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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Theres a guy I've liked over the internet for a few years now, I've met up with him 5 times before, but he lives 2 hours away in San Fran.I've told him before how cool he is, he makes me laugh, makes me happy, can be myself around him, that he's good-looking, and that he's such a nice man.. and in reply he said that it was how he felt about me too. I've just passed my drivers test, so I drove up and stayed round his for a few days from the for the week (5th January - 9th) and we had a really good time, we acted like we were a couple.. and he was the one that initiated everything. Now I like him even more than I did before.. but I don't understand why he hasn't mentioned a relationship or anyting yet, I think it's because of the distance. I've basically spelt out to him that I like him (as you can see above) but nothing has seemed to come of it.I'm scared things will change between us, and I kinda like how things are with us at the moment, it'd be nice to be with him though. I don't know if he likes any other girls (hes been with 3 girls in the past 2 years) and he is the romantic type, so I'm expecting him to ask another girl out on like Valentines *as he did last year*, which would upset me after everything thats happened so far in 2009.I don't know what to do, shall I tell him? If so, it'll be over instant messenger as thats where we mainly talk. How should I say it? I don't want to seem too obsessed with him or anything, I want to be sweet about it (if it is the right thing to do)Does he like me? What do you think is stopping him from asking, as I know he isn't the shy type!!I just have a feeling the distance is going to be a problem for him (not for me) and thats the reason why he'd be against it, I don't see him as the LDR type. I like him loads.. I just don't know what to do about him.
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reader, PunkyPippi +, writes (23 January 2009):
 I would call him on the phone so he can't avoid your questions and tell him you like him and you're interested in having a LDR with him. That's the only way you'll know. I don't think you'll seem obsessed because this would be a normal progression in a relationship that seems to have some genuine deep feelings involved on both sides. Please just call him!
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