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writes:I am a 21 year old and my cousin is 20 and we are very close. She is my best friend and we have grown up together. When we were little we would bathe together and always hang out and once we got old enough we started to play the doctor game where we would show each other our parts. She then moved away around 12 to a neighboring city which we were still close and talked and everything but the games stopped. Once I got a girlfriend and started doing stuff those feelings turned into a fantasy about my cousin. That girlfriend ended up not working out and later around 18 and she was 17 I moved away to college. Those feelings arouse again. i started t view some of this information on this site and eventually got the courage to talk to her about it since we can talk about anything. She said that she was not ready to do anything sexual because she wanted to save it for her frst boyfriend. I respected that and left it alone. She then moved up to the same college and started dating someone and eventually lost her virginity. We are close again and always help each other talk about sexual relaltions between our signigicant others. The question is I want to still do stuff with her to help us practice for our girl and boy respectively along with satisfy my fantasy with her. Normally i would understand no is no but she said not now because she wanted to save her self and she didnt really want to at the time. what should I do? How do i approach going after her again?
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reader, shaniii08  +, writes (15 April 2010):
 I just wanted to let you know its not incest to have a sexual relationship with a family member ... think about it.. adam and eve? thats for the religious people out there anyway, its just those close minded people who think its wrong. I think the only bad thing about a relationship like that is the impact it may have on the rest of your family. Its all you good luck x
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reader, Daisy Doo  +, writes (20 March 2010):
 I agree with timmD. Your only other problem is the rest of your family.....what would you say? Just think about that before you deside to ask her if she wants sex. xGood luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2010): She is your cousin - its incest to do anything sexual with a family member. Leave it alone.
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reader, TimmD  +, writes (18 March 2010):
 If you two are really that close, then I would suggest just being honest with her again. Tell her what you are thinking. For this specific case I would not suggest any other methods. Just be honest.
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