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Archived questions from: March, 2010 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Why doesn't my husband want any children??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - my husband and i have been together for 13 yrs now. we have 2 children although only one is biologically his. we have currently come across a problem. when i bring up the subject of another child, he says he doesnt want anymore. he knows that this ...

I want to know if I'm really in love? Is he the one for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - im 16 yrs old....i cant get this guy off ma mind......hes my cousin whose 14 yrs older to me......i think about him all the time....i miss him such sooo much wen hes not around.....my heart like skips a beat or starts beating a bit fast wen i think ...

Why is my son's father refusing to introduce me to his new girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - my son father and I are not together we haven't been even before my son was born. We have been having "relations" off and but when I found out he have a girlfriend it stop but he still asks . Just recently he has a girlfriend all of a sudden and ...

Wouldn't he have asked me out by now? Is he just flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5379 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - I have recently moved back to my home town, and i joined a local pub quiz, one of the blokes that is in our group i get on really well with, we do flirt with each other, and my friends all say he likes me and when we are in each others company he is ...

I'm at my lowest ebb, what do you advise?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - im so fed up with my life.please listen to me-hopefully you can advise. im 35 years old im living at home-why ? because last year my world fell apart. i left the guy who had been my fiance for 6 years. i got sick of the mental battering and he...

My parents are getting in the way of our relationship...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - i always restrict him from visiting me bacause of my parents and also if he tells me to come to his place the same i dont know how to tell my parents am going to his place...what should i do then??...

We are planning our wedding yet his family seem to be the priority over me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - My Fiance and I have been engaged for 2 months now and anytime we discuss wedding plans we end up argueing about insignificant details such as what type of menu his family would enjoy. He seems to be more concerned about having a wedding his family ...

He proposed but doesn't want to be seen with me in public or introduce me to his parents.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend studied together during our graduation programme and soon we bcame best of friends. he proposed me last yr and we had a perfect relationship for the first few months. then we had to return back to our respective cities after ...

Should I come out to my friend? How do I get my mom to believe me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - *OP's own title* My mom always says that I can tell her anything. So two weeks ago I told her that I was gay. She took it okay but she thinks that it's just a phase and that I'm not sure. I'm positive that I like girls and every time I tell her that...

I don't think my boyfriend's mum likes me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - i dont think my boyfriends mum likes me, i have been with my boyfriend for over a year now. and the other day, he said somthing that i didnt think he meant to say, he told me his mum thinks i moan to much, and just attention seeks? i know i moan, ...

Is my relationship REALLY over???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - I broke up with my bf last monday.. We have been together for 7 months. The reason why I broke up, one day I asked him about his facebook and he told me that his little bro is using his account and he doesnt want to open a fake account so he can s...

We are throwing my sister a surprise engagement party, but it is the same weekend when I have planned a trip away! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - I just found out that my sister is getting engaged this weekend. This is also the same weekend that I have a flight booked with my friend to go visit our other friend for the long weekend. I honestly don't know what I should do. My family is ...

My mum's dark secret...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (M) - I am very upset with my mother and I don't know how to handle this situation. My mother never gives me credit for what I remember. My dad was in the army and was being sent to vietnam. I was the oldest and my brother wasn't born yet. I remember ...

My mum has threatened to kick me out of the house if I don't do what she wants!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (M) - im 16, pretty independent, mature an very respectful. but lately ive been stressed out an realy upset cause of my mum. she is extremely controlling, in fact she grounded me until i am mature! my mum knows my dream is to be a great chef, and she ...

The sister is trying to keep us apart...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - I have linked with a guy I have fancies for over a year on facebook. He hinted he wanted to linkkk. There is mutual attraction between us. Whenever I see him his sister tries to keep us apart. She likes me and keeps saying I will do for him but ...

I don't want to go abroad when my parents move... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5381 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - I really want to stay in the country I am, but my parents are forcing me to go to Australia, which I don't want to. They want me to go in July. How can I stop this? I don't want to go abroad!!...

Why am I so shy in front of his family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5379 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - I have been with my man for a year, I'm 18 years old and he is 24. We love each other more than anything in this world and get on great, we spend all our time together and hardly ever argue. Thing is I have met his mum loads of times now since we ...

My wife was cheating with her cousin!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

29 March 2010 (M) - My wife cheated on me with her cousin. They had sex multiple times and she was staying at his house. This was all while she was on vacation visiting her family. She just started getting to know them all including her father. He ran out on her mother ...

He promised it would never happen again... and now the emails have started again!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - I have been married for a couple of years and have a beautiful son. Over the last 6 mths or so, I found my husbands email account open and he was asking his ex for nude photos etc and emails about their past relationship. My husband is away ...

Why did she and her mother pick him over me? He's a manwhore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

29 March 2010 (M) - Alright one of my best friends decided to this weekend take me out for some fun and introduce me to some new people and a few new girls in hopes of boosting my social life and just helping me move past a few bad weeks. We had an awesome time. I met ...

He wants me to let him go...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - we been together for almost close to 4 years now, my bf and me have an off and on relationship. we broke up many times and back together. for this past months, we been in a rocky life. we fought and we were then ok after patching up things. and ...

He loves another girl! But I can't leave him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - I am loving my cousin brother and he is also in love with me.for the past one and half years, we enjoyed as like other lovers. Trust me, he truly loved me. But now he says that he is loving another girl. I couldnt leave him. what can i do?...

Why are my sisters being so hostile towards my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - My sister, I guess you could say, has been kind of hostile towards my boyfriend. She says "he's fat" or "he's ugly." She also claims that he's too old for me (I don't think a three year age difference is much; I'm 18, he's 21). She's also con...

How can we tell my parents about our relationship? Is this a bad idea?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - I'm a 16 year old girl and I have fallen for a 20 year old male. He is everything I have looked for in a boy. Just everything about him is just something I dream about. My parents told me they will put him in jail. I told them to give him a chance ...

Can people change?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - My husband had a 3 year affair with his niece who was 15 when it started. He was 30. He says she initiated it and that he was to far in to get out, he said she threatened him with suicide if he left her. He was raped by family members as a young ...

Feeling guilt over leaving!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - I have been with my loving partner for three years now. The problem is i still have this guilt that i cannot seem to get over. I was married for eighteen years and my ex husband was a good provider, he was verbally abusive towards me, not interest...

Saw bruises on my brother that he won't explain ...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - My younger brother (13) is staying with me for a few days and yesterday I noticed he had bruises on his lower back and I think they go lower but I couldn't see. It looked like he'd maybe been whipped with a belt but I'm not sure. I asked him about ...

How can I get my mum to want to talk to my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - hey guys i dont know how good you guys are at thinking but i need some ideas and fast ... the thing is that me and my boyfriend have been going out for three months now and my mum still doesnt want to meet him and she wont let him in the house...

I want to move, but I'm not sure that my BF and his kids want to come with me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and half. We live together with his two children. I want to move, but I am not sure he wants to come with me, what do I do?...

My Stepmum has been critical of me lately, would it just be better if I left?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - Okay so here's the problem. My step mum and dad have been together for about 7 years, they were married 4 years ago when i was 11/12 i didn't really mind, so long as my dad was happy (he and my mum had split up when I was 2 and he hadn't had grea...

My molester is going to be at this dinner. Should I go?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - today me and my boyfriend will be going out to dinner along with his mother and brother it was all payed for his brother's company. ok here is were it get's interesting i found out last night that my mother whom i dont get along with will be there ...

I am worried my brother in law's son might try something with me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - I m 37 having 2 kids. Both studing in 12th and 10th standard. I m house wife and my husband is a worker in oil factory. My husband met an accident and is in hospital from last 3 months. My brother-in-law and nephew has been paying all the hospital ...

I think my step brother has a crush on me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - I don't want to sound bigheaded I just want to know what other people think. I think my future step-brother likes me. What should I do? My mum and da got divorced not too long ago and my mums partner has a son. The first time I met him he...

My mom is ignorant and annoying...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

27 March 2010 (F) - Ok, to make a long story short. My mom considers herself "open", but she's also biased and prejudiced and whatever doesnt seem right in her eyes, she opposes. I have a boyfriend, which my parents don't know goes beyond anything than a friendshi...

Do I continue to pursue my sister in law after my wife's passing away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

27 March 2010 (M) - Have known my sister in-law for 15 years, during the time of my wife's illness and passing I and the sister in-law where together and made all the decisions together during this time. Now 4 Months after my wife's passing my sister in-law stops by ...

How can I control my feelings towards him...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5381 days ago

27 March 2010 (F) - hi my old crush has a gf who goes to my school and I never got the courage to tell him how i feel. However i tried my best to get over him and now i keep on seeing him and the butterflys are coming back and i really dont think i should like him ...

Due a month before cousin's wedding, I'm maid of honor, can I back out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

27 March 2010 (F) - I'm due a month before cousin's wedding, and I'm maid of honor, can I back out? Currently it is late March. Two weeks ago my cousin asked me to be maid of honor for her wedding in early September. I'm due almost exactly a month before the wedding ...

An email from my abuser has brought back the memories, can I still have him charged?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

27 March 2010 (?) - I was sexually abused twice when I was six and once when I was nine by the same attacker. He took all my clothes off and licked all over my body. He put his penis in my face and rubbed it on my clitoris. He rubbed my clitoris and did many other se...

I have a 4yo and am pregnant, how do I improve my life for my children and me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

27 March 2010 (F) - Im 21 years old I have a 4 year old baby girl and im 16 weeks preg... I want to be sombody in life. But I don't know were to start. I fished high school but don't know how if my reading math ext is really bad. I want togo to school but I don't know ...

Should I tell my husband about what happened when I was a child?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

27 March 2010 (F) - Hi everyone when i was a little girl at the age 8/9 my big brother have sex with me i am not sure and can't remember what happen now the i am married and its in my mind. do u all think i should tell my husband about it. i feel so bad...what shou...

His mum says jump, he asks how high! How do I stop this ruining our marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

27 March 2010 (F) - this is my second marriage been married for 17 years I have 2 grown son's they live on their own and my husband has a daughter that she's married, after 10 years of our marriage my husband's mother moves into U.S. from middleast, our life has been ...

I am so worried my family will spoil my engagement party!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

27 March 2010 (F) - i'm so worried about my engagement party becos of my family will spoil it. they wont argue with my fiancés family, no. they will argue amongst themselves, about petty things, and it will just ruin everything, cos they cant be around eachothe...

My friends grandpa is dying, what steps should she take?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5384 days ago

27 March 2010 (M) - I have a friend whose Grandfather may be dying. Her Grandmother is in denial, and her Mother, who lives 10 blocks from him, won't even stop in to see him. He says he hasn't been to a doctor in twenty years and doesn't need to go now. My friend...

How can I stand on my own feet and support my family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

26 March 2010 (F) - Dear cupid, I'm a 24 year married Indian woman who has a one year old child. Two years back I got married to a man who does not take any decision on his own but always depends on his mother for anything, however trivial the issue may be. The prob...

If you were me in this situation... how would you feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

26 March 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has children from a previous relationship. I am fine with that. However, his babymother keeps calling him for for so-called rides. He is a Sedan driver. The first incident I was fine with it because she was drunk and stranded with their ...

He said he's spending time with his family... should I believe him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

26 March 2010 (F) - I have been dating this guy for almost 5 months now. We have known each other for almost 3 years. The whole time we have been friends he always tried to be with me, telling me how much he had fallin in love with me. So I finally gave him a chance, ...

I feel like my mom is interfering with my relationship with my brother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

26 March 2010 (F) - I'm 20, 21 in September. My brother is 20 in November. We get on so well. Like we have the same sense of humour, and the same views and opinions. We hardly ever argue, and when we do, he will come up to me within the next hour and start flicking me ...

Should I just get out of my daughters life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

26 March 2010 (F) - What should i do ? well i have 7 kids all together. my oldest one don't live with me because her father is a real ass . and the people my daughter live with i can't stand them at all. she's going to be 12 yrs old . now they r telling her lies about ...

My b/f is going back to India and I may never see him again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5384 days ago

26 March 2010 (F) - what can i do? please help! my boyfriend moved here from india two years ago. we have been dating about six months. im an american girl. we are in our 20s. his family back home is having tons of problems and he set his mind to go over there and fix ...

My family doesn't approve of my boyfriend and I fear I will be all alone if we break up!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

26 March 2010 (F) - I feel so alone! I've been with my bf for just one year and we're quite happy. Lately though we've quarreled more and more. Nothing too serious though, and he's always very sad afterwards and we make up quick. Anyways, this quarreling is making me ...