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writes:I've liked this boy from afar for about 15 months now, and haven't really spoken to him one on one. Last night, I was out at a club and we ended up speaking and spent most of the night kissing.I think it was just a few drunken kisses (we both kissed other people on the same night) but I'd love to take it further. Any ideas on how to approach this in a way that's not embarrassing if he doesn't reciprocate my feelings?
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reader, UnfinishedSymphony  +, writes (11 January 2009):
 If you got his number either just give him a bell or a straight forward text telling him you had a good time and do you fancy meeting up for a few?
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reader, michele21  +, writes (11 January 2009):
 Well did you get his number??? I would just say you know last night was fun we were both drunk.... I actually have had feeling for you for sometime wanted to know if you wanted to go out sometime more exclusive?? You have to be just upfront and honest that's the only way to do it these days. The worst he can say is no, yeah it might hurt but you will get over it within a day and move on.... I guess if you were kissing people you are attractive so just go for it, be honest, people respect you more in the end if you are. I learned that the hard way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2009): Just tell him you enjoyed kissing him that night and ask him if he felt the same. if so, then you will be on the track to having a relationship with him. if he doesn't reciprocate, then at least you won't have to waste your time on him and can move on.
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reader, shiraz +, writes (11 January 2009):
Just drop the hint but play it cool. Simply say god last night was a laugh but I enjoyed it! and wait and see what he says, you could be surprised by his reaction. Don't be afraid to be honest, if you lie to him from the start and cover how it is your really feeling you're never going to get a future with him and if you are straight out with him you won't be left playing the guessing game of does he like me? Was it just fun? etc you'll see if he's genuine. Don't lay it on too thick though, play it cool with him but stay honest. It may have been a laugh for him so don't pin everything on this hun. good luck! xxx
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