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Archived questions from: 20 February, 2011 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

He loves another, and I want to support him despite loving him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - It seems too common a trap, I know, but I've completely fallen for a guy who loves someone else. I apologize now for the length. He is not from America, and the girl he loves is back home. He dated her for a long time and proposed several ...

How can we become friends again???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - I like this guy. We went out at the beginning of the school year but he broke up with me after two weeks. We hadn't know each other that long. No more than a month. But when we meet it just clicked. He was the best friend I ever had. I thought I ...

Should I continue to be close friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - I have this really close best guy friend. We are really close, both of our parents think we are going out. He is bisexual. I kind of confessed to him before that I think of him more than a friend, and he didn't feel the same. He just left me and ...

Religous boy crush

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - Okay im having boy issues. Im thirteen years old and the boy im in love with is 16. Last summer i told him that i had a crush on him and it turned out he had a crush on me too. He told me that he liked me coz her had a dream about me n him getting ...

I don't want to break he and his girlfriend up.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - I have been friends with this guy since 4th grade and I've liked him for a while. We are in high school now and he has a girlfriend. He doesn't really like her anymore but doesnt' want to hurt her. People have told me that he likes me, but I don't ...

How do I ask my crush to go out with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - Allright so I've had a crush on this girl since we were in 8th grade. I'm in 9th grade now and I want to ask her out so bad! She's really pretty to me, funny, and I love her laugh.We have had small conversations every now and then like hey hows it ...

Waiting and waiting for them to break up...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - There's a girl that I love more the world. But there is one problem, and thaty is she is (bi-sexaul.)(We are just best friends and are not going out or dating.) It sucks though because she has a girlfriend and doesn't give any sign of slowing down. ...

Do you think it's my fault for them "breaking" their friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - Dear all, I'm in need of some outside input! I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 6 years and 4 of them were long distance. I'm not talking city to city long distance, I'm talking halfway around the world long distance. I know...

Mixed signals over my same sex friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5015 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - I'm a girl and i have a friend who is another girl and ever since i started having feelings for her it started off as it was obvious that she wasnt interested but then later on i feel like i have been getting mixed signals like i was sittin in the ...

Bullying from my school years is still affecting me... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - From when I started primary school, right up until the day I left secondary school, I was consistently bullied, intimidated and made fun of. The thing is, I still have no idea, to this day why it happened to me. When I started primary school at the ...

My best friend and I are at odds over this guy! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5015 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - I like the same guy as my best friend. She had a thing with him while she had a boyfriend this summer and she choose her boyfriend over "guy". She has told me to go out with guy since then, over and over again and I said no because I knew she had ...

Lonely and sad here...please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - I am feeling very lonely and sad. I have no friends. I cannot keep conversations going. please help!...

I'm 31, and I don't want a girlfriend right now. Why do others give me a hard time about this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - Hi everyone. I am back and I've got a really important question. I guess all questions on this forum are important. It hasn't happened for a few months, which is good, but sometimes people insult me when I say I don't want a girlfriend. They either ...

Confused about all the mixed signals he's sending me! Does he want to be friends or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - Okay... here's my problem. I've been chatting with the boy I like for about three weeks. I had to tell him what my feelings were because of the situation (it is a long story). However he's really nice, he would never make fun of me. We didn't chat ...

Stuck in a twisted love triangle between two best friends...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. So, here is my situation. For a very long time (a year now) my life has been a rollercoaster. I was unlucky enough to be drawn into a twisted love triangle between two best friends. I fell in love with the one and the other one, his ...

My friends say I have to move fast or I'll lose this guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5015 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - am 15 years old and have just fallen in love with a handsome guy.we've been in love for 3 months,but haven't had sex yet.my friends tell me i must move fast,or else l'll lose him.we have never talked about sex.what must i do?is he going to dump me ...

Friend says he doesn't like he co-workers yet he plays along like he does. I'm confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - this sounds silly but its worrying me. ok my good friend transferred to another department recently and is working with a new group of people-i may be joining him soon. what bothers me is he says theres a couple of people there hes had run-ins with ...

We've been doing things that friends shouldn't do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - i ive known a guy for five months already. we became friends and we spend a lot of time together. but what happened is that, i think we have been doing things that freinds should not do. we kiss each other very often and e hug a lot.( by the way, ...

My husband gave his blessings for my having an affair. Opinions?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - Okay, maybe I shouldn't have to think so hard about this, but I'm in a predicament...I'm married to a wonderful and kind and loving and a man who thinks the world of me and an acquaintance friend of ours (we're all the same age)wants to get toge...

My friend just went through a break up and is confused about his feelings for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - Ok Picked up an old friendship with "Mr.X" hung out a lot,stay overs etc i helped him with his break-up. He acted like he was my boyfriend in public. I admitted to him twice that I had strong feelings for him,assured him that I would never hurt ...

My friend has withdrawn into a shell. I want to hep him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - I have a problem and I just cannot seem to find the way forward. Here's the thing, I fell in love with a good friend of mine about 3 years ago. Things were just fine with the usual ups and downs of a what was mostly a long distance relation...

My girlfriend is very controlling to the point I'm scared to talk to other people!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - A little background. i have been with my girlfriend for around 2 1/2 years, it was very good and still is when there is no trouble. She ended up cheating on me over a year ago, slept in a hotel with her ex (but never did anything) though they wer...

My boyfriend keeps flirting with my close friends right in front of me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5015 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend keeps flirting with all of my close friends right in front of me and one of them, who is in a relationship with my boyfriend's best friend, goes along with it. Then, he acts totally different when i'm not around. I don't want to brea...

I think I lost my best guy friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5014 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - So I think Ive pretty much lost one of my really good friends and I dont know how to get him back. He and I actually dated our senior year of high school, but even after breaking up we were still really good friends. We always still talked to each ...

Should I ask her out or should I just keep it as is and just stay friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5008 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - So there is this girl. Her name is Charla. I treat her like a sister and she looks up to me like a brother. She's super gorgeous but she is 14 and I am 16. She's turning 15 in April so we are aren't even two years apart. But I am starting to have ...

The myth of "best friends" of the opposite sex

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - OK, I know I am going to get a lot of flack for this (assuming anyone read this) but from my experience and observation I believe that a heterosexual man and woman who claim to be "best friends" without any romantic feelings...is a myth. Almost al...

How do you deal with a friend in a bad situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5015 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - One of my best friends is being really stupid with a guy she was sleeping with. He dumped her (sort of, she found out on facebook when he started dating someone else)and now is stringing her a long. After the first time i heard she was sleeping ...

I liked him before my friend called "keeps" on him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5015 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - My friend has a guy that she always hangs out with. He is technically her "boyfriend". But she isn't allowed to date. He hangs out with us because he is a mutual friend, equally my friend. But the real problem. I like him!! I don't know what to ...

Why do I still have these strong feelings for him, even though he has not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - Well a few days I completely ruined my friendship with a guy who goes to my college and we are or were pretty close. Since December we have been texting and talking an awful lot and grew pretty close and we have so much in common, stupid me started ...