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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 9 months now but I've known him for 2 years! and I love being with him, I love him so much I think about him all the time!! He lives 20 miles away from me but we still see each other a lot :D 4-5 days out the week. Also my family and a lot of my friends live in the same town as him but lately I've been getting told stories about how he has been going with other girls but I'm not sure if it's true, he denies it and says she would never do that to me cause he loves me! but who should I believe... my boyfriend or my friends? I really don't want it to be true, it would break my heart and i still haven't brought it up with him yet cause I don't know what to say :(.. last few days it's been playing on my mind and I can't sleep properly and I'm just not happy! I don't even want to get out my bed! and if it's true I dont want to forgive him but I probably will because I can't imagine my life wihtout him, he means everything to me! please help :(:( x Reply to this Question
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (11 January 2009):
 Believe him at first but be cautious at the moment. One of your friends yeah, might have seen him with another girl. But doing what? just talking in the street? There's nothing wrong with something like that! id ask your friend telling you these things and define exactly what he was doing. Plus his other girl might just be a friend from school/work or something.
After your friends gives you details, then talk to him, or post more info here so we can define the problem further.
Let us know how you go from there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2009): The only person who can really answer this question is him.
Just be up front and let him know that you've heard he's been seen around with other girls. Maybe they're just friends of his.
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