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writes:OK today not thinking much on my interaction with my financial advicers assistant she called me wanting me to come in and sign some papers.This lady is 45 in great shape with 3 daughters in the high school age range and to beat all it seems every woman lately has more then one kid not that this turns me off it's just wierd and funny for these babes are fit and fine and I don't see a bit of fat on they're bones and they look like their in their 20's.I have known this lady only in the business since of the relationship for now a year. What I noticed today was she had on jeans that had holes in the front thigh area they were designer jeans and I complimented her that I liked them and she said she wasn't really allowed to wear this type of jeans but she was the only one there when I was there talking and she hoped the financial advicer her boss wouldn't show up. She is normally dressed very conservatively key word conservatively but not today. She then started telling me about some man that made her uncomfortable about him almost having an accident when he saw her in a dress one day when he saw her getting out of her Lexus and she said it made her uneasy for the man was in his 60's and had said it was because of her was the reason he was putting all his money in their financial instuition and some other comments he made toward her that made her uncomfortable.She then said I was such a nice guy as I don't come across like that or creepy I said thank you but I corrected her and said no I am not a nice guy in the since that I dont keep to myself if I am sexually attracted to someone but I consider myself a good guy and when the time is appropricate they will know where I stand in which she says women know from the start wants on a mans mind. She then agrees and says to me yeah your such a good guy and your sweet in which I said well thank you.The weather was nice outside and she was looking forward to the weekend as she had plans to go out. I asked her so are you going out with your girlfriends and she says yes. I said it's good to have friends to go out with in which she says they're what keep her sane. She continued and said they had planned on going to a night club but that wasn't her thing so they decided on Atlanta Mall shopping instead. She said she was raised in church and didn't drink or party like that about the night club thing in which I thought thats a good sign. I noticed throughout this interaction her legs were wide open facing me and she appeared a bit nervious in a good way. Before I left I said to her I am not promising anything but maybe we can get together some time in which she replied sure maybe lunch in which I said that would be OK in which I said we can talk some more in which she put her head down as if embarrassed not sure if that was a good sign as she was red in the face. My feeling is she hasn't been with anyone since her divorce is a possibility and could explain the red face nerviousness and I want to take this slow. She has previously told me she just loves a man with facial hair and said it's just somehing about a man with facial hair. I have a goatee and she even suggested how I should trim it like keep the sides shaved in which I do anyway this was suggested a few months back. She has been divorced for 4 years and she admitted she wasn't seeing anyone in a round about way because she told me her girlfriends the ones she will be with this weekend have boyfriends with motorcycles and they when the weather is good go riding and she usually is at home alone.Any red flags comments whats your take is this lady into me or is it just for a buddy of which I would pass if it is?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOK thanks, I definitely will ask her to lunch it's a atarting point and something during the day to make her comfortable with me in which she seems comfortable enought to be open with her personal life.
She does know my investments and financial status so she knows I am not poor but I don't want her into me only for that reason as that would be shallow but I also know the importance of having money to but she's not in the poor house yourself either.
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (5 March 2010):
I agree with previous reply. And don't take too long to make your move. She will lose interest if you play hard to get.
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reader, brigid.imagine  +, writes (5 March 2010):
 It sounds like she has feelings for you- i would definitely ask her out for lunch if i were you! Really get to know her away from the workplace. Goodluck!
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