me when I did something good. In ...

I really don't mind if my ex's friend visits for entertainment purposes!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - My ex's friend who lives 2 hours away as well as my ex has got in contact with me and we have gotten quite friendly, he always inititates it! In no way did i go out of my way to talk to this guy. He is now saying and has been saying he is going to ...

Can somebody please tell me what is going on with this man? I'm so confused!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - This man that I see everyday flirts with me and touches me in friendly gestures. He said we needed to talk soon about me liking him. He watches me and sometimes walks back and forth to his office when he knows I’m in the hallway and he makes sure he ...

Is she using me to make her ex boyfriend jealous? Or am I over thinking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

3 February 2011 (M) - Am I over thinking this, or is their a reason for me feeling like she is using me? This girl and I dated for about 2 years, over 1.5 years ago. She then dated a guy for 8 months, he was really outgoing and she got to experience a lot of things wi...

I really like him, but I'm helping a friend to date him!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - I really am in like with this guy at work. He has so much in common with me in so many ways, I feel like we are perfect for each other. And I know he can see it... I can see it when he asks me certain questions, because he's trying to figure me ...

What does she want?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

3 February 2011 (M) - I upset a girl that I love (she knows it)very recently by telling her boyfriend is using her as a temporary plan and some really bad things about him. I understand this would destroy her dream but she had promised me that she would not be ang...

Did anyone mess up worse than me? How did you survive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

3 February 2011 (M) - I don't feel proud about this but I'm miserable and want some company. Just maybe it will help pull me out of this dark hole I'm in behind my own making. I feel like a hermit. I've shut myself up in my mom's basement for the past four or so months ...

Should I contiunue being her roomate next year? Is she a good friend or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - To all the good counselors out on the interwebs: I am confused by this friendship, which I'm not sure is a friendship. And, I'm not sure whom to ask for help, because the common opinion is that she's a very nice and good person. I have a loose fr...

How do I reject her without being rude and hurting her?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

3 February 2011 (M) - hi im 24 years old and am not very experienced with girls(shy),im good looking so get a lot of attention and have been told im a flirt(only 1 to 1) if the girl show an interest back i freeze,at work i try to be polite and keep to myself but im realy ...

I don't care to be friends with my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I broke up in November and he immediately got a new girlfriend (turns out he slept with her then dumped me). The reason he gave me for breaking up with me was because he wanted to start doing drugs again and since I didn't do ...

Ex told him lies about me and now he's not the same with me any more. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - Ok, I am 16 and the guy is 17. We are both juniors and I really like him. He has showed interest in me since the beginning of the year but I never acted on it, until about three weeks ago. At first he was really nice and we texted a lot and he would ...

I've done everything he wanted but I can't seem to win him over!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - Okay, so I've liked this senior for a while now. I'm 14 and he's 18. We hung out in the beginning of December. He told me he couldn't be serious because of the age difference. I was really crushed. We quit talking for a while because we got in an ...

I've met "The One"... but it's complicated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

3 February 2011 (M) - So i've meet the one. Really the one i dreamed all my life. The girl of my dreams. But was a complicated relationchip and she started taking antidepressives with only 20 years age. At a year and a half she brokes up with me, and after a month of no ...