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Archived questions from: August, 2010 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Her ex is more fun than I am!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5180 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - my gf openly admits her ex is more fun than i am, she says thats why she remains friends with him, he likes to wind people up and she finds it funny some times. she also says that her silly side comes out when hes around...i think this translates ...

I am pretty sure that I have fallen in love with a co-worker.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

31 August 2010 (?) - I am someone can give me some advice. I am in a dilemma that I cannot goto anyone else in my life for advice. I am pretty sure that I have fallen in love with a co-worker. We instantlly clicked and he makes me feel things I have never felt before ...

Boyfriend choosing friends over me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - soo i used to be bestfriends with my bf's friend but that frienship ended when that friend made fun of the fact that i was molested as a kid and told me to go kill myself when my dad died. he also made fun of the fact that i self mutilated my self. ...

He says he is young for a relationship, does this mean he has feelings? Should I try for an LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5223 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - More than just good friends? I have this really good friend and I have known him for 5 years. At the moment we are in different countries and we only stay in contact through facebook. I have had feelings for him for long. So on April fools day I sa...

How do I get close to him physically?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I’ll start this problem/question with a little background history! My best friend, let’s call her Beth, has a strange family. Strange, but amazing, and I love them all - and in turn they love me. I’ve had my own bed in their house before, be...

I feel like I lost my good friends, to each other!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - Hi, i'm an engineering student.About me: A sentimental, and always wanted to joy person.I kept my 5 school friends as my best friends,one of them is more closer to me!Even more than,my college friends,family; i trusted him,i love him. While, i...

Was she ever a friend to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - This is not a romantic relationship question but more a friendship one and I hope this is accepted and someone can shed some light on it for me as I can not think clearly and still hurt very much over it. My friend and I have known each other...

She sees her guy friends more than she sees me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - My girlfreind is constantly putting me second best to her male and female freinds. she seems to think that i try and make her sit at home all day everyday whilst i work, but this isnt true. i dont mind her seeing her female freinds whenever she ...

Afraid to tell him but so confused and fed up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5223 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I am 15 years old and I am a very emotional person who does make friends easily but doesn't connect extremely with them except of some rare cases. I had two friendships in the last 5-6 years that ended up really bad with me broken-hearted. I started ...

I want to divorce him but I feel guilty for not trying!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I have been with my husband since early 2008 and we have a 2 year old son and when i was pregnant i set up a fake profile of this 'hot' chick to test him. It was sneaky but all he had to do was say 'thanks but no thanks, my partner is pregnant' etc, ...

What to do when you are in love with two people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - So I had an affair with my life long best friend. The two of us have been close since we were kids and grew up next door to each other. He has been the person that I have gone to for everything and I have been the same for him. I am also married to ...

My daughter is feeling left out! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Feeling Very Hurt and Left Out I helped someone out with her daughter lots of times, and I became friends with the mom. We went to our kids' activities together and we invited her daughter over as she was the same age as my daughter. M...

Matching shirts? With hearts on them?! Is this abnormal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - My girlfriend made matching shirts with another guy. They are extremely lame and have hearts on them..but she wears the shirt to school quite often. Is this abnormal or is it just me?...

I'm Okay with my girl sleeping with another man, am I crazy for this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - So my girlfriend and I have been dating for a year now, we are both in college (i am 20 she is 19) we hit it off from the start and have known eachother for about a year and a half. Dated all school year, basically lived with eachother, slept ...

Is she insecure? Jealous ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - I received an e-mail from a friend that I had not seen for a couple years , she lives 3000 miles away is married and has a 17 year old daughter. She wrote and said she was visiting soon and wanted to get together to visit . we made arrangem...

One minute she acts as if she is interested the next not so much

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid Kind agony aunts I call on you today for some guidance if I may, I’m in really in unfamiliar waters at the minute and kind of facing several challenges in my life at the minuet that I’d appreciate some guidance with. Ok, a little bi...

Operation: Get BFF back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - My best friend seems to not like me anymore. I mean, she doesn't completely ignore me, like she responds if I ask her something, but she doesn't really hang out with me. We use to be really close and talk all the time and stuff, but now there is ...

Difficult relationship with plenty of love and lack of trust!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend some time now and 99.9 of the time we are perfect. Were both young but very much in love. I'd do anything for him and he'd do the same for me but the crowd he hangs around with are not very reliable. A few of them have ...

It's been three weeks since the "date" what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I recently found a guy I had dated 20years ago again and we started talking and texting each other every day for a week then went out on a date and all the feelings I had for him back then were still there. The date was great and he asked me out on ...

My boyfriend won't tell his female friend that he is dating someone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I have been dating a guy for over 6 months, we've said that we love each other and spend most days/nights together. He has a lot of younger single female friends. He goes for coffee with them from time to time without me. Last night he went to ...

I am afraid I may lose my friends if I brake up with him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship with the same guy for a little over 5 years, we used to have sex all of the time but over the last two years I have lost interest in having sex with him. I'm not sure what to do about it, I know it's caus...

How can I let go of this' office' attraction when it's going nowhere?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - Mod note:OP's own title I have a situation with a guy at work, we are both married and there has been a very strong attraction beween us for 14 months . We are at the point where we are wanting to touch each other whenever possible although n...

I slept with my bestfriends boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - i blacked out and ended up sleeping with my good friends boyfriend, at the same time his best friend and i were seeing each other, i screwed up, now what should i do? ...

Super Affectionate in Private, Cold in public

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I am a 29-year-old woman who has been dating a 40-year-old guy for over a year and a half. When we met and started dating, he had been divorced for a few months. When we first started dating, we kept it quiet because we know a lot of the same peop...

Should I be upset? And how do I get him out of my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - Well, to start off, I used to like this one guy, who I'm now attending college with. Long story short: I had strong feelings for him, but never told him. I'm pretty sure that he'd gotten the hint though, but just didn't feel the same. Anyway, b...

Incredibly complicated question

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - [MOD NOTE : OP's OWN TITLE] Hi all i'm a 27 year old man, 6 weeks ago my girlfriend of 5 years and I broke up, no particular reason, we hadn't been getting on for a few months, weren't looking forward to seeing each other and weren't enjoying each...

Bf overreacting or is it ok?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - me and my bf are in a committed long distance relationship since one year and two months.. my bf lives in a house with two of his friends. 5months back my bf introduced me to one of his good friends who stayes with him in the house.lets say h...

My girlfriend slept with 2 friends before me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - I moved into a shared house with 3 girls F, D and S, and I started dating F, whilst I was with her the other girl D slept with my best friend. D was in a relationship with a guy she had been friends with a while Z, however whilst they were togeth...

Will my friend ever end her bad relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - She is in a rocky relationship. In a relationship with her bf for 5 years. Broke up but patched countless times. She had cried, being emotionally hurt in this relationship A month back, she cried because of this relationship. She tells me he is very ...

I want to get over this unrequited love!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - Hey guys, I really like this boy and I've always been there for him. All summer I listened to him talk about how annoying his girlfriend was and how much he missed his other girlfriend when she went home to another country. We have so much in commo...

My friend doesn't take me seriously

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I've come to a conclusion that my friend doesn't take me seriously. we've been friends since we were 6, we are both 22 now. right now in my life I'm in college at an art school, doing p90x (an extreme workout video) and haven't been sleeping...

I'm crazy about this boy, but my cousins keep trying to steal him from me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - Ok so there's this guy I'm crazy for and I'm not sure if he likes me back and my cousins keep trying to 'steal' I'm from me . And me and him are going to the movies to see the last exercism which should be great. But everybody is fight for him and ...

This is just a complicated mess!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - Hello, I am a 24 year old male and my boyfriend (25) broke up with my for another guy (28) about 3 weeks ago. We are all bisexual. His new guy is in an "open" relationship with his girlfriend of 6 years and they also have a 3 year old baby tog...

I want to help him out but I don't know how to.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - well theres this guy i have always been pretty close to, we have always been good mates but i never thought it was anything more... That was until one night at a mates house we slept together(he was my first), he was really nice and made me feel...

How do I stop him from ruining his life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - Please help everyone! I'm in a pretty tough situation. My best friend and me have fallen out because he admitted that he felt for me as more than just a friend, but i already had a boyfirend. I tried to handle the situation the best way i could, but ...

My ex friend's man keeps hitting on me ,how can I tell her and have her believe me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - A few months ago my friend met a new fella who seems to be really nice. I'm really happy for her cuz shes had a run of bad luck with men over the years. We went out on friday night and me and my friend fell out. I walked off to go home. Her fella ...

I think I am in love with a girl I consider my sister!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - Hi there world, i am actually a confused soul...and i need help to figure out my problem. quite recently, i made friends with a senior of mine in college, who used to intimidate me.. we grew close and soon we called each other sisters. thats h...

How can I get rid of karen's influence without being the "you can't see her" guy...?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - Hey everyone, I recently met a wonderful woman about two months ago. We clicked from the very start finishing each others quotes, love the same music and movies, sports teams etc. etc. My family has met her and my mom is head over heels for her. I ...

I'm always the backup if things don't work out with his girlfriends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - hi, i've got a, i suppose, small problem. a really good friend of mine who i have always had strong feelings for, keeps going out with other women. not that i overly mind, he's entitled to go out with who he pleases. but they all keep treatin...

We both keep looking at each other, but who makes the next move?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - I kinda like this guy, Or I liked him last school year (we are both 15) But hes in a higher grade than me. So This year ( and last..) I see him looking at me.. if its from a rather close distance I look at him and he quickly turns his head down or ...

Should I make a move on my best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - i love my guy-friend like a brother, hes always been the ONLY guy i have that i can depend on. i've had a little crush on him since we met, and he liked me too but i never acted on it b/c my on/off bf of 3years.(i've known my b-g-f just as long)...

Getting my friend some fresh air

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - Hey everyone, I was wondering on how to help a friend find a special someone, or just be more social around girls in general. He's being consumed with schoolwork and classes, but he has a great personality and humor. He's pretty shy around girls, a ...

How do I deal wth my friend..on the phone!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - Hey i have a question and i hope you all can help. i have a real good friend who ive been friends with for about 3 years. i have a bf and we have been dating 4 a year so every time me and her are on the phone some one calls on my other line. I tell ...

Should I come out to her or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - I've been giving advice on this website for a while now but eventually figured I need some help myself. To start off, I am an 18-year-old bisexual guy and my sexuality is not really the problem in this case. I've been bisexual my whole life, star...

Should I approach her with my true feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - I'm an 18 year old guy and I have a crush on my female friend who is 20. People who have seen us together have told me that we would make a cute couple. I was hanging out with her and a 3 other close mutual friends when her best friend said it to ...

Will she ever be able to end her abusive relationship for good?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - She is 19, studying and her bf is 22 and is working. She's in a unhealthy relationship with him for almost 5 years. She told me she broke up but patched back with him countless times, he's very possessive, she has cried and emotionally hurt so many ...

My family and friends don't think I should have got back with him. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are back together after a 3 month break, the prolem is my friends and family aren't pleased for me because its a long distance relationshop they think im stupid for it but they dont understand how i feel. Also, I have my friends ...

Am I lost in this heartbreak?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - About 5 years ago I fell in love with this girl. We had the most amazing conversations. We had great chemistry. We were pratically the same despite being opposite. ( She's latin, preppy, and a dancer. I'm jewish, a metal head and a artist.) An...

How can I stop this girl from hating me and start to like me, or just make her want to talk to me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - Hi, I'm currently in 9th grade and I've been having a crush on a girl since mid-6th grade, and currently, she knows this and I think she tries to be evident that she doesn't like me. She doesn't talk to me, she tries to move to the opposite side of ...

Whyy is she acting like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - I'll try to keep this short. I was seeing a woman from work for about 8 or 9 months. Initially she was with someone else and we were just friends. Her relationship with this other person was pretty unhealthy (sexual assault and aggression towar...