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Archived questions from: March, 2010 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

Is he just using me for a game or does he see a future even it is just with me as the "other woman"?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - I am falling for a male colleague 20 years my senior. We are both married and I know he loves his wife and she is pretty stunning. We have started texting and it is becoming quite sexual. He tells me things like he is feeling randy etc. We have als...

My wife was cheating with her cousin!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

29 March 2010 (M) - My wife cheated on me with her cousin. They had sex multiple times and she was staying at his house. This was all while she was on vacation visiting her family. She just started getting to know them all including her father. He ran out on her mother ...

My life has become a huge complicated relationship problem.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - i have a new problem, i still love my teacher and she still loves me but i have told her about my 'only friends' (student/teacher) policy because i know the consequences of pursuing a relationship. well now my friend ab has a crush on me and i am ...

How can we tell my parents about our relationship? Is this a bad idea?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - I'm a 16 year old girl and I have fallen for a 20 year old male. He is everything I have looked for in a boy. Just everything about him is just something I dream about. My parents told me they will put him in jail. I told them to give him a chance ...

Can people change?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - My husband had a 3 year affair with his niece who was 15 when it started. He was 30. He says she initiated it and that he was to far in to get out, he said she threatened him with suicide if he left her. He was raped by family members as a young ...

I feel unloved, both by my hubby and by the guy I had an affair with

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

26 March 2010 (F) - I am married and started seeing a married man. A little bit of history... I knew him back when I was 16 (he was 21) and we worked together. He never lead on like he liked me, of course I would catch him looking at me. I totally was crushing on ...

Should I tell my mother about my love for my cousin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

26 March 2010 (F) - First off I already know this could be considered incest, but that it's legal in the US, at least in this case cause he's my cousin. He's the son of my grandmother's half brother, correct me if im wrong, so he's my 1st cousin once removed. Back i...

Attracted to my brother in law! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (F) - I have been with my husband for 17 years. I have known my brother in law for that time. He is also married for the last 4 years. all I do is think of him. He is married I haven't told him and probably never will. I love my husband and respect ...

Will our baby have a birth defect? No judemental answers please.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

24 March 2010 (F) - im having a relationship with my 1st cousin. I love him so much i would die for him and he would for me the thing is we want to have a baby but im afraid it might be born with a birth defect. I know what people are thinking were sick and its gros ...

Worried that I may have went too far with my cousin!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (F) - My cousin and I went out drinking together, alone. We are both in our early 20s (he is slightly older and I have always looked up to him). We got utterly smashed and some of the night is hazy, but I'm almost positive I remember everything (I never ...

Would a relationship like this be wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

24 March 2010 (F) - Hey guys, I like this guy and he likes me. Thing is he's a teacher and I'm nearing the end of my 1st year of college. He's also a lot older than me. My questions are: 1. Would a relationship with him be legal? We didn't admit our f...

Is this tutor fair game?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

24 March 2010 (F) - I'm not really sure how to go about asking this, so I'm just going to jump right into it. I have a tutor for my science class that I really like. He tutors me once a week and we get along great. I flirt with him a lot and I'm pretty sure that he ...

My student/teacher relationship is going good, but he feels anxiety about how we started!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

22 March 2010 (F) - Okay, So Im interested in knowing what people think of this situtation, if not for myself but maybe for my current boyfriend who is struggling with some issues. As a senior in highschool I took a class with a teacher my older sibling had had....

I've fallen for my best mates ex girlfriend, and am leaving to become a marine. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (M) - Hey people, I seriously need help .. Ive recently fallen for a good friend of mine but we really shouldnt go out.. There is almost everything wrong with this relationship.. *She is my ex girlfriends best mate *She is my best mates ex girlfrie...

I want to be accepted my muslim girlfriends family.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

21 March 2010 (M) - My girlfriends mum has recently found out that her daughter is dating me and she will not accept it as she is worried that the rest of her family will frown upon it. They are a Muslim family and they will not accept me, a White British male, even ...

Should I cling to the hope we will fall in love one day?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

21 March 2010 (F) - I’m 13. I’m a really competitive basketball player, and I have been going to this training place for, oh, 2, years or so, to help with my conditioning. My problem is there’s this trainer who I have a huge crush on. Let’s call him “John”. He’s 22. ...

He's married but I got pregnant and now he cheats!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

21 March 2010 (F) - I have a very serious problem i met my kids father 8yrs. ago and we started out having sex before we got to no each other i was very sexual back then i was young single, no kids and very dumb and i meet him and i was instantly hooked the sex was ...

Student-teacher relationships, and the importance of keeping it strictly professional

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

20 March 2010 (F) - I met my social studies teacher in 6th grade and since that day I've never stopped liking himm. On a personal level him nd I are best of friends on a professional level we're still best of friends and its because we get each other I get him he gets ...

I desire my cousin. How do I approach her on this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

18 March 2010 (M) - I am a 21 year old and my cousin is 20 and we are very close. She is my best friend and we have grown up together. When we were little we would bathe together and always hang out and once we got old enough we started to play the doctor game wher...

Does my teacher's behavior mean he likes me in the "wrong" way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5389 days ago

17 March 2010 (F) - I need to know if this teacher in my school who doesn't teach me likes me. I'm being very serious, I'm not giving him any hints or egging him on that I like him. In fact, I wish I didn't like him...it would make life so much easier right now. Oh ...

Does my teacher's suppressed smile hold a hidden meaning?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

17 March 2010 (F) - Although he is friendly and chatty, he has a very dry sense of humour and is oh so serious and VERY level headed. He is definitely not one of those people that will laugh at every little thing, he is selective in what he finds funny, but he isn't ...

I love my mistress but I feel bad for leaving my wife and kids

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

17 March 2010 (M) - I am 35 years old, married for 9 years with 3 kids relatively young - 7 and twins of 4 years old. I met a girl 4 years ago (Kelly) but we really started to see each other more often like twice a week over the past 4 months, before it was once a mo...

I have developed feelings for my 14 year old student, how do I forget about this and get over him?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

16 March 2010 (F) - I am a teacher. First of all, I would like to state that I am 27 and have *never* had a crush on anyone younger than me! I also know that what I'm about to write makes me a pedophile, so I am asking you not to call me names; I deserve them all. Tha...

We're in love, but her Mom wouldn't approve

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

15 March 2010 (M) - I am in love with an amazing girl,though she is like a family member to me,we have known each other since the begining of our lifes (or for as long as we can remember or been told) her mom is like my mom she took care of me when I was a baby,I ...

Should I tell my teacher how I feel even though he has just moved in with his girlfriend?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

15 March 2010 (F) - I love my teacher so much. The other day I found out that he has moved in with his girlfriend I didn't think that this would affect me but it did .I can't stop thinking about him should I tell him how I feel?...

Should I tell a friend about to get married that I have feelings for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

14 March 2010 (M) - im in love with my best friend but she is getting married in a few months. i feel jelouis when i see them together or hear about what they have done. do i risk our friendship by telling her? and how do i get over my feelings for her and move on?...

I really like my best friend's boyfriend. How do I deal with my feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

13 March 2010 (F) - Hey, I really like this boy... he's so sweet and nice to me... but the only problem is, he's my best friends boyfriend. I love my best friend so much. i couldnt cope if i ever lost her.. and when i started having feelings for her boyfrien...

My crush on my teacher who doesn't see my good qualities, is keeping me from dating guys that do...how do I get over this crush?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

12 March 2010 (F) - I have had a crush on my teacher for a year or so, and every day I look for an excuse to stay in his classroom. It's odd because some days we seem to have interesting discussions, and other days we just do our own work. From time to time I see him ...

He is letting his mother control his life, and I don't know what to do. can anyone offer any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

11 March 2010 (F) - My bf and I have issues going on. we are together for 3 yrs now. the problem i have with him is he cannot sleep by me at all. He owns a Vehicle so his excuse is he has to take his brother (age 17) to school. but when school give holidays he don't ...

When is close, TOO CLOSE?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

11 March 2010 (F) - I'm coming here, because I have no where else to turn and I'm in serious need of advice. I found this site and am hoping I can get some insight here. I am married, have been for over 10 years. My husband and I got married under less than perfect ...

Should I contact this married man and tell him how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

9 March 2010 (F) - I like a man who attracted me at first sight. hes family oriental man a good husband maybe with high flyin pay presentable mature but he's married with wife n kids what should i do? he has a wife who is not pretty why does she deserve him? i dont ...

Obsessed with a married man

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

9 March 2010 (F) - dear cupid i am 13 years old and there is a 29 year old that i am absolutely obsessed with. but he has no idea. he is married and has 2 kids, but i cant stop thinking of him and my "obsession" has begun to control my life. I need help before t...

In love with my step-sister

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

8 March 2010 (M) - Hello, ive got a problem .. i think im in love with my step sister, she isent my real sister she came to life with us whn she was 12 years old and i was 9 years old.. by that time we were just * friends * later when she was around 16 she went out to ...

I'm (almost) straight and married but I've developed a crush on my female boss. What now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

8 March 2010 (F) - Over the last few months I've developed a crush on my boss. (we are both women, she's straight and married. i practically straight and married.) And, I'm finding myself really obessing about her. Can't stop thinking...it feels like it's all i ...

Loving a teacher...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

7 March 2010 (F) - First of all, I'm 14 years old and he's somewhere between 28-35.I know this doesn't sound right but I've really got a problem in here.It's been three years already and I cannot get over him.This feeling is growing stronger and stronger because I ...

We went too far and feel guilty

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

6 March 2010 (F) - Today was my boyfriend and i 4 months anniversary and we indeed spend the day together.Today was the day we actually kiss so long and so deep,well whiles we were kissing he touched me alot,and he sucked my breast and afterwards we both felt bad,his ...

Does my teacher know I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

6 March 2010 (F) - Ok, so it's another one of those infatuations with a teacher... I'm 15 and he's my science teacher- got to be in his 30's, but it's hard to tell. We're not particularly close, but then he's not to any of the class. Some of my close friends and I ...

I fell in love with my cousin! How do I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

6 March 2010 (F) - People I need your advice here? My 1st cousin and I are really in love and he is 5 yrs older than me.we never really told each other that we did because it felt strange.It all started like this...My family moved to his town when I was like 10...we ...

I think I'm in love with my girlfriend's sister. Can I control this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

6 March 2010 (M) - Hi guys. I feel ashamed for even feeling like this, is it true you can't help who you find attractive? I have been with my girlfriend for four years now, and we get on 'ok' no problems at all. In this time I have also seen her sister grow i...

I am in love with my friend's mom, how can I seduce her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

6 March 2010 (F) - I know this is going to sound wrong but I need your help. I’m 16 years old and a sophomore living in CT. I’m in love with my friends mom who is 45. I know this sounds wrong but I’m really in Love with her. She’s beautiful, smart, wise and funny. ...

I love my fiance, but I want to run off with my best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

6 March 2010 (F) - I'm getting married soon. I love my fiance. We've been together since high school and have lived together for the past few years. A week before he proposed, I had started to be thinking about other men. I was so shocked when he proposed I got ...

My father says he will disown me if I date a black man!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

5 March 2010 (F) - My dad said he'll disown me if I ever bring a black guy home(I'm white and don't live with my mom). I'm attracted to guys of all races, and I find myself being attracted to black guys, more than white guys. Until I knew where my dad stands on the ...

Why do I keep thinking about my coach?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

5 March 2010 (F) - It’s almost been a year now that I first met my coach I would soon grow to admire and still do to this day. Here’s my (long) recap: Before tryouts, I had no clue what to expect from him, but I’d heard that he’s pretty fun to be around, etc. (He’s a ...

Stuck between two girls, both I really like.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

5 March 2010 (M) - Well I really don't know what to do. I kinda like two different girls, I say like because I'm not in love with either one of them and I don't believe in saying it until you mean it. Anyway the first one is Trish, she's beautiful, she's funny, ...

I beleive he's the one, but I'm not 100% sure if he likes me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5406 days ago

5 March 2010 (F) - Hey. I’d really like someone else’s prospective on this. It’s driving me mad! I’ve been msning a mutual friend for a year and a half ish and I’ve fallen for him. He’s the first person I’ve ever really liked and I don’t know why I like him. I’m real...

He's avoiding my questions and the situation involved.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

4 March 2010 (F) - Hi Aunts/Uncles, You are prob sick of me by now but here goes!! My husband has admitted that his texts to his 'other woman' (sex texting colleague) did have allusions to sex in them (well quel surprise, would never have guessed!!!). I...

She Told Me I Was Sweet..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

4 March 2010 (M) - OK today not thinking much on my interaction with my financial advicers assistant she called me wanting me to come in and sign some papers. This lady is 45 in great shape with 3 daughters in the high school age range and to beat all it see...

My friend's step mother is being abused and she and I have been kissing

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

4 March 2010 (M) - Okay this is a hard and kind of confussing situation for me and will take some time to explain... About 5 to 6 months ago i started to hang out with a good friend of mine alit more over at his house(just to let you know im 19). Right off the bat i ...

I only like guys twice my age

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

4 March 2010 (F) - Okay, well, I seem to have a problem. I'm a 16 year old girl, still in High School and everything. However, I'm attracted to men who are rather older than I (mainly older than 23, most of the time around 30). Guys my age just don't keep my ...

I have a crush on my basketball coach!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

3 March 2010 (F) - Okay well, im on the girls basketball team and theres a problem. My coach is young and the cutest guy ever. He's like a father figure to all of us, hes the nicest guy there is.. Whenever were hungry he tells us to stop by his room no matter when and ...