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There's no spark with my and my boyfriend... much more spark with his friend though.

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Question - (11 January 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have been going out with my boyfriend for around 2 months yet was friends with him before that and we were fooling around before we were official. He has strong feelings for me and I do have feelings for him and I would hate to break his heart, it's just lacking in maybe lust or sexual attraction.

Anyway around the same time as me and him were hooking up I met one of his friends who I instantly sparked with and is just my type unlike my boyfriend. My boyfriend is the sweetest and best boyfriend material ever yet I am not that sexually attracted to him where as with his friend I get butterflies every time I see him and we have got off before I was officially in a relationship. I know he has feelings for me but we both know it's impossible to do anything and that it would be wrong. But it's obvious we both want it.

WHAT SHOULD I DO? I've had these feelings for around a month now and it's confusing me so much and stopping me from getting closer with my BF. XXXX

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009):

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I am 16.

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