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Archived questions from: November, 2009 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

He has a girlfriend but wants me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - So I've liked this guy for a while but he's had a girlfriend as long as I've known him. I noticed he's been flirting with me somewhat since we first met but I assumed it was just his personality. Recently though, he's been asking me to kiss him and ...

Should I tell my sister in law that I'm in love with her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - I'm in love with my sister in law. My wife's sister. I think about her all the time. I'm just concerned about taking it too far. I am married with a boy and a girl. She is married with 3 girls. We are both in our late 30's but she is a couple of ...

I am a girl crushing on my Lady teacher

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - i think im in love with my teacher but i dont now the only problem is shes a girls and older than me im confussed and need help ...

Lesbian feeling for jon on the show my name is earl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5470 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - im a straight girl but i have a crazy crush on the charector joy from my name is earl tv show! like i printed out pitures of her and have had sexy dreams bout her shes the only girl iv ever crushed on but im like goo goo eyed for her like if i s...

I am foxy and gorgeous, and hot for my nerdy cousin

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - alright so im a pretty gorgeous 19 year old 5 foot three 105 pound outgoing hilarious fun foxy lady haha basically iv never in my life have had an issue in dateing. Guys love me i get them wrapped round my little finger haha :) my issue is i total...

I was not the teacher's pet, I was the teacher's flirt

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - A year or so ago, i had some problems with a teacher (lets call him Mr H). Essentially he behaved very innappropriately with me, touching and other worse things. This teacher was married and in his mid forties. There is one thing about it that co...

My husband is a devoted teacher, maybe too devoted to his....work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I can't believe it's come to this-posting an anonymous question on an advice forum. I hope someone can help! It started a while ago, four years ago. My husband is a teacher, a very dedicated devoted teacher who is respected and high up in his s...

I am just so in love with him, what shall I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I need help. I keep having sexual dreams about my teacher and i really want to tell him. It feels that everytime i see him i will explode because i want to tell him. He is so sweet and cool. He is my p.e teacher so he is in great shape. He has th...

What should I do about my parents rule?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - ok so im 16 and my bf is 19 and i love him more than anything but my parents have this 2 year rule that i cant date anyone that is more than 2 years older than me but they wont even meet him and give him a chance he is a great guy nd ive been wit ...

Cheated and fell in love..what now?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - Here's my predicament... I've been married 17 years, contently, i would say, but not always happily. I love my wife but am not in love. we have two children (14 and 7). Two years ago, I started an affair with a co-worker. She and I each seemed to ...

Should I tell my family I am in love with my cousin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I'm in love with my cousin.he has been living in my house for two years. I confessed to him about being bisexual so he confessed to me about being in love with me. I have always had feelings for him. when we were kids I even had a crush on him but ...

How do I get over my impossible crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 17 and I'm a senior in high school. I have this crush on my teacher--well, he's going to be my calculus (and homeroom) teacher next semester, in a couple months. But he's also my assigned guidance counselor, and I've told him some personal ...

My ex bf's new wife has a brother...and we are seeing each other! Is this going to be a problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5475 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - Ok where do I start? When I was 17 I had a child with my boyfriend/fiancee at the the time. As time passed we broke up. Dated for about 3 yrs. Now our son is almost 6 years old. My ex has married another woman that I know. No hard feelings. I'm ...

I think my teacher may have feelings for me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - Please help... I think that my teacher may have feelings for me. He gets me out of class and I go to his classroom. I catch him staring at me and he always gives me good grades on assignments. He does things that he doesnt do for other students...

I am crushing on a student of mine! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - I'm a teacher. I have recently found myself attracted to one of my 6th form students (only 17 years old :S) I would never act on this but feel continuously guilty. I am in a long term relationship which makes it even worse. What can I do to stop ...

I am crushing on my math teacher and he found out!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - Well fo starter I'm 14 and in Year 9 at the moment. But, I have the most gorgeous and amazing maths teacher ever! I love him so muchan can't keep him out of my head. We have a good laugh together and he is a great teacher. Anyway, A few weeks back...

I have a crush on my older sister!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

24 November 2009 (M) - i'm 14 and i have a crush on my sister shes 18 and i cant stop thinking about her i can think of something that has nothing to do with her and in the end i start to think about her again is this normal?...

Am I in love with my uncle's wife or is this just an obsession?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

24 November 2009 (M) - dear cupid I'm 20 years old and I have a big crush on my uncle's wife she is 32, their marriage is not that great and I hear them argue on the phone a lot ,they have one child together, she has a doughter from a past relationship, my aunt and I ...

What happens AFTER you tell someone your feelings and they just want to be friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

24 November 2009 (M) - I need some advice dealing with a one-sided love I have. I work with this wonderful woman and we are good friends. We joke, flirt around, and play fight all the time. We listen to each other and give each other support. Over the last couple of ...

I am in love with my sister's boyfriend's son!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Dear Aunts. Please Help. A Few Months ago I Got together with my sisters partners son. Hes 16 im 20. it took a while for us to admit how we felt and 1 thing led to another. my sister then split from her partner and he and his son left. i ...

Is it wrong to want to have sex with your first cousin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Is it Wrong to want to have sex with your first cousin? I have liked him since i was very young, around 14 or so, first it was wishing i could kiss him(which ive never done) but since i turned 17 its been to actually have sex with him...(ive had m...

I have a boyfriend but I'm developing an attraction for a guy at work. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and I love him to pieces. Recently, I met this other guy at my job and we've been talking a lot. I'm starting to have strong feelings for him. Its the best/horrible feeling in the world. No way would I ever ...

I need to get over these feelings for my best friend's husband!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I write this in tears. I have fallen head over heals in love with my friends husband. YES I KNOW THIS IS WRONG and HORRIBLE in everyway. I REALLY do love my friend. She is like a sister to both my husband and I. I've been married about 15 years and ...

I am a freshman and he is a senior. and I think I'm falling for him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5414 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - okay, so i am a freshman and he is a senior. and i think im falling for him... he is great and is always by me; hugging me, touching me. but he has a gf... what shuld i do?? i think im falling hard...

Have any other men divorced their wives to be with their sister in law?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - have men divoced their wives to marry their wife's sister? does this happen or am i the only one that is conteplating this?...

How do inform my friends and family I'm living with a new man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I am 27 yrs old and I ended my 5 yr marriage 8 months ago. My family loved my ex husband and were upset that we're getting a divorce. We have 2 children a 4 yr old and a 2 yr old who live with me but he sees on weekends. We decided to end our ...

My cousin jokes about a future with me in it, are his intentions honourable or should I be worried?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - My cousin nowadays says that if he wanted a girl it would turn out to be only me but later says that he was just joking and the next day he would say something like he would like to marry me because he would like me to be with him throughout his ...

In love with my crush, but he may soon marry. Should I tell him, or let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Ok .. so 5 years ago i had a crush on this guy which now turns out to be love. However, he doesn't know that. I cannot tell him because then the word will spread and that would ruin my reputation. He might get married soon! What should I do? Shall i ...

Is my teacher flirting with me? Could my crush be something more? Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Warning: This question is kind of long. I appreciate all opinions. Thank you for reading! I have a problem and desperately need some advice and help. I know I’m like the majority of teenage girls out there, who have experienced this at one poin...

Second time around 38 years later

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - I love this married woman. We were sweethearts as young teenagers. But trouble at home kept me at bay. I too was like one of the guys in a group. Gradually days without her turns into weeks then turns into months then years. 38 years have past....

Help me! I need to get over him...........

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5475 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - I don't know whats wrong with me but I really have come to realize I am obsessed with my former teacher. I thought it was normal to fall in love with your teacher but its already been 4 years passed and i still can't get over this crush. Everytime i ...

How can I convince her I'm not the same as her boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - OK I am feeling really sad lately. I am seriously in love with this girl. She says, she don't trust me because we haven't talked in person yet but we had known each other for almost 2 years. She has a possessive bf of about 3 year plus. She said...

He's 22. I'm 13. How do I tell him I love him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - why did i ever have to fall in love with him? hes 22 and im just 13 its cuz his so cute so nice and is always there when i need help, so nice and polite. i dont know how 2 tell him i need him to know but im afraid he will hate me. what c...

I'm in love with my professor.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - I'm in love with my professor. That first of all is the fact. I am now a graduating student in college, and this semester, he is not my teacher anymore. He was my teacher last semester, and I didn't feel this way. We only smile at each other when we ...

How to stop liking your teacher?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - Okay, so I am a student in my sophmore year in high school. Last year, during grade nine, a new teacher came to the school halfway through the year. Ever since then, I have had this thing for him. He's 27, so I would definitely be jail bait. He just ...

In love with my friends girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

20 November 2009 (M) - I'm in love with a girl and we get along really well and we're close but she's already going out with one of my best friends. Do i ask her out and lose a friend or keep it to myself and never know what would've happened?...

Which of these amazing girls should I date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

19 November 2009 (M) - (First off I would like to apologize for the length of this message. There's just some background information I thought might be necessary to put before my question) Hey people I am 15 years young and live in Maine. I have got myself stuck bet...

The woman I love is there, but ignoring me. How can I reach her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - Just over two years ago I met the most incredible and beautiful woman. She is a professional Dominatrix and I had sought out her services to indulge some 'kinks'. However, we hit it off and never did anything professionally. We became really good ...

How can I tell my ex I love him without making things awkward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Okay, so; me and my boy friend broke up and I still have feelings for him, and I don't know how to tell him. I kinda thinks he still has feelings for me too he always flirts with me, and texts me. But I just need to know how to tell him that I still ...

I am in lust/love with a straight man... or do I just miss my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

16 November 2009 (M) - Hi Guys + Gals I am in a strange situation which is pulling me apart. I currently live with this guy who I met in 6th form and we bonded really well. Since I met him I was attracted to him, although he is straight and has a girlfriend. (he kn...

I am in love with a girl, but she has a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

16 November 2009 (M) - Hey I'm 16 years old and i'm Having Problems. I realy like this Girl i know and i Cant stop thinking about her. thing is she has a Boyfreind alrdy. I'm lost i'm not relay Used to being in love as i'm no ladies man shall we say I dont know wh...

How do teachers (especially in the UK) deal with student crushes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

16 November 2009 (M) - How do teachers deal with student crushes? In the UK if a teacher found out a student has a crush on her/him, do they reported immediately or do something maybe tell other teachers about it? etc or do they just keep it to themselvves?? Just wo...

I slept with my ex, even though he has a new girlfriend. I want him back, how do I do it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - Okay, so I have a kind of bad story, but I need some advice, without bad comments please. So I have been talking to my ex whom I dated about five years ago. I am still crazy in love with him, and he told me there is no reason why he would not go out ...

I never told him that I loved him! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

16 November 2009 (M) - please give some pieces of advice.... my problem goes this way.. i am an ESL teacher for more than a year. i told myself before not to fall inlove with any of my students. but after a year i met a new student who comes from Osaka Japan, he had be...

He's 17. I'm 15 and his parents don't want us together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - [Moderator Note: Personal information removed] my Boyfriend is 17 and he is going 2 be 18 june 1st and i really love him and want 2 be with him but i am 15 and his parents don't want us together bc of age.. i don't know what 2 do bc we are going ou...

Should I end my hook up arrangement with a much younger man to save myself from being hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - hi, i am secretly seeing a guy who is only 22 and im 37. iv known of him for a lot of yrs as hes quite friendly with my daughter. We have fantastic sex, but we both agreed that it was just for the sex. We have only been seein each other fo about a ...

I am in love with my best friend.... oh yeah....and btw...she's a married woman.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

14 November 2009 (M) - I am in love with my best friend and she is married. I feel so bad about it, but I can't ignore my feelings anymore. It seems like the more we hang out, the more I want to be with her. I have slept with a total of 43 girls (2 of which I was in a ...

Help!!! I think I am in love with my teacher.. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - I have a big problem. There is this teacher at my school. He is single, and he is 24 years old and I am 13 and I think that Ii love him. He is an awesome person and I dont know wat to do about it. I need advice. Am I wrong? Should I give up? ...

Are these reacurring sex dreams a sign that I am a pervert?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

13 November 2009 (M) - I have been having reacurring sex dreams of me and my 15 yr old niece. When they happen i wake up in a cold sweat. Once i even ejactulated while i was dreaming. I would never do anything with my niece and now if i see her or talk to her i feel ...

I need advice on how to get this married guy out of my mind! Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - I jumped into an unhappy marriage 4 years ago. Although I've been working at it, I've always felt like I never found "the one". For the last 18 months however, I've found myself falling for a married man with children. I've never spoken to him ...