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writes: So, my boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 3 months,which will be in a few days. We're both 13. We hang out at school mostly all day together. My friend hangs out with my boyfriend every chance she can get at school. Like she'll see him before first period, and start talking to him (nothing wrong with that), but she'll usually have her arm around him, most of the time. That's usually after every period. Then,whenever we all have a class together, she'll be talking to him every single minute. A few days ago, we were working on our project and we had to get on the computer, so as soon as my bf sits down on at he computer, she runs over there next to him like the world will end if she doesn't get right there. And there were like 3 or 4 other spots she could've gone to. Then, on the day of our winter concert, when he walks in the door, she jumps on him like she hasn't seen him in years and it was only 3 hours. It seems like she likes him, but she keeps saying she doesn't. She's walking with him every chance she gets. And then the same day we have to get on the computer, when we're walking down the hall, my bf says his back hurts, so he drags his bookbag. The next second, she's helping him hold it like he needed her help. Am I really making a big deal out of this? I think she likes him, even though he's with me. And I think he sorta likes her, even though he never touches her.I ask her one day 'didn't you two go out last year', but she denies it, and I know it's true. Everybody thinks that they go out, so one day she said to him,'I hate it how we can't hang out without anybody thinking we're going out'. I want to ask both of them if they still like each other, but I don't want them to know that I can't trust them. Every time they're together, or I see them talking, I get jealous and the thought that they could possibly like each other pops in my head and I can't let it go. Sometimes I wish I could just keep them apart, but I know that's wrong, because they're friends. But I can't stop getting jealous. How do I stop and how can I learn to trust them? Thanks for any answers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you everyone for your great answers.I will take all
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2009): honey, it happens girl. and u have to deal with it, until it gets to him flirting with her.
cuz im sorry to tell u, but i was the one stealing the boy when i was ur age, and the girlfriends let me steal them, and i dont want u to do that. so as soon as he flirts, u can do something.
until then u have to just talk to him about building the trust both ways, so he trustes u to. and that will help u both
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2009): Well since hes your boyfriend you should be the one jumping on him sitting beside him talking with him and well helping him show him how affectionate you can be! Ive never had a real boyfriend because they never really liked me but.. the same thing happened to my friend and i just told her to get closer to him and stuff then BAM! her our other friend stopped being all flirty.
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