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Archived questions from: June, 2016 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

I have fallen madly, hotly in love with my sister in law

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3096 days ago

30 June 2016 (M) - I have completely fell for my sister-in-law , she even told her cousin I have the major hots for her and word for word her cousin came and told me , my brother has not done anything with her sense October last year and she is so grandly hot and it ...

Passion has gone from our private life. We don't get out socially together enough. How do I woo her back again?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

29 June 2016 (M) - My wife and I have been together for 8 years now. We met in China and for several years, things were rocky. Then after so much conflict and so many problems, things settled down. We are looking forward to our first home settling so we can move i...

We both feel uncomfortable around the other's family. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3096 days ago

29 June 2016 (F) - I am confused with my relationship. Long story short. My boyfriend and I have been together for four years but we are still trying to be comfortable with each others' families. Although when he talks with his family, I feel left out and he feels ...

How do I get over the desire I feel for my cousin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3098 days ago

28 June 2016 (F) - I've been in relationships before. Once married and now divorced. But I've never felt what i feel for my cousin. He is my uncle's son. We've seen each other twice during our childhood. But now, he is this accomplished man who's stirring this wa...

I feel that no one will give me a break. How can I gain more acceptance in a work situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3098 days ago

28 June 2016 (F) - I feel like I'm being discriminated against at work but it's the restaurant owner! I messed up in the past and felt VERY lucky to have gotten the job I did. Right after my arrest, I applied for every job I could and landed a job as a barrista...

Would you go to a reunion with a brother who blames you for Dad's alcoholism?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3098 days ago

27 June 2016 (M) - Hello, I am the youngest of four. I have two older sisters and a brother. My dad passed away in 2008 and my mom in 2013. When my dad passed away my brother called me two days later blaming me for his death. He died of a bad liver due to drinking. My ...

Is something going on, or am I reading too much into this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3097 days ago

26 June 2016 (F) - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years we get on really well and his family are like my family the problem is any woman that walks past he stares till she's out of sight now he received a text this morning asking saying is this for instance john ...

Has he agreed to see where things lead?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3100 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - I had been seeing a separated man for 2 months. He has been separated for 18 months. He has been very open and honest with me about his difficult divorce he is in the process of. From the start he told me he wasn't sure how much he had to give ...

How do I tell my parents? What should I say to my Auntie? Is the age gap too much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3098 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 months is 14 years older than me (me, 19 years of age) we are happy together and take our relationship seriously. My parents are still not aware of this relationship as I am worried to tell them just because of his age. However ...

Before I met her she had sex with my cousin. How do I get over this fact?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3101 days ago

24 June 2016 (M) - I met this girl months ago and we've been dating since them, i'm really trying to forget and avoid jealousy but it's not easy! The fact the i have sex with the same girl my cousin had bothers me too much! I think about breaking up but i love her...

What's your opinion of age gaps? Does he really like me? Or does he have a different motive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3100 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - Okay so first.. What's your opinion on age gaps?? What's to big of an age gap? There is a guy at my work ( I work in a factory) who works second shift while I work first. He is 12 years older than I am. When I very first started working there he...

He says I do not set aside enough time to spend with him. What should I say or do in response to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3102 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I am in a relationship with a guy from my office. I'm a self confessed workaholic and he is always complaining that I don't make enough time for him on the weekdays. However every alternate weekend, he goes to his parents house where he maintai...

What would you do if faced with these situations from his family and the friends from his country.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3103 days ago

23 June 2016 (F) - Hello I am middle aged and have been married for over 12 years. Both my husband and I are from diff countries and our cultures are different. I moved to Canada and married him, im from UK and hes from another country There have been times whe...

Beginning to hate this marriage. Is he just trying to control me via money I earn? What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3103 days ago

23 June 2016 (F) - Really could do with some help. I've just passed a course so I can teach English to foreign students. My husband is from Poland and wants me to go and live there with him. Five years ago I gave him a few thousand pounds which I never saw again and ...

I am low on his list of priorities!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3103 days ago

22 June 2016 (F) - I feel like my boyfriend does not have time for me anymore an am not sure of what to do! Basically there is a culture clash and his parents want him to have an arranged marriages which he has refused to do as he is with me But I feel like everyt...

I am really frustrated with my husband inability to handle marriage issues

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3097 days ago

22 June 2016 (F) - I am really frustrated with my husband inability to handle marriage issues. I am not the kind of woman that turns down sex from my man but yet I feel like ever since we married my husband puts in no effort causing me to think he will be tempted to ...

What if he doesn't know to communicate? How can I bring back our sex life in our marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3103 days ago

22 June 2016 (F) - Married my LDR husband after 9mths and a baby 5mths later. I will have to say things happened so fast that I failed to realize we will have to put in work to spice up our sex life. Our current situation is not allowing us to step it up. He just mov...

Is he serious about our future?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3093 days ago

22 June 2016 (F) - Hi all, I am in a long-distance relationship. I am from Italy, my partner is Spanish and has been living in Germany for over 15 years now. He was unemployed for ages but now has a good job, it is on a contract basis but they love him and have sai...

How do I deal with his hateful family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3103 days ago

22 June 2016 (F) - I'm married to a man from a different country than myself. I cannot stand his family. They are very controlling and using people, and I don't want to know them. Is there anything wrong with that? I don't believe that just because I married my husba...

How do I tell my husband nicely that due our circumstances its not a good idea to have his kids at our home?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3104 days ago

21 June 2016 (F) - My husband wants to get his kids (16 boy,13 girl, and 8boy)today but we both work from 6am-6pm M-F. There was no date given when they will be going back home (mothers house), last visit they stayed 3wks. We are having some financial issues right now ...

My husband wont talk to his 26 year old that doesn't work, bathe or interact with people!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3105 days ago

19 June 2016 (F) - Hello. In searching for an answer or at best some understanding to a terrible situation, I found this sight. To say that I'm thankful is an understatement. I have a 26-year-old stepson whose hygiene and overall laziness drives me crazy. He doesn't ...

How should I behave when I meet his parents? They live abroad and I don't speak their language.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3105 days ago

18 June 2016 (F) - Hi agony aunts! So my boyfriend and I have been together for a while now and we've decided to take the next step. Meeting the parents! Problem is his parents live abroad and I can't speak a word of their language. We're staying at his parents...

His daughter won't accept me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3105 days ago

18 June 2016 (F) - I have been with my partner for just over 4 years. I have a son of 15 whose father died and he has a daughter of 22. Her mother walked out on her when she was 10 and she hasn't seen her since. My partner and I bought a house together and when she ...

How to stop my family buying me unwanted unnecessary gifts? Solutions needed, please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3108 days ago

18 June 2016 (F) - My parents and grandparents keep buying me things I don't want or need. In the last week I got two puffer vests, a pair of cheap trainers and a shirt two sizes too big. I appreciate the gesture, but the regular buying of things I don't need jus...

How can I make my mother see he's changed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3105 days ago

18 June 2016 (F) - I'm in need of some advices )': I have a boyfriend of 2 years and at the start he was treating me quite badly but slowly he changed and is the perfect boyfriend for me now. He loves me, he respects me and he dotes on me. He accepts my flaw,...

What is my Bf's mother's problem? I try to be nice and friendly and she is horrible back to me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3105 days ago

17 June 2016 (F) - I went to visit my boyfriend (23). First thing she says is your eating at this time, looking down on me. She is then silent. I felt awkward. So I tried to start a friendly conversation. I said my sister got 3 kittens to look after. She said how...

Why did my boyfriend tell me to be a good girl while he is overseas on a trip?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3105 days ago

17 June 2016 (F) - My boyfriend is travelling overseas to visit his family. He just texted me before boarding the plane saying he will miss me and that he'd see me in a few weeks. Then he told me to be a good girl for him while he is gone. That he will be a go...

Family put downs. What can I do? The problem is I do need them, but I need my space too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3108 days ago

17 June 2016 (F) - My family won't let the past go. I got pregnant at 18 and moved back home. I moved back because I failed out first semester. I was really let down and depressed at how mean everyone was to me and couldn't get out of bed. I found out people I t...

How can I overcome my insecurities that are driving me nuts ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3105 days ago

17 June 2016 (F) - Hi, Thank you for reading... I am so insecure, I don't understand why. I've been dating this guy for about 9 months. Our families have met, he lied to me and told me that I was the first one that he had introduced to his family and later h...

Is it wrong to sleep with my sister's boyfriend's best friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3109 days ago

16 June 2016 (F) - I have been single for the last year epically failing with guys and dating.. I can never get past first kiss.. And for a girl with a high sex drive that can be pretty frustrating!! Last night we all went out to celebrate my sister's boyfrie...

Money, jealousy, love and complicated families. How does one negotiate around these challenges?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3107 days ago

16 June 2016 (M) - I was hurt to see how people mostly think about money... I've alway had complicated relationship with my father and his family. Not to justify him or anything but he's a deeply damaged man. After leaving my mother he never supported me emo...

Newly married but feel so guilty about my cheating. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3109 days ago

16 June 2016 (F) - I got married to my boyfriend recently whom I was with in a long distance relationship for 3 yrs. We still live apart as I have not moved to his city yet as he could be taking a transfer to mine. I have dark secret which haunts me even now. Las...

How can this continue with me losing my sanity? I have a wife and a girlfriend who are both amazing.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3108 days ago

15 June 2016 (M) - I've been having an affair with a much younger, beautiful and sexy woman for over three years. I am in a fairly good marriage and we've been married for 22 years. My wife and I are on the same wave length. We've been through a lot together and are...

Am I being paranoid or is my husband a cheater?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3108 days ago

15 June 2016 (F) - I have been married for over 25 years, but am currently separated from my husband due to various issues. One of the issues is suspected cheating, which my husband denies. I just wanted to hear other peoples perspective on this, as my husbands...

4 years with my Bf. Do you think I am wasting my time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3111 days ago

15 June 2016 (F) - After 4 years with my bf i asked if we will ever move together and he started mentioning its too expensive and he just wants to live at his mom's house. Does this mean im wasting my time in here?...

Drunk boyfriend troubles. What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3111 days ago

14 June 2016 (F) - I accused my partner of lying the other night as he was coming back from a party and fell asleep on the bus. He then took a taxi from one town drove straight through the town that he was meant to meet me in and onto the next town. He told me this...

Cannot stomach this toxic dynamic any more. How can I deal with my toxic mother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3109 days ago

14 June 2016 (F) - My parents are in their 70s. My mother has a very difficult personality and I feel really negative around her. She splits people up within our family, picks fault with everyone (me, my sister, my neice and nephew, my auntie - you name it) and ...

My boyfriends mom is overbearing. She follows him around?? Need help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3112 days ago

14 June 2016 (F) - We are both 23. He lives with his mother who has been out of a job for the past year. When I am there (23) and we are in his room she calls his name every 30 mins to do something for her. Its obvious he finds it annoying but he is always polite and ...

I broke the engagement, but what did I do wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3112 days ago

13 June 2016 (F) - Hello all. I'm new here and seeking some assistance with an issue I'm presently dealing with. I appreciate all who answer and want to apologize first hand for possible grammatical errors. Here goes: A little over two weeks ago I decided to call ...

My mother complains she doesn't see her grandchildren, but she is always hungover!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3112 days ago

13 June 2016 (F) - hi everyone hope someone can give me some good advice it is not relationship problems but a family problem my parents split up 8 years ago my mam now has a new boyfriend since she has got with him she doesn't bother with her grandchildren she has 6 ...

I am going through hell with my 15 year old!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3111 days ago

13 June 2016 (F) - Not sure if this is the right place for this question I am currently going threw hell with my 15 year old daughter, she's my 4 th and youngest child. She's in with the wrong crowd and whilst not involved in drugs or drinks... She's involve...

He puts his family above all else. Am I wrong to be feeling concerned about our future together, considering his actions?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3112 days ago

13 June 2016 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a man for awhile now. There was that immediate spark and we being with him felt great and easy. He treated me better than anyone I had previously been with and made me happy. Gradually we started realizin...

Am I entitle to feel the pain of loss and grief over my parents' breakup? Including my loss of connection to the family home?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

13 June 2016 (F) - Hi there, I am 23 years old and live with my boyfriend of the same age. We've been together 3 years, lived together for 1. Recently my parents decided to divorce. They have sold the family home I grew up in and moved quite far away from me (...

Am I being selfish? Should I persist and continue with this relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3111 days ago

12 June 2016 (F) - Hello, I have a lot going on in my life right now. I just got a new job that I love and my youngest just graduated from high school and is leaving the nest soon. I also started dating a new guy. He is very handsome, sweet and is in good shape. I like...

I'm in love with my brother's ex wife. Family are try to discourage me over this. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

12 June 2016 (M) - I am a 42 year old man who was married to my for 10 years to my best friend. Seven years ago she died. We have 2 kids together and I've been single ever since. Recently I moved so the kids could be closer to family and I met a beautiful young ...

Do relationships that start as affairs go the distance, or do they fail?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

12 June 2016 (M) - My dad left my mum (who his disabled with MS) for the 'other woman' - do these relationships that start as an affair (lies, deception) typically last? How can his new parter trust him? She must be insecure that if he can do it with her, he will DO ...

Should I tell my boyfriend that we have finished for good?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3114 days ago

11 June 2016 (F) - Should I tell my boyfriend that we have finished for good?. We have been in an on/off relationship for eight months. When he was 20, he had a couple of one night stands with women in their 40's and then had one other girlfriend before me, which was ...

His mother uses foul language and my boyfriend say I need thicker skin!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3115 days ago

11 June 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend (24) and I have been together for about 7 years. His mother never truly liked me. She told him I was ugly from the get go and expressed her jealousy in vicious ways. It is only until recently that she started warming ...

Wedding issues. I don't want to over-step any boundaries, but what can I do to help get things started with the planning of these events?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3116 days ago

10 June 2016 (F) - A friend of mine is getting married in November and I was asked to be one of her bridesmaids. Her sister is her maid of honor however her sister seems to be dragging her heels on the planning process for everything. It's almost the middle of Ju...

Is the guy married or not? I think yes...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3115 days ago

10 June 2016 (F) - My sister fell for a guy who turns out to be married and wanted nothing to do with him. He wore a wedding ring, posted photos of him and his wife on FB until a month and a half ago, which is when he really started to woo her. He lives in ano...