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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009): So what if he calls you every day to tell you about his day. Wake up, he hasn't seen you for two months and he keeps making up excuses why he can't see you. He isn't emotionally available to you, he isn't physically available to you, and now it seems he is keeping time with another woman.
Has he done something to indicate to you that you two are an item? Has he ever asked to be in a realtionship with you? Or do you just keep hoping against hope that he will be with you in the future because he calls you frequently?
He really is not into you the way you are into him.
He simply is not available.....What do you do now, you either accept that he is "just a friend" or you decide if that is not what you want and hearing from him drives you crazy and keeps you from letting him go...if it is the latter, ask him to stop calling you and move on with your life....it simply isn't worth it, waiting and wondering about this particular man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHaven't seen him since mid November. He calls me once almost every day to tell me about his day.
Tried to get together tonite... he called later and said it would be a lot easier during the week. I then overheard a strange woman in a store discussing her plans for the evening n her cellular, and the plans were with the man in question. There is absolutely no doubt about it.
So, what do I do now, aunts?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (11 January 2009):
You don't give enough information for us to work it out.
It could be that he just doesn't have time at the moment.
It could be he's avoiding you.
It's your decision about how long you hang around waiting for him before you move on.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2009): Not a lot of information to go on........if he isn't calling and spending time with you then he is just not that into you......no one is too busy if they really want to see you.....I'd say, let this fish go back to the sea.
It isn't you, he's just not available for whatever reason.
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