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female
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41-50,
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writes:I have a pen-pal who's military and well I email him often like 2 or 3 times a month, sometimes a week or whenever. He says it's great to hear from me always. B/c he's military he gets duty assignments and even then he send me notes telling me he got there OK and when he gets back home as well. We have become friends. We met in person first so since that meeting we are in touch. I've even called him for the holidays, and he likes it or at least that's what he says .B/c I'm still a contractor in the base we met him I have to treat with other GI's and when I say we hang out like in his former unit parties he goes like trying to change the subject, I even commented I kept in touch with a guy he knows and went like "Cool" with that tone guys do. Well, I sent him a note saying that no matter how many people I've met no one compares to him.He just said "Take care of yourself!", yeah he had said it when I travel or if I'm sick. So why you think he said it this time, is it that he cares for me as a protector (we are same age though) or he just doesn't care at all?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (12 January 2009):
I honestly think this guy just sees you as a friend. Take care of your self is a standard ending to any conversation with anyone and I really think you need to stop reading into it so much.
I think if he was interested in the way you want him to be, you would know by now.
Stop waiting for him as it seems you have been waiting for a long time and I think you could well be waiting for ever.
Find a new guy and treat this one as a friend.
Good Luck!! xx
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