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writes:I was meeting up with some old school friends the other week, and it was in a different city (so me and a friend were staying over the night). The city was where my ex boyfriend is as he is studying at University there. I thought I'd text him, saying we were there having a reunion with some old pals, just being friendly.I got a text back, and he was like "What are your plans? When are you getting here? Who you with? We could go for a drink if you like?" which I was esctastic about, I didn't think he'd want to. Unfortuantly me and my old friends were meeting at the time he suggested, so me and my friend met up with for dinner the next day. It was just like old times, we were having a good chat and a laugh! When we left he gave me and my friend a hug and I said I'd let him know we got home ok. On the way home my friend said how he could see how well me and my ex got on together, how we just clicked with eachother and felt that he was still fond of me.. (how do you even tell?!)which I thought was nice. Although I was quite upset with it all when I got back as I still like him.When we do text or talk on the internet, it usually goes to some kind of dirty conversation... but he said he wouldn't have sex with me as it should be with someone who I'm going with (as Im a virgin) which I thought was nice of him. We only broke up because he was going to College 4 hours away.I'm wondering if he still has feelings for me? Does it sound like he does? Is it possible we could get back together in the future? Do you always have feelings for Ex's?Just wondering your views on my situation.
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reader, siamaq18 +, writes (11 January 2009):
 Well I don't think he still likes you, If he did, he would've tried somehow to make it work before you guys broke up in the first place, sometimes when you go away from people, especially your ex, seeing that person at a time when you're not expecting it could be one of the best things that could happen to you because you missed that person as in you haven't seen em in a long time, so you think that its feelings that's coming back.But after you take that chance and you spend a few hours or maybe days with that person, you don't like em no more, so you don't want that person around no more. And as for the dirty conversations I think he does wanna have sex with you, but he's just acting like that just to block out the fact in your mind that he's coming on too strong. But if you want him back, remember he's still 4hrs away, it didn't work out then and I sure don't think its going to work out now.
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